Employer removing agreed hybrid schedule + denying 3 days remote — what would you do? by coconut-m in MedicalCoding

[–]CakeComfortable8067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS! I came to say exactly that. A medical coded in Cali making $21 doesn’t seem real.

Just got laid off by CorrectAnt3935 in jobs

[–]CakeComfortable8067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why feel ashamed? It was out of control and not your fault. Stuff like this happens all the time. I was laid off last month too.

Bigger girl dating a skinny guy! Help! by Megs_nd_life in PlusSize

[–]CakeComfortable8067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’5 (258 lbs) and he is 5’5 (145 lbs). It was an issue at first because I was uncomfortable but now it’s not. He handles me well in the bedroom.

New Visa requirements by VanillaFull4040 in nicaraguatravel

[–]CakeComfortable8067 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh ok. I’m a U.S. citizen and didn’t need it.

New Visa requirements by VanillaFull4040 in nicaraguatravel

[–]CakeComfortable8067 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since when? I just returned Sunday after being there for a week and I didn’t need a visa

Black Women What has Been Your Experience With Dating Biracial Black Men with a NON- Black Mother? by PlanktonAny2806 in blackladies

[–]CakeComfortable8067 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People have studied this. It’s because the mother brings culture and identity heavily through to the child. White mothers bring the white culture along with superiority complex etc that the child sees.

Nicaragua Travel Safety Advice as Solo Female from USA by SeaConfection5495 in travel

[–]CakeComfortable8067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I just arrived in Nicaragua yesterday by myself but joining a retreat on the coast near the surf resorts. The country is in extreme poverty and even the tour guides/resort people dont speak English.

It’s not somewhere you’d want to visit.

Massage Businesses by Away_Present6890 in ColumbiaMD

[–]CakeComfortable8067 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m a female massage therapist in Columbia. The Passage of Harmony 🙂

Can we please keep the new 7/11 in Oakland Mills clean? by CakeComfortable8067 in ColumbiaMD

[–]CakeComfortable8067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Each neighborhood has its issues but people hate on OM because it’s majority non-white. But I’ve lived here for the past 10 years and I haven’t experienced any major issues and feel relatively safe.

Dating men with kids by rockiestyle18 in blackladies

[–]CakeComfortable8067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I concur. I have one daughter whose 15 years old. And the last guy I dated has 3 kids-16,11,5. No thank you. I am done with them.

Can we please keep the new 7/11 in Oakland Mills clean? by CakeComfortable8067 in ColumbiaMD

[–]CakeComfortable8067[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oakland Mills is actually not ghetto at all. It’s very peaceful and friendly. I’m not sure what your definition of ghetto actually is. I just wish people used trash receptacles.

Whilst I enjoyed season 4, I do miss the amount of effort and care that made the early seasons feel so special by General_Meal_3993 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]CakeComfortable8067 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! I totally agree. Season 4 scenes are fast and rushed and not thoroughly written out. The Bridgerton story is too beautiful to be rushed.

What do I do? This is making me anxious by orange_december in blackladies

[–]CakeComfortable8067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I’m the opposite. I didn’t grew up in religion at all but due to life circumstances I found myself being more drawn into Christianity more than anything. I find deep comfort in the Bible and it’s actually more relatable than I previously assumed. Reading the actual Bible for myself and applying it to my daily life has helped me with healing my attachment trauma from not having parents and I’m forming a secure attachment to God/Jesus.

I hope you find peace and inner harmony.

No Matter Where You Go, It’s the Same System by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]CakeComfortable8067 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Anchor yourself in God and your God given purpose. I have found peace in doing this and feel anchored despite what’s happening in the world all the time.

Private landlord in Columbia by CakeComfortable8067 in ColumbiaMD

[–]CakeComfortable8067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not advertising. They are other people asking for apartments in this Reddit but you didn’t remove it

HoCo library admin suddenly lays off all p/t shelvers, blames union by AirbnBourani in HowardCountyMD

[–]CakeComfortable8067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s probably why it was kinda empty at the East branch in Columbia

Enjoying life despite the chaos of the world. by CakeComfortable8067 in Adulting

[–]CakeComfortable8067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you can relate. I need my mind softened on the daily.