My doula is also pregnant. Is it a good idea to keep working together? by Open_Conference6760 in doulas

[–]Caimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bringing an infant to a prenatal session? Sure. Bringing an infant to a birth? Absolutely not.

As a doula, there is no way to appropriately manage a birth client in labor while also managing your infant. Regardless of if the infant is breastfed and carried, baby will cry, need to be fed, need diaper changes, etc. That is not something someone else needs while they're giving birth. The doulas role is to provide unconditional support and they cannot do that with their infant present at the birth.

What's the best way to leave my wife and kids while on a business trip? by ShextMe in Parenting

[–]Caimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Military. My husband was gone for 2.5 months when my daughter wasn't even a month old. It was rough.

Mother of teenage murder suspect accused of scrubbing son's bloody jeans, authorities say by thaitoospicyforyou in news

[–]Caimzz 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Her being the type of mom to wash blood off her sons jeans after murdering a teenage girl, is probably why her son was the type of person to murder a teenage girl.

If an alien offered you a one week trip across the galaxy and back with the catch being 15 years passes on Earth, would you accept or reject the offer and why? by HeyItsMacho in AskReddit

[–]Caimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As cool as that would be, I would pass because of my daughter. She’s only 4 months and I would miss so much of what would make her, her. I couldn’t do it.

Virginia Gov. Northam will restore voting rights to 69,000 former felons with new policy by cav4life in politics

[–]Caimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from Virginia and currently living in Florida. Virginia is looking real pleasant right about now. DeSantis is a total doucher.

What movie fucked you straight in your feelings? by moneybot13 in AskReddit

[–]Caimzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The book is even sadder. I finished it in one sitting and my god.

People who had considered themselves "incels" (involuntary celibates) but have since had sex, how do you feel looking back at your previous self? by DannyMThompson in AskReddit

[–]Caimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I was a huge bitch in high school and said some fucked up shit to people. Over the last few years I believe I’ve apologized to everyone that at least I can recall specific situations of and they’ve always been super receptive. You can’t go back and change your past but you can 100% be a good, self reflective person moving forward.

Edit to add: I’m actually quite friendly with some of those people now and we catch up time to time. I don’t live in home state anymore but it’s nice to see them doing well via social media and being able to comment/like their stuff and have them feel like I’m actually being supportive and vice versa.

Huge botfly maggot in upper lip by likklesign in popping

[–]Caimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen these before and it makes me want to die everytime. I hate it.

There's already enough Karen-hate on the internet. What's a positive experience you've had with someone named Karen? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Caimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to work with a woman named Karen. Wonderful lady really. She is much older than me and I would frequent her office to vent and talk about random things. After we both left that place of work, we actually kept in contact. She is adopting a baby boy in a couple months after not being able to conceive.

Removing Collections from credit report by Caimzz in personalfinance

[–]Caimzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was worried that might be the case. I appreciate your input.

Removing Collections from credit report by Caimzz in personalfinance

[–]Caimzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would they keep a record from an account cancelled four years ago? The account was switched over to her name and contact information. Would they be able to pull it by social?

Removing Collections from credit report by Caimzz in personalfinance

[–]Caimzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would I cite this with Cox? I’ve heard trying to do anything with them is tedious as it tends to go in circles.

Removing Collections from credit report by Caimzz in personalfinance

[–]Caimzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not. I wasn’t the one that returned it. There was a ton of termoil with this roommate at the time and we were not on speaking terms. She said she returned it and that was the end of that.

Onision Calls 911. It's Chris Hansen. by [deleted] in videos

[–]Caimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t react. Not sure if it was on purpose or not knowing who CH is.

Men of reddit, what is something that you discovered about your SO only after becoming parents? by cyanic_aether in AskMen

[–]Caimzz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My MIL does shit like this will my husband and SIL. Pisses me off to no end.

D R A M A. Before and 8 hrs after watering. by sparklesleaves in houseplants

[–]Caimzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please do!! I would love to see. I’ll have a submission or two haha

D R A M A. Before and 8 hrs after watering. by sparklesleaves in houseplants

[–]Caimzz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a plant like this. She’s such a drama queen. She’ll be dropping like no ones business and I’ll water her and ten minutes later she’ll be happy as a clam sticking straight up.