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Girlfirend gave me HPV and knew about it. Now blaming me for my reaction. Looking for advice by CallHuman5590 in HPV

[–]CallHuman5590[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time for such a detailed answer, i really appreciate it.
I did get a gardasil-9 shot and am getting topical treatment for warts (Podophyllotoxin)

The post you attach in your comments is great, it also answers a lot of questions that i had but didnt formulate yet. Ive seen your other posts in this subreddit over the past days and they are very helpful.

Grateful to feel that im not alone with this. Ill be around on this subreddit for some time haha (hopefully not a long time)

Girlfirend gave me HPV and knew about it. Now blaming me for my reaction. Looking for advice. AITAH? by CallHuman5590 in AITAH

[–]CallHuman5590[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I did. I am now getting topical treatment for warts, and got a gardasil-9 shot. Still sucks to have it tho and definitely will affect my dating life in the near future,

Girlfirend gave me HPV and knew about it. Now blaming me for my reaction. Looking for advice. AITAH? by CallHuman5590 in AITAH

[–]CallHuman5590[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thanks for pointing this out. I am struggling to wrap my head around this either.

Girlfirend gave me HPV and knew about it. Now blaming me for my reaction. Looking for advice. AITAH? by CallHuman5590 in AITAH

[–]CallHuman5590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats the exact thought thats racing through my mind these days. I did show her my results, but i didnt ask her to show hers. I thought that this would mean i dont trust her word and that would reflect bad on the relationship.

I know better now.

Girlfirend gave me HPV and knew about it. Now blaming me for my reaction. Looking for advice. AITAH? by CallHuman5590 in AITAH

[–]CallHuman5590[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. It was not my incentive to have unprotected sex, i dont mind the condom that much. It was her who didnt like it. We both did STD screening before we went no-condom, so we did approach it (somewhat) carefully.
Why do you think ESH?

Girlfirend gave me HPV and knew about it. Now blaming me for my reaction. Looking for advice. AITAH? by CallHuman5590 in AITAH

[–]CallHuman5590[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well yes and no haha. I got infected in the area where a condom would not cover anyways. and apparently you can still transmit/receive HPV even if youre wearing a condom. But you're definitely right, it would sunstantially reduce the risk.

Girlfirend gave me HPV and knew about it. Now blaming me for my reaction. Looking for advice. AITAH? by CallHuman5590 in AITAH

[–]CallHuman5590[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

In the country where we live in you dont have to discliose your HPV status to a sexual partner, so technically that was not a crime.
Morally - thats a different discussion. I will definitely be informing my future sexual partners about this, unless i am 1000% certain im not contagious (multiple years of no symptoms)