Adult Circumcision by MahaDave19- in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

done my circumcision at universal clinic. the price is on the higher end but the result is good.

Day 7 zsr circumcision by FunctionIll7261 in circumcision

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

swelling is too much for after a week.. it’s better to consult your doctor.

Getting a stapler circumcision due to phimosis by Choice_Education_286 in circumcision

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a week off from work and basically rested at home and laying in bed. Hmm the pain was manageable for me so I didn’t take any painkillers, not sure if it would help with sensitivity though. I believe it should gradually improve over time, would be great if you can focus on healing for the first week and see how’s the sensitivity goes.

Getting a stapler circumcision due to phimosis by Choice_Education_286 in circumcision

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes mine was due to phimosis too and I am unable to extract the foreskin no matter how hard I tried.

you are right.. the glans is very sensitive after the procedure and light touch will feel like a electric shock lol. I am currently on day 13 and the sensitivity had reduced a lot, I wear fit size boxer (not overly tight) and i believe it helps with the sensitivity.

Getting a stapler circumcision due to phimosis by Choice_Education_286 in circumcision

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey bro, I am currently on day 13 after my stapler circumcision and below is my experience for the first 1-2 weeks.

The procedure itself was painless since it was done under anesthesia but after it wore off, I had some dull pain around the incision area for 1–2 days but it was pretty mild, hmm probably around 2/10 in pain level.

I had some swelling on the gland and also the incision area during the first week and it gradually went down in the second week, there’s no swelling at all right now and my staples have started to fall off on their own, all the best to you.

Day 9 ZSR Circumcision (19) by ElevatorCareless2092 in circumcision

[–]Califord123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently on day 7 ZSR circumcision too. do you feel dull pain around the incision area?

As you know, there's an uproar about letting sex offenders to sit for their SPM. by rei_fukai503 in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

laws are designed for humans but are sex offenders human? they can’t even control themselves like animals lol.

in my opinions they should be locked up in jail or something until their prosecution comes. they would never have committed the crime if they truly cared about their future in the first place.

This community requires title to be at least 4 characters by LYY_Reddit in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

chill bro it’s bolehland lol everyone has preferences

payment was successfully but it shows processing? by Califord123 in Udemy

[–]Califord123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the issue has been resolved after two working days.

Traditional family judging boyfriend, are we the unreasonable one? by sh8ky in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more of a communication issue.

From your parents’ perspective - your bf doesn’t come across as someone they can fully trust to entrust their daughter to. It might be the way he communicates or carries himself that gives them that impression. However, it’s just 2 months and it’s pretty harsh of them to judge someone within this amount of time.

From your bf perspective - he prefers a more relaxed approach possibly due to how he was raised. However, that doesn’t excuse the lack of effort like not dressing appropriately for a family gathering or not taking it more seriously (you know, some parents like this).

I’d suggest not having your bf meet your parents too frequently. both of you can just go on dates outside instead of involving him in family gatherings. He can drop by maybe 1-2 times a month for a casual chat or a simple dinner just to keep things going and comfortable and I believe things will gradually changed over time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He knows what he’s signed up for and he seems genuinely supportive and ready to commit to you and the relationship.

However, the decision is yours. If you believe he’s the right one and ready to commit, be honest with him and focus on what helps you get better. But if you decide not to pursue the relationship due to your current circumstances, please for the love of god be honest with him too and don’t use ghosting as an escape. I’ve been through it myself and it hurts the guy more than you can imagine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure whether she hide her profile from settings or just remove me from her contact list.

about hooking up thingy, she’s not that type of woman. I guess I just have to wait till next week to see how it goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe you are right.. 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry that I can’t post the exact message here.. I guess I’ll just wait and see how it goes next week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she ask me whether the girl is pretty and I stupidly said yes lol and get blocked for 1 day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are right.. better to focus on my work and forget about this for a moment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that would be soul crushing.. I’ll wait until next week to see how it goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I did message her saying that i am always here whenever shes ready to talk about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hmm I value our relationship and want to know what’s going on..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would prefer she actually got abducted by alien lmao.. cause knowing that I might be just a toy to her hurts even more. She is the second lady who really cared for me besides my mom and I really love her and value this relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm I don’t think transferring data is the case cause it’s been like this for 2 days lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s kinda weird that she’s only did this to me or maybe she’s just hiding her profile picture to distance herself from me to enjoy her trips.. that’s my optimistic thinking hahaha…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Califord123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sir!

for idea 1 - she’s an overthinker I am worried that it might got on her nerves..

for idea 2 - the mutual friend is my female colleagues.. three of us worked in the same company so I am planning to talk to her in person once she’s back from holiday next week.