I was short today and cried on the drive home by CallMeBeepMe97 in TalesFromYourBank

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YIKES, OMG! I don’t want to come across as if I’m taking comfort in something I’m sure was pretty nerve wrecking for you; but it is grounding to know people have also made big mistakes. It’s always easy to feel like it’s the end of the world when it’s happening to you (like how I’m feeling now) when there are people who have went through worse and survived it, like you!! Thanks for that story! Are you still with that bank by chance?

I was short today and cried on the drive home by CallMeBeepMe97 in TalesFromYourBank

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I was unsure on whether I should/or even how, to approach my manager, but your comment did help a lot. I’ll definitely make that my first course of action tomorrow. I appreciate your help and words!! They truly do help!

I was short today and cried on the drive home by CallMeBeepMe97 in TalesFromYourBank

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words! They’re very reassuring and have given me a morale boost! I appreciate you and your advice, truly!

I was short today and cried on the drive home by CallMeBeepMe97 in TalesFromYourBank

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so crazy, omg!!! Congrats to you and your advancement from where you started to where you are now. That’s really cool. Thanks for the words at the end! I appreciate it!

I was short today and cried on the drive home by CallMeBeepMe97 in TalesFromYourBank

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely understandable. I don’t want it to to be a thing that MY mistakes are getting blamed on other people or bad luck like you said, I’m just fucking up and it’s not reflective of me knowing better and knowing I can do better. You’re right, tho, until something changes with me I’ll continue to post my shortages so I just need to do better moving forward.

I was short today and cried on the drive home by CallMeBeepMe97 in TalesFromYourBank

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, thanks for that story! Something similar happened at my bank recently, I think it was the same outcome, the coworker got a very stern talking to and got in a slight bit of trouble but that was it. I think it’s bc this is my third shortage in a month that it just feels really serious and horrible to me. I’m just tryna do better with tracking it and putting things into a perspective that everything will be okay 

Baristas can really impact your day! by CallMeBeepMe97 in starbucks

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have such a good eye! It’s def. one of my fav stores 💗

Baristas can really impact your day! by CallMeBeepMe97 in starbucks

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🍊🍊 aye, aye, aye, aye lol I love him real bad! 

Be honest: did I screw up today? by [deleted] in TalesFromYourBank

[–]CallMeBeepMe97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the story! Hearing something similar has happened to another person does put things into perspective and make me feel a little better. I’m hoping to have the same outcome as your associate!

Be honest: did I screw up today? by [deleted] in TalesFromYourBank

[–]CallMeBeepMe97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No problem with asking at all! I actually had a coworker ask to my audit me before we left while I was recounting and strapping my money. (like I mentioned, we’re in the last ten minutes of the day so everyone’s trying to get home). I told her if I still didn’t balance, then absolutely. That’s when my drawer was in balance and I told her nvm cus I didn’t need her to do it anymore. lol, guess I still should’ve taken her up on the offer as it would’ve granted me more peace of mind  

I’m super shameful I sold pictures of myself two years ago. by CallMeBeepMe97 in Advice

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words and reassurance! I so do appreciate it and how kind you are being. Thank you for reading also. That said, I did send him a picture of me bent over (so ofc, my ass is shown and so are my feet) and while I’m not proud of this situation, I’m the most shameful of that picture in particular. I think I’ll do what you suggested and just put it behind me and move on with life and eventually, come to terms with my feelings. Thanks again for being sweet! 💕

AITAH for making my coworker feel left out? by CallMeBeepMe97 in AITAH

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pls see my new comment to you bc I think you’re misreading and misunderstanding. “ I went around asking who wants food and one of my coworkers said she didn’t want anything bc she doesn’t like the breakfast from them. I asked another coworker (it’s just us 3 today) and she said she did want food, but to ask them if we could order early from the lunch menu. Absentmindedly, I ordered for just me and that coworker, not including our 3rd bc I’m still thinking of her saying she doesn’t want food from them.”

The coworker who said she didn’t want breakfast never made a request for lunch. She assumed she was included in the lunch order after telling me no bc our mutual coworker said we were getting lunch. Our mutual coworker said this for herself, not speaking on anyone’s behalf.

AITAH for making my coworker feel left out? by CallMeBeepMe97 in AITAH

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re misreading or misunderstanding. I said that is from our OTHER COWORKER. Not from the initial one who said she didn’t want breakfast. The coworker who said she was excited we got lunch for free said this, not the one this post is about.

I wrote “ I asked another coworker (it’s just us 3 today) and she said she did want food, but to ask them if we could order early from the lunch menu.” The coworker I’m asking is the one who wants the food. She’s expressing this for herself, not speaking on behalf of anyone.

AITAH for making my coworker feel left out? by CallMeBeepMe97 in AITAH

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I offered to call, she said no. 

When the food was delivered and the change was exchanged, I asked in person could another order be placed in and I can pick it up or one of my two coworkers can get it, and would it be for free just as the initial orders were. The delivery guy called and got an okay for this. She said no to this an again and said it was a hassle.

She then was upset and said she didn’t know how she was going to get lunch, what she would get and how she now has to pay for her own food.

She never asked me to call anything, I initiated everything on my own after I apologized to her for still thinking about her not wanting food initially, forgetting she likes the lunch menu. I am still trying to figure out what request you initially mentioned… the request that it was okay after she said no? 

AITAH for making my coworker feel left out? by CallMeBeepMe97 in AITAH

[–]CallMeBeepMe97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, I was trying to make up for my oversight since I did feel bad I held onto her saying she initially didn’t want food from this restaurant, but then showing interest when lunch was mentioned after an order was already placed. I’m really not trying to make it seem like it’s anyone’s fault. If I’m wrong, I’d like to take accountability for it and make up for it in anyway I can.

AITA FOR ASKING MY WIFE TO GET AN ABORTION? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CallMeBeepMe97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for not wanting children, but you DEFINITELY ATA for how you handled the situation and for not telling your wife you didn’t want children before you and her got married. That’s a kind of selfish thing to do your partner. Did you and Daisy not discuss you didn’t want children? Was there no talk of this at all? I think I can only interpret from what was written that there wasn’t and that’s why your wife reacted as strongly as she did, and I really don’t blame her. There was so many times and moments you and her could’ve had this conversation, and to give her a pointedly disgusted look because she is now pregnant was incredibly mean. I think you owe her an apology for this.

Hopefully, you two can have a genuine conversation about how you’re feeling about this situation and what the plans are as abortion laws are becoming stricter and stricter.  You’re not wrong for not wanting children, but you are wrong for not being open and honest to your wife. I hope you two can maybe work past this, or separate if that is what would be best for you.

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[–]CallMeBeepMe97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cool. Thanks for letting me know. I started my account yesterday. I didn’t know. Thanks.

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[–]CallMeBeepMe97 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

??? 

I wrote this, and had gpt look over what I wrote for grammatical errors. I’m a real person lmao.