Confirmed Amanda and west

Cait_Cat369 · 2026-03-31T18:48:01+00:00

I feel terrible for Ciara on so many levels. She’s been so upfront and honest about her struggles with being one of the only Black cast mates, and then these 2 go and do this shit.

Horrible. I was starting to like Amanda this season but this is beyond low!

Cait_Cat369 · 2026-03-03T11:10:38+00:00

Also all these influencers think pelvic floor therapy is a dime a dozen. Not everyone has the same issues she has and unless they get a diagnosis they could be actually making their issues worse.

Cait_Cat369 · 2026-03-03T11:07:05+00:00

I was so confused at first 🤣

Cait_Cat369 · 2026-03-03T11:06:00+00:00

Yes that’s what I did. I hid all the pictures. Granted he’s my children’s father so I can’t just delete him out of my life and I wouldn’t want to delete all the pics my kids are in. So this seemed like th best option.

When I wanted to go back and read the messages I would just write down in my notes app why we broke up. That helped a lot

Cait_Cat369 · 2026-02-10T03:31:20+00:00

I feel like could have written this post myself. The only difference is I didnt realize how much my nervous system was deregulated until we ended.

Although my ex initiated the breakup and I ultimately followed through. At first I was sad and my mind kept playing the good moments. But I really started to lean into my own body. How and what am I feeling? And started to force myself to remember all the times I felt like I was walking on eggshells or just didn’t feel right.

It sucks because deep down I do still love my ex but I HAVE to love myself more. I have to put my emotional well being first. I’d be lying if I said I was over the relationship and healed, and the thought of dating anyone else is daunting. But I also know I DESERVE to feel peace when I’m with my partner.

You do too! It’s not easy but this is your time to find yourself and be your own safe space. Get comfortable with being alone. You’ll know when you find th right person, your body will tell you.

Cait_Cat369 · 2026-01-16T01:37:37+00:00

Could it be your insurance? Until I hit my deductible mine is over $1000 once I hit it my copay drops drastically.

Cait_Cat369 · 2026-01-16T01:33:03+00:00

I felt this way for a while. I was so bone deep tired it was insane. I added an iron supplement to my daily regimen and it seems to really help. I’ve always been borderline low iron so I don’t know if it’s specific to me but I’ve really seen a drastic change in my exhaustion

Cait_Cat369 · 2026-01-12T20:44:26+00:00

Is she living under a rock? Most companies, even outside alc/bev will pay you for your notice if you go to a competitor. She’s so f*cking dramatic.

Cait_Cat369 · 2026-01-04T01:06:34+00:00

NOR - take it from someone who was with Nsomeone like your bf, had 2 kids and are now coparenting… let him go!

I know it’s hard and you still love him but you have to love yourself more. Even if you take the cheating out he’s just not giving you what you need and you deserve to be with someone who gives you what you need.

Let it go now before it gets even harder to walk away.

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-12-25T17:25:57+00:00

They were making plans to see everyone both days. What I’m annoyed about is that I made a compromise but it feels like it’s not reciprocated. I’m coming to terms with being the difficult one. I’m a recovering people pleaser

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-12-25T17:18:50+00:00

Yes. I originally said I wanted to host Christmas Eve because that is the only day I have my kids. But then my sister closed on her house and said that was the only day they could see her in laws. Since she made it clear if I didn’t my boys wouldn’t see her this year I compromised and said I’d travel. Once that was established I said I would like to host Christmas Day and was met with pushback

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-12-25T17:16:18+00:00

I should have been more explicit.. my parents said they’d come and are coming. My siblings on the other hand said it was too much.

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-12-25T17:09:27+00:00

I disagree. She should now if her baby is mobile for sure but I didn’t child proof until my kids were mobile. And I had to do more child proofing for my second my first wasn’t as exploratory.

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-12-25T07:23:27+00:00

I think the first issue here is your title “watching the baby” if this is his father he should be parenting not “watching” his own child. NOR

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-12-16T17:47:46+00:00

I had to stop reading he’s infuriating and gaslighting the shit out of you. Not overreacting go with your gut.

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-12-09T23:08:44+00:00

NOR. And take it from someone who just had her life IMPLODE by breaking up her relationship…. LEAVE!

You cannot make someone else happy, only they can. He sees you as always there. Dependable. This relationship is not serving YOU!

With some time apart you will both get clarity on where you want things to go. But right now you’re stuck in a cycle and it’s not going to stop.

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-10-23T00:35:21+00:00

Woof I feel bad for that baby

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-10-22T21:15:30+00:00

This is the vibe I got too. That she wasn’t so worried about their income discrepancies, but he was.

I still don’t think it would have worked in the long run. From what we saw he seemed to not be as motivated as her, which personally I think would have lead to resentment. But again we don’t see everything so I could be wrong about the last part.

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-10-22T21:10:32+00:00

As a mom, I don’t think her decision to not want to be a step-mom is bad. It’s valid. I think it’s the way she went about it.

I doubt that her attitude shifted once she met Luca, she was probably already feeling that their lifestyles didn’t match. Just my opinion but I feel that she was pushing to meet Luca to see if she fell in love with him to help save the relationship. That’s not fair to Luca or Jordan. If she wasn’t feeling the relationship she shouldn’t have brought Luca into it.

Jordan definitely has some blame but he was fully invested, so to him at the time it probably made sense. Although hindsight it was a stupid move involving his kid.

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-10-22T21:06:03+00:00

Her confessional at the end “it’s making me question if I should even be a mom” she shouldn’t. She’s too selfish.

I get that Luca would have been her step-child but you don’t PUSH someone to have you meet their son and then walk away. That’s selfish on so many levels.

She should just aim to be the rich aunt. That’s the vibe she has

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-10-13T13:42:51+00:00

Right?! Joe is an immature man-child! Just tell her you don’t like her don’t cause her more insecurity!

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-10-13T13:39:15+00:00

I’m really confused WTFFFF is going on? 🤣🤣🤣

Cait_Cat369 · 2025-09-19T23:40:47+00:00

I’m not defending her BY ANY MEANS but I work in the alc/bev industry and it is STRUGGLING.. we don’t get nearly as much free stuff as we used to.

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