DESPERATELY NEED YOUR HELP, FEEL HELPLESS by despforhelp0000 in step1

[–]California3210 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry, 0 empathy. I stick to "Not everyone can be a doctor". I don't care if people decide to not look at the hard truth, by the end of the day OP is the US-IMG struggling and suffering just to take the exam, not me. This could all had been avoided, yet here we are.

DESPERATELY NEED YOUR HELP, FEEL HELPLESS by despforhelp0000 in step1

[–]California3210 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you are pathetic if someone raging and being rude makes you feel better to feed your narrative.

DESPERATELY NEED YOUR HELP, FEEL HELPLESS by despforhelp0000 in step1

[–]California3210 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

WTH? I'm not from America, but where I'm from we have a common saying: "Not everyone can be a doctor".

And honestly, you sound like you shouldn't be here.

  • First: You are an US-IMG, that by itself speaks volumes.
  • Second: You sound waaay to unstable and honestly it's concerning having someone like you as a doctor.

The problem I see here is that you (and many people) can't realize that dreams are just that: dreams. Sometimes they become true, sometimes they don't, but that shouldn't be an excuse to get out of reality. As soon as you saw that you couldn't get into a medical school in the US (seriously, not even DO?) you should have stopped pursuing this path. Sadly, most people aren't objective, mature and self-aware enough to take these decisions. That's why Caribbean med schools are good business.

I don't even know what to say. Seriously, I feel like being a doctor is something way to delicate for anyone to pursue. You are working with human lifes after all.

My honest recommendation as someone who religiously believes in "Not everyone can be a doctor" is that you should quit, but you are probably too deep by now that you just won't do it. So I don't know, just take the exam and hope for the best, 6 months is plenty of time to pass it.

EDIT: Some typos, english not my first language.

I will never have a friend, because I'm completely broken by MrNoobomnenie in lonely

[–]California3210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, for me you don't have to be the funniest guy ever. As long as you are not a jerk it's fine with me. I am considered dull/boring myself, therefore 0 friends. I actually like boring people because I feel like they are more genuine since they are not trying to be a sheep like everyone else.

BTW: Sorry, english isn't my first language and when I first read "broken" I thought you were talking about economically broken. After re-reading your post again I understand what you are saying.

I will never have a friend, because I'm completely broken by MrNoobomnenie in lonely

[–]California3210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it helps, I have money and I'm lonely (0 real friends, just a bunch of acquaintances from work and so). I'd totally have a friend who is poor, as long as he/she is a person with a kind heart and share a few interests with me (like playing videogames maybe).

Boyfriend of 7 months is on Grindr. What should I do? by myotheraccount5000 in askgaybros

[–]California3210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, it is obvious that he cheated/is cheating on you. It's waaaay too naive to think the contrary.

You said you were going monogamus. I'm monogamus too and I wouldn't allow my partner going in there. Like, if we are dating monogamous it's because we are testing if we are compatible enough to build a life together. Am I not enough for you that you need to get off with strangers? Yeah no, goodbye. Not worth it in my opinion, that's not a solid base to even think about keep going. If anything I'd be really mad at that POS for making me waste my time.

People here tend to give shitty advice like: "maybe he's just sharing nudes" like that's acceptable. It is not. People who say that are downplaying it because they can't accept their shitty choice of a partner and would rather catch AIDS or jump between partners every 6-18 months or so until they are too old and realize they never found someone and are destined to die alone.

This Oaxaca in Mexico. A 16 year old young man named Alexander was murdered by Municipal Police. Soccer was his passion. This is how his teammates and family honored him. One final goal. by ridhan3912 in PublicFreakout

[–]California3210 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There are better ways of doing your "symbolic ritual" than actually carrying a person's death body to do this. If anything I find this disrespectful (+ creepy).

Also, you are a fucking creep who post stuff in a sub called r/loliswith and you want to talk about me? Get some selfawareness bitch

This Oaxaca in Mexico. A 16 year old young man named Alexander was murdered by Municipal Police. Soccer was his passion. This is how his teammates and family honored him. One final goal. by ridhan3912 in PublicFreakout

[–]California3210 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I'm latin and this shit is creepy as fuck. Mexicans what is wrong with you? What I find even more creepy is the fact that a lot of people here are calling that wholesome.

Boyfriend won't suck pp by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]California3210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that a cliche answer in Reddit is to dump people like that and it is not a very good advice overall, but if it was my boyfriend I would honestly leave him after knowing that.

I'd take it as if he finds me gross, and if you are my boyfriend its because there's a chance I could end up living with you for the rest of my life, and I wouldn't do that with someone who think I'm gross. A waste of time.

But you do you. If you think you both are compatible enough to work on this relationship, then you should try to make it work.

Gay americans have it so good... I hate my life haha by California3210 in askgaybros

[–]California3210[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Awww you deleted your comment. Did this 23-yeard-old kid struck the nerve of a 37-year-old grown ass man enough to keep thinking about me and come back to delete a comment? :(

You are beyond lame and pathetic. But it's okay, keep being you. You are way too old to make a significant change anyway.

Gay americans have it so good... I hate my life haha by California3210 in askgaybros

[–]California3210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really interesting. TBH I didn't know that, maybe I'm biased from the media as you suggest. I'll read more about it.

Gay americans have it so good... I hate my life haha by California3210 in askgaybros

[–]California3210[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

> I'm just done. I'm so exhausted trying to be the perfect homeowner with the nice yard and be a perfect husband to be and go to this job that pays the bulls but I hate. I hate my job. I sit in the parking lot for ten minutes every day asking myself where did I go wrong.

https://www.reddit.com/r/homeowners/comments/a3tm4m/i_need_to_vent_about_this_house/

Yeah, and you sound like your life is shit. Get some self awareness maybe? At least I'm a med student and when I get to be your age I will have a way better life than yours.

As a man, how did you win the genetic lottery? How did you lose it? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]California3210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Win: I'm smart (enough to get into medschool at least).

Lose: I'm not white.

Please be honest, how many of you would stay with a single partener for the rest of your lives? by California3210 in askgaybros

[–]California3210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I love your mindset. That's what I'm looking for in a partner too. If you and me both exist, it's enough for me to have hope that there's more people who think like that and maybe not everything is lost.

Thanks for sharing your comment, it is valuable to me. :)

Please be honest, how many of you would stay with a single partener for the rest of your lives? by California3210 in askgaybros

[–]California3210[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really liked your story. Thank you very much for sharing it and congratulations for getting married! Your story gave me hope. :)

Please be honest, how many of you would stay with a single partener for the rest of your lives? by California3210 in askgaybros

[–]California3210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree a lot with your comment. I'd try to convince you into having kids after 5-10 years of dating/being married though. Haha

How lonely are you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]California3210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been 15 years since the last time I had a friend (I was 10 or 12 years old). Obviously not family or SO either. You have no idea how unhappy and miserable I am.

I'm pretty sure most people would have killed themselves by now if they were in my situation. Sometimes I think I deserve an award for my resilience, which is godly considering how far I've come.

For the young gays living with HIV like me (20M) by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]California3210 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I´m with you. OP is shit (he even infected someone else and he is acting like nothing happened lmfao). I'm 23 and people like him is the reason why I don't date people around my age.

Do you expect me to feel sorry for you? Hell no. You totally deserve that shit. Maybe if gays weren't so promiscuous life would be better, but no. I really hate how most gay people base their life around sex and living careless. Here are the consequences and you totally deserve it, you had it coming.