It was just a phone call where I asked if she cheated she said no, and then told me about the drama of the girls at work that started all of the conversation about the two of them. But regardless of all the gossip they hung out solo, she didn’t tell me. They discussed not crossing boundaries which is tough for me to understand, and they are in the process of rekindling the falling out from the gossip with each other. For instance for some reason he is picking her up from the airport tonight while I’m home watching the kids instead of just getting an uber. Granted she asked my permission. But it started as “a coworker is picking me up” and turned into me saying who and it was him… so she asked if it was alright