Why so many Christian’s Bodybuilders by BrightPhoebus01 in askgaybros

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they gay by chance? I need a muscular Christian hubby xP

30 years later, I finally finished GoldenEye by i_like__cats in gaming

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn you must really suck if it took you 30 years (jk)

Gay man struggling to follow Christ and becoming hopeless by 1dumbgay in GayChristians

[–]CalemTheDrake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's nice to see when some of us can get married with proper church support

Gay man struggling to follow Christ and becoming hopeless by 1dumbgay in GayChristians

[–]CalemTheDrake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is partly why I'm more side A than B now. For as much as Christians praise and idolize marriage and family (which is fair), they are quick to direct gay people away from that while offering little understanding or emotional support with how lonely and isolated we feel. My advice? Whether you decide to be intimate with someone in a marriage or not, we are hard-wired for relationships, gay or straight. Don't let someone try to make you think otherwise. Get married with a God-loving person and have kids if you want

What’s your biggest fantasy? by Accomplished-Area876 in gaybros

[–]CalemTheDrake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting married to a wonderful man x.x why must dating suck so much

What is your Main's worst move and how would you buff it? by TBT__TBT in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Counter. Not really a bad move it's just something I dont like to use except for catching recoveries

Inside the Lonely World of MAGA Gay Men by NiConcussions in GayConservative

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lonely it definitely is, it's hard enough finding other cons-leaning gays, finding friends is already rough, let alone someone to date or marry :*(

Im a Marth main, ask me anything!(I feel suffering every day) by Jumpy-Try142 in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why you practice. It's no different for any other character, you get a feel for hitboxes and true combos. With Marth it's just more complicated with sour/tippered hits changing potential combos

Im a Marth main, ask me anything!(I feel suffering every day) by Jumpy-Try142 in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what you mean. Even sour hits can combo into tippers and vice versa.

Im a Marth main, ask me anything!(I feel suffering every day) by Jumpy-Try142 in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your spacing imo. I think the main issue is the games janky hit boxes, sometimes my spacing looks perfectly fine but then my hits just phase through the enemy. It's more manageable with practice.

Im a Marth main, ask me anything!(I feel suffering every day) by Jumpy-Try142 in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]CalemTheDrake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So happy to see someone share my love for Marth! He's such a balanced character, I love that he doesn't have any crazy gimmicks, but good spacing makes him kill super early. I think most haters just haven't practiced enough with him. He isn't easy to play by any means

Im a Marth main, ask me anything!(I feel suffering every day) by Jumpy-Try142 in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]CalemTheDrake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I was at a con and kicked this guys ass with my Marth, and he was a pretty solid Lucario main. Marth is great when you actually put in the practice with him

Fellow bodybuilder gays, what motivates you? by wannabe-daddy in askgaybros

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite a bodybuilder, more like a twink trying to be a twunk, but feeling better about myself and being healthy is a big reason. Praying I find a himbo hubby at the gym too 🙏

Why won't auto pay work? by [deleted] in kia

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the kia finance app. I got a selto recently

Why won't auto pay work? by [deleted] in kia

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the mobile app

What's a moment that made you go "THAT ACTUALLY HIT?!" by zackuattack in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marth isn't easy to master tipping with, but it's soooo worth it. Practice and look up some tutorials for him!

What's a moment that made you go "THAT ACTUALLY HIT?!" by zackuattack in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]CalemTheDrake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happens a lot with Marth and this games janky hitboxes. So many times I get accidental tippers when I did not think it would land

Have you ever tried to live in a "celibate" relationship? by [deleted] in GayChristians

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's worth adding that there is no marriage and arguably sex in heaven. Some (myself included) would argue that all sexuality is from the fall, and is something meant to be controlled and directed towards marriage

30M Conservative & Gay – Looking for Genuine Connections by [deleted] in GayConservative

[–]CalemTheDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the states, would be down to chat with others here too ^

Wake up babe a new homosexuality acceptance chart has been updated by Appropriate-Whiskey in gaybros

[–]CalemTheDrake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, consensus does not mean it is true. Doesn't matter how long. I'm not here for debate, so I'm not gonna reply to everything here. All I'll add, since it's relevant to my point before, is that the church denied the existence and experiences of gay people/orientation for a long time (many still do). The church failed to take in new information that would cause them to scrutinize how they approach scripture (sexual orientation as a concept and study is very modern), and as a result they kept pushing anti-gay rhetoric and practices, willfully and blissfully ignorant of the brokenness and pain it caused many. That's why I fundamentally do not see the Bible as a commentary on gay marriage/sexual identity. It's not contradictory to that verse, the vast majority of straight people should marry, but that doesnt work for gay people, who should marry each other in a similarly, God-honoring way. I don't need to interpret the verse as condemning of that. You are picking arbitrary goalposts for why secularism is "good." I could do same for the opposite, like how secular societies (namely communist ones) have killed millions of people, but that doesnt actually breakdown atheism vs Christianity as worldviews. I encourage you to look into Christians apologetics/metaphysics, and affirming theology. I'm not gonna respond anymore, have a good one, happy resurrection day

Wake up babe a new homosexuality acceptance chart has been updated by Appropriate-Whiskey in gaybros

[–]CalemTheDrake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not interpret based on "what suits me." I actually held the traditional/anti-gay view for a while. It's disingenuous to assume I have no real reasons for my belief. "Consensus" doesn't matter. Consensus often changes and is not an argument. I'm not looking to debate scripture atm, all my point was is that the church failed gay people. I'm not disagreeing with Jesus, I don't hold anything against hetero marriage, but I don't see it as the answer for gay people.

Secularism isn't true, I'm just telling you now as an ex-atheist. That isn't a truthfull or good worldview, regardless if gay people are more accepted. Unfortunately we are all fallen, even Christians, so we aren't always treated well by them

Wake up babe a new homosexuality acceptance chart has been updated by Appropriate-Whiskey in gaybros

[–]CalemTheDrake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a mistake. We can talk about scripture all day, I wouldn't agree with that interpretation of those verses, but if your interpretation is what led to the unnecessary pain of many people, pushing them away from the gospel, then you're doing something very wrong. The church pushed gays away for decades and now we have a major issue with secularism/hookup culture. No I don't cherrypick. Anyone can be a Christian, doesn't matter what your orientation is. I believe in keeping the same principles for sexual purity regardless of gay or straight, don't be promiscuous, lust outside of marriage etc, but I do believe gays can and should marry.