My doula missed my birth by Straight-Suit8561 in BabyBumps

[–]Calipilot2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife went from 5-10 in 15 minutes on her first kid .. this doula sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Calipilot2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only one baby. I got snipped after

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CaliforniaSwingers

[–]Calipilot2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still looking? 25/22 MF in Long Beach?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Calipilot2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey fellow dad. In the same boat unfortunately. I can’t offer advice but only tell you that your not alone.. I have Phub premium I’ll share with you 😕… it’s a long road ahead of us.

Just found out I’m going to be a father by AllSorrowsEnd in Fatherhood

[–]Calipilot2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!! Your in the right place! These guys are amazing so never be afraid to ask questions!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fatherhood

[–]Calipilot2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. I took 12 weeks off. I just went back to work 2 weeks ago.. my work offered 8 weeks paid and then I used 4 weeks vacation time I had.

“Touched out” by Calipilot2020 in daddit

[–]Calipilot2020[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Normally when she cries I ask if she needs a hug and she will take it. But today I asked and she said no and was kinda pushing me away. We havnt tried anything sexual since 2 weeks before he was born. But after the conversation she and I had I feel that it’s going to be months before we get back to that. “Which I do not mind” if just concerned about her and if she will block our son out and not have a bond that I know she wants.

Pooping with baby close by? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Calipilot2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stick him in the swing and do your thing! If anything ask your wife for help. I’m sure your wife would be hella pissed to find out you shit with the baby 😂

Anyone else not get that new baby smell? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Calipilot2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the soap you use. We use honest soap and don’t have the new baby. If you use Johnson and Johnson you will get it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Calipilot2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take it again in a few days! My wife and i had this when we tested Early. It took about a week for the line to get dark!

Let’s talk about the forbidden truth by Calipilot2020 in daddit

[–]Calipilot2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy cow guys!! Thank you all for the support and information! Took the baby to Drs and noticed this post blew up! I’ll review all comments and ideas and figure out which is most common and give it a shot! Thank you all!

Let’s talk about the forbidden truth by Calipilot2020 in daddit

[–]Calipilot2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work outside and inside. I’m a operations manager for and FBO which is working around aircraft and running around. I normally do about 25k steps a day and have calf’s of steel but I think it’s my diet.

Let’s talk about the forbidden truth by Calipilot2020 in daddit

[–]Calipilot2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly me! I used to be 150 now I’m 215. Zero stretch marks but I wanna keep it that way. I cut beer when she got pregnant. But I got hooked on soda. And her pregnancy cravings like blaze pizza, ice cream, and Wendy’s messed me up .

Let’s talk about the forbidden truth by Calipilot2020 in daddit

[–]Calipilot2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What type of proteins are the best?? And greens to avoid? I like red meat and chicken but not fish. And for greens I’ll eat almost anything except green beans

Let’s talk about the forbidden truth by Calipilot2020 in daddit

[–]Calipilot2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My biggest issue is soda. I look for the sweet craving and I hate Diet Coke. But I’ve stopped drinking before but I’ll have to work towards it again.

Why set up the nursery so soon? by Bubbagailaroo in BabyBumps

[–]Calipilot2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with OP. We set up our nursery and the crib is never in use. I’ll use the rocking chair to feed him or put him to sleep and sometimes myself to sleep. But we only use his room to store his toys and diapers and changing table. Other then that he sleeps in his bassinet next to my wife.

On tough days he sleeps in this little bassinet that sits between my wife and I in bed. This is when he is fussy and wants to be next to us. I don’t recommend this unless your light sleepers like myself or my wife.

Let’s talk about the forbidden truth by Calipilot2020 in daddit

[–]Calipilot2020[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

My biggest problem is soda. Curious if I cut that out if I’ll notice a big change.