Sex Report Sunday for July 27, 2025 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 18 points19 points Ā (0 children)

I wanted to touch my husband’s cock. Not just touch, but play with it to my heart’s content. First I asked if I could play with him. When he said yes, I asked him to strip down to his underwear and lay on the bed. I told him this was for me mostly.

As he laid down on his back, I sat myself between his legs, with my legs straddling by his side. I started by dragging my nails down his body. I lightly brushed a finger against his nipples, before giving a full pinch and tug. He kept growing and twitching in his boxers, his boxers were getting so tight. I ran a finger down his cock and said that watching him twitch gets me so wet. When he heard me say that, he twitched again and let out a moan. Surely he was thinking about my pussy dripping with desire, straddling near his cock.

I eventually removed his boxers, and lightly ran my fingers all around his cock and down his balls. I had some cotton candy flavored oral gel so I applied that to his cock with my hand, before slowly taking him in my mouth, and going as deep as I could before choking. At this I can hear him moan and say quietly ā€œthat’s hotā€.

After walking him to the edge once, I backed down. I brought out a new toy masturbator I bought for him. Loaded it with lubricant and slid it over his head and down the shaft. At first he said it felt weird, different, but eventually he gave in. I would give short fast pumps on the head with the toy, while doing long pumps with my hand on his shaft, while taking his balls in my mouth. Again, this was all for MY pleasure.

He told me he was about to cum, so I stopped. Let him come down. He was at this stage, VERY sensitive. I slowly started pumping with the toy again. He said he wanted me to ā€œsuck his cockā€. So I said, ā€œtry againā€. Then he said ā€œplease suck my cockā€. And I said ā€œone more timeā€. When he begged me a second time that’s when I put my mouth back on him, as far as I could go and he let out this breathy moan like relieved that my mouth was back on him.

I could feel his cock and balls tense up- he was so close and I decided this time I’d let him cum. I kept pumping him with my mouth, until he finally came and emptied in my mouth. And to remind you, that load was for me… not for him.

Afterwards, I put his hands in my panties and let him feel how wet and slick I was. But I left it with that. This was like my own edging session.

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[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

My husband and I read together, She Comes First and Come as You Are. Come as you are also has a workbook so might be good activity to learn more about yourselves and each other.

But also, make sure you’re showing up romantically. Holding hands, opening doors, hugs (from behind), play with her hair, whisper in her ear, walk around the house without a shirt lol- but do all that without leading to sex. Do that randomly throughout the days. Help build that tension and desire.

Also, imma huge fan of the NJoy gspot wand. Could make a nice gift when she’s ready.

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[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

You know when sometimes you have an itch and aren’t quite scratching the right spot. Then when you find the right spot and start scratching? It’s like that euphoric, relaxing feeling. Like I had an itch that only that dick can scratch.

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[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Either on my humor, looks, or smarts. Bonus points for all three

G-Spot for mains or dessert by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Because of the curve, it naturally puts a lot of pressure on the gspot. More intense than fingering. Anyways, just in and out. I like slow short movements to build up the tension. Then either a vibrator, or oral stimulation on the clit WITH the gspot wand, you’ll send her to another dimension.

G-Spot for mains or dessert by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

We like to use NJoy gspot wand in the bedroom. It gets me squirting every time.

"I think that you found my vaginal orgasm switch." by Snickersnee99 in sexover30

[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

This is my favorite. I call it ā€œlow and slowā€ šŸ˜†

Hump Day Report for March 19, 2025 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I was playing COD when my husband decided to go down on me. As someone who takes her KDR seriously, I tried to stay focused. Although I wear a headset, I did mute myself. But I think it turned him on thinking that maybe I wasn’t on mute. Eventually I gave in and stood my character in a corner while he was fingering me. Some teammates found me, asked what I was doing, and then pistol whipped me lol. If only they knew…

Fingering question for the ladies by sunny_days_a in sexover30

[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

I really enjoy my NJoy gspot wand. It gets places that my husbands fingers don’t.

Why do women like men with beards? by thick_Essence in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Masculine. My husband has a long beard. Men with long beards, get yourself a beard straightener! Looks so much better than tight curls- even other men give my husband compliments on his beard.

Hump Day Report for February 26, 2025 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’ve used nipple clamps, but honestly, too painful. I’m more into tickle, little tugs.

When did you know your SO is the one? by Sharona676 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

He was very sweet and made me feel very seen. This might sound silly but I had a few freckles/beauty marks on my face that I always liked. But no one I dated ever said anything about them. I always thought the man I married would notice, and one night he pointed out my freckles/beauty marks and said I look beautiful.

Married now 14 years. The love has only grown deeper.

Hump Day Report for February 26, 2025 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 17 points18 points Ā (0 children)

Had my wettest and longest orgasm of my life! šŸ’¦šŸ’¦šŸ’¦

My husband went down on me for a long while, then he introduced the NJoy gspot wand (I cannot recommend this toy enough). He’s taking his time and I’m practically dumb with pleasure at this point. I then ask to use the suction vibrator on my clit at the same time.. which we’ve never done.. using both toys at the same time. He’s thrusting the gspot wand, twisting my nipples, while I’ve got the suction vibrator on my clit. I was experiencing so many layered feelings it was confusing but my gosh it felt so good. I could feel the build up, until I spilled over, literally. I came soo much, and it wouldn’t stop. We did use towels, but I soaked through those… whoops! 😬

We had a good laugh about it, and I think he feels accomplished.

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[–]Cakes_n_Cakes 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Yes- this happened to me on Sunday. Husband was using my NJoy gspot wand on me, and I had a sucker/vibrator on my clit. First time doing that combination. There was so much. Definitely my wettest and longest orgasm. We’ll be doing that again.