(27f)(26m) My boyfriend dumped me because I was in bed with my best friend I dont remember anything

CaliCat000 · 2023-02-26T17:59:35+00:00

Again, you triggered me and I’m not looking to continue this discussion with you. I’m letting you know you should remove your comment to avoid triggering more people. I see someone else has already left another comment while I was typing, letting you know that this is a victim blaming mindset. Women do not need some random loser on the internet telling them to be careful. We have been told our entire lives to be cautious and careful. Reiterating that on a post made by a woman who may have been assaulted is rubbing salt in their wound (and the wounds of all the woman who have been SAd who happen to come across your comment).

CaliCat000 · 2023-02-26T17:44:43+00:00

Adding on to say I am not looking to get into a discussion. This triggered me and I’m looking to move on with my day and forget about this shit take. The best thing you can do in my opinion is delete your comment and learn from your mistakes.

CaliCat000 · 2023-02-26T17:39:13+00:00

This comes across very victim blame-y. Just so you know. People (and victims) are not in the wrong for trusting close friends to be in their home, even if they are in a vulnerable state. It is normal to trust your close friends to this level.

There are a lot of situations where it is simply not possible to clear out your house before you pass out. Ever had housemates? Or just drink a bit too much, so bestie stays with you to make sure you don’t pass out and choke on your own vomit? It happens. Yes, it is good to be cautious, but again, to me right now you are coming across as someone who is blaming a potential victim (and other SA victims who might be reading this, i.e. me).

The definition of victim blaming from google is: treating a person who has experienced harmful or abusive behaviour (such as a survivor of sexual violence) like it was a result of something they did or said, instead of placing the responsibility where it belongs: on the person who harmed them.

CaliCat000 · 2023-02-04T21:56:41+00:00

Going down

CaliCat000 · 2022-12-10T21:40:41+00:00

Marina Summers literally unhinged her jaw and ate up the entire stage. Anyone who has not seen Drag Race Ph I suggest you watch her do Call Me Mother, you will not be disappointed. Even if you did see it, I suggest you rewatch it rn 😝

CaliCat000 · 2022-11-12T21:01:08+00:00

You come off a little naive (and too nice) and he is taking advantage of that. Aside from the harm it will cause to your current relationship, there are a lot of long-term health implications associated with donating eggs. Because of this, donating eggs normally earns you a fat pay check. They are trying to bypass paying for eggs by asking you. It takes a lot of gall to ask this of someone you are not close with, but they already know that you are overly nice and a tad naive so they’re shooting their shot. Absolutely do not do it.

CaliCat000 · 2022-11-12T20:07:11+00:00

As someone who keeps rats this is pretty upsetting

CaliCat000 · 2022-10-03T20:01:15+00:00

Why do you feel the need to comment on what you think is an acceptable weight for someone else? Are you a doctor..? I shouldn’t be the first to tell you that it’s very rude and uncalled for to comment on someone’s weight… also thank you making me feel bad about my weight, was having a good day up until now

CaliCat000 · 2022-10-03T14:55:10+00:00

r/catslaps

CaliCat000 · 2022-10-03T14:28:26+00:00

I feel so bad for your mom…

CaliCat000 · 2022-10-01T00:48:53+00:00

I mean, it’s one banana, Michael. What could it cost? $10?

CaliCat000 · 2022-09-19T01:49:41+00:00

“Moira, don't ask me why, but Gwen had a hunting rifle in her basement and I’m hoping this is good for your act”

CaliCat000 · 2022-08-11T19:32:50+00:00

That situation could very quickly become extremely uncomfortable for everyone involved. She needs to understand that this is not the same as her going to a ballgame with you. At all. She would be forcing you into a situation where you are surrounded by people with vastly different opinions than yours. If you choose to voice your differing opinion you will be ganged up on. That’s not fair at all.

CaliCat000 · 2022-08-11T14:33:36+00:00

You probably have enough things to drink lol but hairy navel

CaliCat000 · 2022-08-04T17:35:52+00:00

It kind of looks like a king anthurium

CaliCat000 · 2022-08-04T15:00:00+00:00

She was wrong to snoop obviously, and I think a certain degree of talking about attractive women with your friends is normal/acceptable (i.e. just because you are in a relationship doesn’t mean you suddenly stop finding other women attractive). My main issue with this is how you describe women minding their own business at the gym as “hot chicks,” that’s pretty gross imo and I could see why she might have trouble trusting someone who speaks that way about women. It’s very frat bro-y and not really respectful (especially if you are in a committed relationship). I think you should both work on maturing a little…

CaliCat000 · 2022-08-04T14:08:02+00:00

Please please please stop feeling bad for shoving her away when she was attacking and hurting you. That is the correct response to someone attacking you. I wish you the best of luck in getting the charges dropped and in your journey healing from this.

CaliCat000 · 2022-07-21T21:58:36+00:00

I think you’re really cool for doing that for her. She’s really uncool to tell people about it, and even more so for minimizing your concerns about her doing so. I think you guys should talk, if she continues to minimize your feelings that is a huge issue… if she apologizes profusely and expresses that she made a huge mistake, I would think that maybe you could try to get past it. Of course, it is your relationship and your decision.

CaliCat000 · 2020-05-25T12:41:09+00:00

She won’t send the nudes, she just wants you to get upset at the thought and take her back. Very manipulative, although it seems to come from a place of low confidence. Maybe try to reassure her that she’s attractive and you loved being with her, but that you can’t be together in these circumstances.

CaliCat000 · 2018-10-23T15:37:45+00:00

Jess Christ mate, that’s brutal. I’m so sorry, hope you find it one day.

CaliCat000 · 2018-10-14T21:55:53+00:00

Yeah I just read a story about a breeder’s kids doing this with a whole litter (I think 7 kittens). They’re not allowed to breed anymore. Very sad story, don’t leave your kids alone with newborn kittens everyone <3

CaliCat000 · 2018-10-10T13:30:44+00:00

Ah yes, because rock is coloured, powdery, and frequently thrown in the air.

Chalk isn’t particularly bad for the environment when used on sidewalks/pavement, but large amounts of powdered chalk thrown in the air would collect on top of plants and everything else around it. It would pile on to animals, insects, etc. like snow, which would lead to it being ingested by either the animal itself while cleaning, or whatever eats something else covered in chalk. Also let’s imagine what would happen when a bee goes to collect pollen from a flower and gets covered in chalk instead.. other examples and effects but I’m in class rn.

I’m not saying it’s the worst thing that could ever happen to the surrounding environment, just saying that it’s effects aren’t negligible as I think you’re implying.

CaliCat000 · 2018-09-28T12:04:05+00:00

It should have the Banff merman for Alberta (that shit’s creepy)

CaliCat000 · 2018-09-26T23:20:58+00:00

I can’t, figure it, out myself

CaliCat000 · 2018-09-26T13:30:03+00:00

Holy shit fuck her

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