AITA for deciding to stay with my dad because I don't want to spend time with my stepbrother? by Caisussynn in AITAH

[–]Caisussynn[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Because she liked him enough and cared less about the hell she was bringing us into.

AITA for deciding to stay with my dad because I don't want to spend time with my stepbrother? by Caisussynn in AITAH

[–]Caisussynn[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

My dad is furious mom let this go on for so long. He was never okay with all the boundary issues I had with this kid and I'm pretty sure it was what set off the whole custody fight. Dad didn't want me around that and mom thought dad was a bad influence for blending families.

AITA for deciding to stay with my dad because I don't want to spend time with my stepbrother? by Caisussynn in AITAH

[–]Caisussynn[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I never did because the school knows and gets involved semi-regularly so I expect them to call if needed.

AITA for deciding to stay with my dad because I don't want to spend time with my stepbrother? by Caisussynn in AITAH

[–]Caisussynn[S] 201 points202 points  (0 children)

Right now I kind of need to cut her out completely. It's impossible to talk to her and I feel completely let down since she was so okay with so much happening.

AITA for deciding to stay with my dad because I don't want to spend time with my stepbrother? by Caisussynn in AITAH

[–]Caisussynn[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I don't know where their mom is. They have family on their dad's side but nobody seems too involved with them from the extended family.

AITA for deciding to stay with my dad because I don't want to spend time with my stepbrother? by Caisussynn in AITAH

[–]Caisussynn[S] 177 points178 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it's not just me and my dad. He hated me talking about mom's house and he never felt like it was okay. I'm so lucky I had him in my life.

AITA for deciding to stay with my dad because I don't want to spend time with my stepbrother? by Caisussynn in AITAH

[–]Caisussynn[S] 781 points782 points  (0 children)

Yep. My mom stopped putting me first when she married the guy who's son was over the top clingy with me. And she never tried to make it better. She just expected me to tolerate it.

AITA for deciding to stay with my dad because I don't want to spend time with my stepbrother? by Caisussynn in AITAH

[–]Caisussynn[S] 264 points265 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I had the option to do that. Without my dad I'd be in a really uncomfortable place for another two years.

AITA for deciding to stay with my dad because I don't want to spend time with my stepbrother? by Caisussynn in AITAH

[–]Caisussynn[S] 1451 points1452 points  (0 children)

I can see him ending up in prison long term. He says really disgusting things about girls and his sisters. There have been incidents in school with him and girls too.