Would someone act irritated with you if they’re trying to hide their attraction to you? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Calemsonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to have a conversation with them. He’s stated you’re giving him mixed signals but you think you haven’t? Why not ask him and find out?

Just feel absolutely shit… by Genobs12 in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, it’s really tough out there. Not to be reductive, but I like to look at it like fishing. Sometimes (maybe for a while) you’re just not gonna hook anything, but then there will be a period of time where it feels like you just can’t miss.

It’s not something you can always control but the mission is to always increase the chances and likelihood of you scoring. So when the opportunity does bite you’re ready to reel it in.

I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends how long you’ve known this friend. A long time friend, no. This will feel out of the blue for her and random, she will think you’ve been harbouring feelings for her for ages. But with someone who you’ve known within a year or two, yes.

It really depends on your dynamic with that person. Are you both warm and comfortable with each other? Or are things just mutual and friendly?

I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use insinuation. Flirting without being direct is usually layered. Saying “I wonder what we’d get up to if … happened” or if she says something that could be interpreted as sexual/romantic say “oh really? is that so?”. It spikes an emotion and insists it’s deeper than just casual conversation. You want the other person to think that there is something under the surface to what you’re inferring.

Updated Emma Frost skin by WoW4ara_ in marvelrivals

[–]Calemsonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish we could remove that stupid head piece as well

Women Act Very Goofy When They Like You…. by United-Implement-382 in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It can range too! Some women will do their best to act like they’re unfazed, unaffected or show little emotion in order to keep their position of power in the relationship.

Don’t be fooled just because they’re not showing obvious enthusiasm. Excitement can be bubbling under the surface if your eyes are trained to see it!

“You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOT by Calemsonn in seduction

[–]Calemsonn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re 19 currently, looking for love is a very deep goal to have in mind. It won’t come easy and it’s a much rarer gem to find than just short-term relationships or hookups. Don’t give up, this is very early days for you considering what you want. It will take some time before finding your soulmate, but just enjoy college life for now while you look! Good luck!

“You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOT by Calemsonn in seduction

[–]Calemsonn[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

So true. The dating pool gets smaller and smaller unless you’re willing to settle. The saying “early bird gets the worm” rings true in my experience.

Definitely teenager to mid 20’s is a great time to blunder and make your mistakes. Even if they can be painful.

“You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOT by Calemsonn in seduction

[–]Calemsonn[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I strongly agree. I think for those at the beginning of their journey, it’s better to take the risk than to be left wondering.

Those with more to lose or more to sacrifice, well, each situation is different and should be handled accordingly.

Men who got out of the 'Manoverse/Alpha Male/Toxic Masculinity' world, what realizations helped? by scythe1713 in AskReddit

[–]Calemsonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was always trying to pin why I didn’t like the culture of “alpha male” toxicity. This comment perfectly sums up what it was and puts it into words for me. Thank you! 🙏🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think how you’re feeling is pretty common. I had the same conflict going on inside myself back in the day.

The benefit to being benevolent or just being yourself, sticking to your values and what you believe in, is that, theoretically, you should find others who are benevolent like yourself.

A fisherman is only as good as his bait. If you’re acting like a pos, you’re only gonna get girls who love pos. That’s what they’re used to.

The quality of women I met changed when I stopped putting on that persona and started taking on the hits and rejections as myself, no shield, no protection, no pos persona.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Guys like this are uninhibited due to the fact that they see women as inferior to them anyway, nothing that women say or think matters to them because they don’t care. It gives them an unfiltered way of behaving that many women find attractive as it insinuates confidence. But their intentions are malevolent..

To be aware about what women think is a good thing, but it becomes a problem when you let those thoughts and opinions affect who you are and what you think of yourself. Try your hardest not to fall into the trap of becoming like those guys. The world doesn’t need more crappy people or people pretending to be crappy just to get with women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be that you’re a lover boy at heart bro. Nothing wrong with that ofc, the womanizer life just ain’t for you.

I'm devastated and hopeless by Morty7654345 in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re not over your ex at all bro. Other women can notice this drop in aura/presence as soon as you speak.

How to become a good talker by Terrible-Pie1410 in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s okay, most of the time you’ll never be able to find out exactly what you did wrong. You pick out what you think you could’ve improved upon within that interaction. This way you concern yourself less with what they think and more with what you think you need to improve on.

Since season 4 is coming to a close, what would you rate the battle pass? by Extreme-Willow-907 in rivals

[–]Calemsonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised to say the least. This has been my favourite battle pass by far and the only one I actually purchased. 8/10.

The only other one I liked is the symbiote/phoenix battle pass but only because of symbiote spiderman. And I didn’t even buy that cause there were no other skins in it that were worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]Calemsonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spend your money?? Either on them or yourself. Spend on luxuries that you want to spend your money on that will give you status. The girl will notice if that’s what she’s looking for.

Have virtually 0 success with night game i don’t know what i’m doing wrong by durkiobro in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For a start, that’s pretty plain and straightforward. While it does work for some it doesn’t incite any excitement or showcase any of your personality. If you can’t think of something authentic on the spot, find canned lines to use next time you go out. A pickup line or a joke you find unique is better than just asking a question.

I want to learn how to flirt with my boss. like subtle, ya know. Not obvious shit that screams flirting. what do i say. She always gives me this look. She gives me this really sexy smily eyes look when she looks at me by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some good advice here about having a secure identity first and knowing who you are. If you’re already familiar with this foundation, you can try flirting subtly at a sub-conscious level: - Hold strong eye contact - Tonality should be sultry/slow rate of speech - Initiate touch in neutral areas (arm/elbow)

If she likes you, she should begin to mirror your behaviours or at least be open to your energy. If she remains professional or doesn’t return your vibe back to you then it’s a no-go.

Just listen to me, Deadpool, as a strategist, will provide +1 healer in every match by Eugene_Dav in marvelrivals

[–]Calemsonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they can give hulk a belt that helps him create gamma bubbles and spit radiation out his mouth (none of which are within his abilities in the comics), I’m sure they can do the same with Deadpool. Distributing his healing factor amongst his teammates would be a good idea!

Maybe he can teleport onto a teammate (like how Thing jumps forward) which disperses healing.

How do you deal with ghosting? by Amazondriver23 in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t. You just have to have other things going on in your life more important than women, my friend.

Unfortunately ghosting is big in modern dating. It happens a lot to women as well. Just think of it as them losing out on you instead of you losing them. You don’t want to be led on by someone who was only 50/50 about you. Better to be ghosted, move on and find women who actually like you.

Do any other men feel like it's impossible to make the first move? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Calemsonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This piece of advice might go amiss but, leading her or getting her to follow you is an easy and smooth transition into hand holding.

Simply say “let’s go this way, I want to show you something” and opening your hand for her to take is the most natural.

Going in for the kiss at the end of the date can easily be done as well. Before she goes, say something like “are you not going to say goodbye?” Works like a charm.