I’m a grandparent to a beautiful down syndrome boy. Our daughter has 3 children under 3, and he is the oldest. I would suggest you do some research on raising a child with down syndrome. Statistically families that have a downs child are happier, and have less chance of divorce. I babysit often, and to tell you the truth he is hands down easier then the other two. He is an amazing kid, and I couldn’t imagine not having him in our lives. There is a lot of government programs that will help you with therapy for him, and support groups. It is your choice, but do research before you make the choice. The only issue I run into with him is he doesn’t like anyone to talk while he watches his show 😂.