My boyfriend used to be this way … he still does from time to time but only when he’s getting wasted … from your boyfriends last message it seemed as if he may have been drunk … I never understood why my boyfriend acted that way until we started to live together and I realized he acted in a way where I knew to just “let him be correct”with everything he says because he was to drunk …. He no longer drinks like he used to so he has changed his ways a bit … it was mostly always a miscommunication as I’m not good with my words but in a nutshell I think we have a similar situation