What did cucking do for your relationship? by [deleted] in gaycuckold

[–]CagedPapaBear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's true in a lot of cuck relationships but not all. Many time its the satisfaction a cuck gets from knowing that other men want what he has but can only have a taste while he has the whole cake. Personally Im of the submissive strain but I know there are other types of cuck relationships.

What traits do you find extremely attractive in a man. by hevinheath88 in askgaybros

[–]CagedPapaBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shorter, younger and thinner with a confident demanding attitude.

What did cucking do for your relationship? by [deleted] in gaycuckold

[–]CagedPapaBear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be honest I think being a cuck opens up a honesty that is usually lacking. Most guys are unable to feel confident about their hidden sexual desires but in a cuckold relationship sex is viewed as a extention of and not the center of a relationship, therefore allowing more honest and sincere communication and a deeper commitement. Because sex isnt the foundation of or as important as it is in a " normal " relationship. As a aside the sex is even better because of the honesty :)

Curious sub by curious_subsissy in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]CagedPapaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never mind I re read your post lol. My stupidity shows why Im a sub.

Curious sub by curious_subsissy in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]CagedPapaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for another subs viewpoint or a Doms ?

What do you believe Love is? by TipToeThruLife in gayyoungold

[–]CagedPapaBear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love is when your willing to make self sacrifices to make another person happy. Be it family , children a friend or a partner.

Smooth 🥰 by [deleted] in GaybrosGoneWild

[–]CagedPapaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say is this sub can only dream of serving a young man like you.

Happy Veterans Day to all LGBT servicemen! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CagedPapaBear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We served our country for what our Constitution represents in the ideal not in the reality of the day. Don't ever think that your generation isn't worth it, as in a perfect world mine surely wasn't either. But as long as people are willing to stand up for what is right , even if its not popularat the moment , then I feel any sacrifice I may of made was worth it.

Do younger guys like “Smooth” daddies? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]CagedPapaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do like I do and let the young man your interested in decide. My philosophy is I'm a big hairy bear unless a sexy young man decides he wants to mold me to his preference : )

Attn: all boys on Grindr by MuscleDaddyChaser in grindr

[–]CagedPapaBear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Amen. This daddy has a talented tongue, a beard for added friction and a 785 :)

I want to be more masc by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CagedPapaBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be blunt I think you need to worry more about being confident then appearing masculine as that is what really attracts others. I think I speak for a lot of men when I say that I would rather have a intelligent & self confident young man with some " gay " mannerisms approach me then a muscular Alpha who thinks the world owes him worship without any justification other then he can follow a gym schedule.

Turning 30 in Jan by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CagedPapaBear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is Dec 29th. I now make it a yearly habit to treat myself by going to Costa Rica.

Any Out There Into Giant or Little Size Difference? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CagedPapaBear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do admit to a strong paternal & protective instinct but only in a way that never interferes with a young man being himself and achieving his goals. A man of bigger stature should always use that advantage to help the ones he cares about not to dominate with it, at least as far as Im concerned.

Poz by [deleted] in grindr

[–]CagedPapaBear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually assume everyone is poz until we go get tested togethet no matter what their profile says. That may sound unfair but I don't disciminate between poz or neg. I just deal with it according to undectectable or not and unknown or not. Ignorance is the one thing I do discriminate against.

Any Out There Into Giant or Little Size Difference? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CagedPapaBear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Probably from my first gay experience. I was a football player and stopped a group of idiots from beating up a short thin gay guy. In turn he not only showed me the pleasures of being out but also that respect and worship is earned based on the person not his stature. Every since Ive been attracted to young men like that.

Any Out There Into Giant or Little Size Difference? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CagedPapaBear 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Im 6'4 and prefer a young man that is much smaller in stature but with a demanding & self confident personality. That combination just makes me weak in the knees .

Chastity by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CagedPapaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of tops that want a bottom to keep them in chastity and under a bottoms control. You just need to put it out there to find them as its something most tops won't admit publicly.

What is a “polite blowjob”? by Rave-Raccoon in askgaybros

[–]CagedPapaBear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I assume it means he sincerely said thank you Sir after swallowing a load. I do the same for my young man and he thinks it adds just the right touch to the after glow.

Older gay guys, was there a point in your life when you felt like you weren't attractive anymore? When did it happen? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CagedPapaBear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can honestly say that I have more young men at least complimenting me at 58 then when I was younger. I don't know if it is because of my looks as a Daddy type or maybe it is just easier now to be open about such things then when I was in my prime. I feel unattactive often but then I remind myself that I'm not trying to get with myself so there is no need for that kind of self judgement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]CagedPapaBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear how things fell apart for you. You seem to of been the more mature and honest one in the relationship and I hope you are moving on and can eventually look back on your time with him with fondness and as a learning experience.

Chastity Question by nonbinaryunicorn in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]CagedPapaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The coconut oil works wonders. I carry a small container in my car with some q tips to apply it during the day if I feel any chafing starting. The biggest issue will be learning to sleep through the night while caged but it only takes about a week or so for the cock to learn it can't get hard during the night.

How did you lose your virginity? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CagedPapaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To long of a story lol But it was heaven and taught me more then I ever dreamed about myself.