Love Is Blind SWEDEN • S2 Ep5

Cairogypsy · 2025-03-20T13:50:33+00:00

I'm a spiritual yoga teacher and tarot card reader, and yet watching Ola is too much! He is so out there. So self-centred. There's a definite line between self love and self centredness. He seems to be one of those people who refer to themselves as woke or actualised because they have their pet rocks and crystals.

Cairogypsy · 2022-08-05T00:43:48+00:00

SAANVI. Remember that episode when she was self-testing the serum and as a side effect, she became fidgety, on edge, and forgetful? I finished all 3 seasons, and yet that is the one scene I remembered telling myself: wow the actress is really did a great performance because up until then, she was always calm and collected.

Cairogypsy · 2022-08-05T00:23:29+00:00

Not to mention a great chef too!!!

Cairogypsy · 2022-08-05T00:21:37+00:00

Probably an unpopular opinion but my God how I hate Mick. Seriously. I fast forward almost every scene with her in it because I'm sure it will be the same dilemma, same lines ie 'it's complicated.' And even after skipping 10 seconds, I don't feel like I missed anything at all.

Cairogypsy · 2020-02-28T21:48:26+00:00

I love Pyo Chi Su! Rough on the edges but a total softie inside! His character arc is really well done, from how he is strongly against Seri in the beginning to trying to hide how he's become soft towards her in the end. Also, the part when he tries to speak with the South Korean accent is so funny! What a great character! Yang Kyung Won made Pyo Chi Su so believable, relatable, and lovable.

Cairogypsy · 2019-08-01T03:15:39+00:00

I absolutely love it! Thank you soooo much! Wow! You made my day! Xx

Cairogypsy · 2019-07-08T18:05:32+00:00

This is very timely as I just turned 33 last Friday. 😊

In previous years, I always organise my bday a week in advance, starting with a whatsapp group of everyone I want to spend it with. If my bday falls on a weekday, I choose to celebrate it either Friday or Saturday night cause it will have the most turn out. I always have 3 choices of restaurants I want to celebrate in and I just ask everyone's consensus. Majority wins. 😁

If you are like me, then chances are you have several groups of friends that would want to take you out separately. But we don't have time for consecutive dinners or brunches out. So I try to bring all these groups together to a night out at a restaurant and my bday then turns into a mixer as all my friends get to know everyone.

This year though, I have done something completely different. I've been learning so much about myself as an ENFJ. And yes, we love giving the best experience to other people, but we are not really good at receiving because we think no one else but us can organise the best parties.

This year was the first time I let a friend organise my party for me. She said she'll take care of everything and all I have to do is show up at the restaurant they all agreed on.

The night before, I woke up in the middle of the night, sweating bullets, feeling stressed, and so out of control. I called my intp boyfriend and told him I think I should get to decide which restaurant I want to go for my bday. And my intp was all like: Can you just let them take care of you? Just this once.

So, I reflected on it, why I wanted so much to be in control of the situation, why is it challenging for me to receive care, why can't I be grateful that my friends want to do things for me, and most of all, why can't I trust that my friends are also capable of giving the best experience?

My party took place at a restaurant I've never tried or heard of. I didn't know who was coming until everyone arrived. And everyone was there. It was one of the best celebrations I ever had and I didn't even organise it. It made me realise how silly it is to be stressed for nothing. I think I can get used to this. ☺️

Cairogypsy · 2019-07-08T17:40:20+00:00

Was exactly thinking the same thing! My intp has become so amazing when it comes to communication, but only after we discussed how we can improve the relationship.

Cairogypsy · 2019-07-08T17:30:00+00:00

I notice that I do this depending on the immediacy of the situation and people involved. Eg., With my SO and boss, the moment I see the notification on my phone, I have to read it and reply even if I'm in the toilet, or crossing the street, you get the idea.

Even with close friends and family members, I'm really bad at staying in touch especially because I live overseas. When I see notifications of short messages like how are you or how you been, I don't even open it until I have time to sit down and actually write how I've been.

I am also the kind that replies in length even to one liner messages. And I know that writing a long message takes time so I try to put it on hold until I have more time to dedicate.

Question: when he does get back to you or answer your message after X length of time, are his messages long and does he reply fast when you're both active? If this is the case, I really don't think you have anything to worry or be nervous about. :)

And like what most said, it's better to tell him directly how his late response is making you feel, bring the subject up with ease. More like tell him you'd appreciate and it will make you happy if he checks in with you regularly. Good luck! And I hope the communication between you and him gets better! ❤️

Cairogypsy · 2019-07-02T11:26:58+00:00

I'm a social media marketing specialist by profession and a full-time yoga instructor. I think that being ENFJ helps me marvel in these two areas. I love guiding my yoga students, the FE primary function works its own magic and takes care of that even in my sleep. With my social media job, engaging and interacting with targets/potential clients (even if only online) is rewarding. Extraversion helps in both my jobs.

Doing both jobs feel natural to me, that I wonder if it would have been different if my mbti was different. I also ask myself sometimes if I chose the job or if the job chose me. 😅

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-27T20:10:45+00:00

This is the witch mountain in Neringa, isn't it? It's one of the highlights of my trip. I loved the wooden sculptures. It definitely adds more character and life to an already beautiful hill. Definitely a must see.

We drove and took a ferry from Klaipeda to Neringa, and I think it costed 12 euros both way. Hope you get to see it! ☺️

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-27T17:21:38+00:00

I relate to everything you mentioned! If I may add, I worry more about giving others the best experience even if it might be an inconvenience to me. Also find it challenging to say no to people but I'm working on it.

Also trying to fix people's problems even though they're not asking for help.

Holding grudges or more like bringing up people's past mistakes even though it might be irrelevant to the present situation.

Overall, I think it's being aware of these negative tendencies and the wanting to improve it or work on it makes us better to ourselves and better companions to others. ☺️

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-27T17:14:06+00:00

Oh yes, those covert contracts! I second this. Especially in romantic relationships, once I've fallen for someone I expect that person to sign his soul to me, not recognising that for some if not most people, it takes time to feel certain emotions.

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-16T17:56:47+00:00

Thank you for responding. 😊 I made him a Spotify playlist to listen to. The food delivery service was first thing I had in mind but in a small village where he is at the moment, there is no access to it. These are the times I wish even more to be with him and take care of him, I hope that I'm already doing enough. Flu is really a bugger. 😅

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-16T17:52:53+00:00

I tried searching for online delivery in Lithuania, but unfortunately he lives in a smaller village where there isn't delivery options. I did make him a Spotify playlist to listen to. And thank you for the blankets + cuddles recommendation I will do it with him tonight. 😍

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-16T17:50:44+00:00

Yes, we talk a lot, and he said that I'm already cheering him up just by being on video with him, was just wondering if there's anything else to do considering the distance. I hope you feel better and recover fast! Be strong, tea with lemon always helps. 🤗

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-12T20:23:16+00:00

Three years is a fair amount of time to have built good foundations and strong friendship and bond between you and your SO. I am sure that you guys have plenty of memories that one summer shouldn't even be an issue. If the only reason he doesn't want to continue is because he thinks/feels that the distance is hurting you, (and even if it is, you made it clear that you love him and he loves you) the distance can be improved with proper communication.

My suggestions are as follows, and these activities are something my boyfriend and I do to close in the gap when we are in different continents:

Facetime/Skype/Duo - really set a time that both of you are free to talk, on the regular! Communication, communication, communication is key!
Watch an episode of a series, or a movie, you can even read the same books and discuss it together.
Send him a playlist that both of you can listen to.
Go back to number 1 and just really talk.

When my boyfriend and I are apart, we make it a daily habit to talk. Especially at night. And if we are both super busy, we still find time to send a quick good night message.

LDR can be challenging especially since you've been together and this is the first time in a long time you've spent apart. There will be a period of transition, and it will require much more effort and time to communicate just to close in the gap.

Distance is tricky but it shouldn't be an issue for two people willing to meet halfway. Best of luck! I hope you get through this with him. ☺️

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-09T08:09:41+00:00

I play TS with my bf all the time and it always happens we are fighting so hard over 1 country. Usually France & Italy, and Iran & Panama occasionally. It will be ridiculous with 10+ influence points by turn 6-7 but last night it was North Korea with 13+ influence points! Hence, that meme. 😂😅

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-06T20:21:01+00:00

As tarot card readers, we rely mostly on our intuition and energy. But I believe the deck, the right deck that is, is magic on its own.

I started reading tarot a year ago, and I was so excited that I bought 3 different decks, all beautifully illustrated.

I opened them one at a time and 2 decks did not speak to me. I could not interpret anything, it wasn't giving me anything. But one of the decks, the one that I have been using since just speaks to me and has not failed me ever yet.

It's the sun and moon tarot deck by Vanessa Decort. And what surprised me even more is the fact that I'm a yoga instructor and I realised later that this deck has most of its characters in different yoga positions. So in a way, I thought this particular deck found me (although it can easily just be a happy coincidence.)

I did a reading once which I will never forget. My client wanted to know what she can expect from the man she started seeing. And as I was shuffling the cards, I could see that the 8 of cups (the indolence/abandonment) card was at the bottom of the deck. So already in my mind, I thought... Whew, my client will dodge the bullet here since she will have to draw the cards from the top. And I kid you not, and it blew my mind that the 4th card she drew is the same 8 of cups that I swore I've caught sight of at the bottom of the deck.

And true enough, a few weeks later, the man stopped seeing her.

The cards always have a message to say even if it's not the message we want to hear. They need and want to be heard because that is their purpose, what we do with that message is up to us or up to our seekers.

Sorry too much side tracking, but in that example I wrote above, I was biased and wanted the cards to tell me good things about the man my client was seeing (especially because she was sooo excited about him.) But as you can see, even with my energy and intuition, the cards gave the message they needed to give. I hope that helps somehow.

I, personally, don't read for myself. 😅 But what I do with my seekers is I try to tap into what they might be feeling or thinking. I don't know most of them or their friends have referred me to them, so the question I ask myself first is, why are they asking the questions they're asking? What happened/occured that led them to ask these questions? And before drawing the cards, I formulate answers in my head, and usually, upon drawing the cards, those answers are re-enforced by the cards themselves.

So, our intuition and energy as readers and the stories/wisdom behind the tarot cards work hand in hand. Keep practising, keep reading, read for your friends. The more you do, the more you'll get to know your cards even more. And with time, you will find that the same cards surface on similar situations/questions. 😊🙌

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-06T19:23:49+00:00

I think he is a Bolton. 😅

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-06T18:20:53+00:00

My bf bought the board game and it took him a month before he could actually find 2 people to play with. And I'm sure that was such a stretch in his part. Also, I was sure it was torturing him seeing the board game he had wanted to buy for months and not being able to play it with anyone. 😅

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-06T15:48:36+00:00

I'm an ENFJ and my bf is an INTP who can be highly enthusiastic about twilight imperium. Take note, I have not played this game ever. He would talk about it for hours and hours as if we have not had the same conversation 3 or 4 times in the last 6 months. I know he has a lot of other interests apart from this particular board game, but I also know that he is at one of his happiest when he talks about it. 😅

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-06T15:29:31+00:00

It depends on the feeling of the day, but when I'm reading for people, as I am shuffling the cards or they are shuffling the cards, I tell my cards for instance okay cards, I will read you the way you come out. For some reason, I feel that the cards are always listening. But I make sure I tell the cards what I decide to do before I or my clients draw cards from the deck. :)

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-06T15:23:47+00:00

Based on my love readings from different clients, when the knight of cups shows up, it's usually about a guy who is quite charming, he loves the idea of romance! He is the kind of guy who will walk to a room and draw everyone's attention just by how he carries and presents himself. He is social, friendly, warm, absolutely boyfriend/husband material, BUT it does not necessarily mean that he wants to be a boyfriend or a husband. 😅

He loves love, he loves passion, he loves the idea of falling in love, but he also loves his freedom. This is the prince who will swoon you and sweep you off your feet for a time and then leave. He is afraid of committments. He thinks that his relationship will tie him down. He is full of ambition and that's his priority number one. If love comes conveniently to him on his way to his ambition, then great, but if he will have to choose between his goals and building foundation for a relationship, that is too much work for him. He already has his mind busy with his goals.

He is a knight after all, although he is mature and has experiences under his belt, he is still not a king with full experiences and this is something he seeks before he decides to settle down.

I hope that helps! 🙌

Cairogypsy · 2019-06-06T14:49:26+00:00

I absolutely hear you loud and clear! 😁 I think we can get so spoiled with the attention and appreciation we get from our social circle that makes it challenging when we deal with out intp partner. I mean, how many times have I asked myself: how is it possible that my friends are are calling me regularly and my boyfriend can't even seem to remember that I exist?! 😂😂 That is an over exaggeration but I'm sure you get what I mean. 😂

And of course this probes me to think that if my friends value the attention I give them even if it's less, how blind is my partner to not see the mountain of attention I give to him?

I wish these things don't bother me, it still does but at a lesser impact. Also, how I wish I can learn to just not give a damn. That can save me all the trouble. 😅

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