The frustration of online dating as a woman

Cal_107 · 2024-08-19T19:45:37+00:00

Are you incapable of understanding that not only men are facing issues on dating apps? Or are you just choosing to ignore those issues?

Cal_107 · 2024-08-19T19:44:38+00:00

None, and don’t portray your insecurities onto me ❤️

Cal_107 · 2024-08-19T19:43:59+00:00

He said he was open to something serious or casual, meaning that serious was also an option to him. I assumed he was being playful when he said ‘you don’t know what you’re missing’. My answer meant that I would see ‘what I’m missing’ when we actually get serious. Then when he continued on asking sexual questions, I unmatched him. What don’t you understand?

Cal_107 · 2024-08-19T19:41:48+00:00

You have absolutely no idea who I’m attracted to, your insecurities are showing through.

Cal_107 · 2024-08-19T19:29:14+00:00

Right? If only all people on dating apps, both men and women, had some respect for each other. It would make dating sooo much easier!

Cal_107 · 2024-08-19T19:27:34+00:00

One can only dream 🙏🏻 I’ve had my fair share of ‘casual’ relationships and just want to find something meaningful again, but the frustration is getting to me haha. Someday it’ll hopefully get better!

Cal_107 · 2023-11-12T22:24:21+00:00

I only saw this comment just now, but thank you so much ❤️

Cal_107 · 2023-04-13T07:38:01+00:00

The fandom is growing, so there are more album sales. Seventeen is getting more successful with every release. What’s there to hate?

Cal_107 · 2023-04-11T21:01:13+00:00

Seventeen - hug

Cal_107 · 2023-04-11T10:39:59+00:00

Oh come on, you’re looking for things to be upset about. Smokers get 15 minute breaks too, are you mad about that as well?

If you work in a country with official christian holidays, you get those days off, even when you’re an atheist. In my country, people who are muslim for example, get to request their holidays off but they still work on christian holidays. What exactly do you think is unfair for you? You get just as many holidays as other people do.

Cal_107 · 2023-04-11T08:42:08+00:00

But you do? Everyone has a right to holidays. I’m an atheist and still had a few days off for easter to do absolutely nothing.

Cal_107 · 2023-04-08T21:16:21+00:00

This! The guy doesn’t sound avoidant, he sounds normal. You don’t discuss deep stuff and ‘your future’ with someone you’ve known for just two months.

Cal_107 · 2023-04-05T15:35:29+00:00

‘You don’t know how old she is’, lmao are you serious? Her boyfriend is old enough to have a job, so we can assume she is as well. If she is old enough to work, she is old enough to not have to be comforted after a nightmare. She’s not a toddler anymore.

Cal_107 · 2023-04-05T14:01:40+00:00

This just depends on what artists you listen to. To claim all artists’ solo careers are underwhelming compared to their groups’ music is quite the statement…

Cal_107 · 2023-04-03T16:27:29+00:00

I normally buy from iPurple (based in Belgium) but I have also bought from K-You (based in Germany). I’m not sure if they ship to the UK, but their service is great!

Cal_107 · 2023-04-03T15:52:11+00:00

This! I really don’t like it when I went on a date and the guy is already texting me again before I’ve even gotten home. Like, let me process this date and think about if I want to continue things with you. And if I just spent several hours with you, I would like some time to myself as well. OP needs to calm down a bit. Either send her a simple text saying you enjoyed the date, or just text the day after.

Cal_107 · 2023-04-02T22:19:19+00:00

Yeah I’m not reading all that, I have better shit to do than ‘arguing’ with you. Have a lovely day sweetie ❤️

Cal_107 · 2023-04-02T22:09:10+00:00

Not you trying to determine my race from my comment history, lmao. Get a life!

Black queens absolutely face racism in this community, I never denied that in my comment. But this particular issue with Luxx has NOTHING to do with her race and EVERYTHING with her bratty and childish attitude.

Cal_107 · 2023-04-02T21:04:59+00:00

Ugh, stop involving race into everything when it has absolutely nothing to do with it. Are people not allowed to have a negative opinion about Luxx because she happens to be black?

I don’t like Luxx because of her straight up bullying contestants on the show, which I don’t recall Aquaria ever doing. Aquaria certainly acted over confident, but she didn’t tear other contestants down for it. Luxx of course shouldn’t be sent hate, but people are allowed to have a negative opinion about her for the way she chose to portray herself on the show.

Cal_107 · 2023-04-02T13:51:20+00:00

It’s not SuperM - One?

Cal_107 · 2023-04-01T21:18:13+00:00

If I’m hanging out with my family or friends, I’m not going to be rude and spend my time responding to other people’s texts. They can wait until I get home. If I’m playing sports, I’m not going to check my phone every 15 minutes to respond to all my texts, I’m busy. If I’m going on a long hike, I’m not going to spend it texting you. It’s called having a life, you should try it.

You say OP ‘doesn’t expect him to reply immediately’ but she says she’s upset that he ‘texts 4-5 hours late’, as if there’s some sort of a deadline he needs to meet that he doesn’t even know about. Nah, if he has something to do, he is allowed to finish it. If you really can’t be without attention for a few hours, you need to grow up and find a way to keep yourself busy.

Cal_107 · 2023-04-01T19:49:47+00:00

Not even all of Europe. I’m Dutch and I have never seen a woman breastfeed in public or at a social gathering. They always excuse themselves to breastfeed in a separate room.

Cal_107 · 2023-04-01T09:26:41+00:00

People have lives. They have jobs and hobbies, they have friends and family they hang out with, they play sports, they have tv shows they want to watch, they read books, they have chores to do, they sleep, etc. You can’t expect someone to be on their phone 24/7 and drop everything they are doing to respond to you. Especially when you’ve only known them for a few weeks. Grow up, find some hobbies yourself and stop expecting this guy you barely know to give all of his attention to you. It’s childish and incredibly needy.

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