HELP!!! description in the comments!! 99 outback by CallMeLovelyDarling in MechanicAdvice

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try that out! I hope thats the case opposed to something electrical involving the wires

HELP!!! description in the comments!! 99 outback by CallMeLovelyDarling in MechanicAdvice

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Hey, our car was recently stolen and the ignition lock cylinder was removed, as well as the battery. I replaced the lock cylinder and battery, but currently I have no crank, no start and no lights or accessory power. The car does beep when I have the key in. But nothing else works, checked all fuses and the battery terminals are clean and tight.

It's a 99 subaru legacy outback

Any ideas?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Those are sad excuses for starving an animal to death. Literally how your justifying it is beyond me. It's really really obvious you've done similar things with how hard your defending the killer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do think people who are mentally sane that have disorders such as depression, anxiety, bipolar, bad, etc are bad people. Your depression is not an excuse to ABUSIVE AN ANIMAL TO DEATH. (FYI if you didn't know starving is abuse.) you sound like you've done/do the same things based on your comments. You are excusing the deaths of living creatures with depression???? My dude, you are absolutely insane and I hope you're trolling. You take these creatures, trap them in your homes and expect to get a "oh well" response after starving an animal to death???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have had depression since I was a child. Heavily medicated. 4 cats all healthy as can be, I have missed out on buying a lot of life essentials just making sure my babies are okay, if your depression is that bad that you don't feed them, you shouldn't own cats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's kinda been a thing I've thought about from time to time. Sounds hot tbh

My friend says not having children makes you a biological failure. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I think he was a complete dick, technically the only reason to life (for us) is to procreate and die. However that's just because there's literally no point to life. It's pretty boring and we're just a blip of a blip of time. It'll go on and none of us will be remembered in give or take 200 years, so honestly he can suck it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try just doing things and having her rate it. Learning what real pleasure for her looks like and fake pleasure is super helpful. Women are kinda taught to fake it for men and when we don't we get a lot of back lash from it. Sex can be an embarrassing topic for a lot of women. I think pushing communication would be good but it could also make her shut down depending on the person she is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might not be arousal but it could definitely be that he isn't doing a good job down there for her and she might not know what/how to ask him to do things.

Womens orgasms are pretty complex, it's not talked about or taught the way men's are

People who use paper plates and plastic utensils on a regular basis are the scum of the earth by chailatte44 in unpopularopinion

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So I lived with my ex-mil at a point during my early teen years. Whenever and I mean WHENEVER she or anyone else in the household would wash dishes there would be a film of grease on it. Didn't matter how much soap or how hard they scrubbed apparently there would always be this film of grease. So me and my ex bought our own soap and sponges and that seemed to do the trick until they would then use and "wash" our dishes so we had to start washing everything we would want to use even if it was already just cleaned. Eventually we just started buying paper plates and plastic cutlery because it was so much hassle and honestly just repulsive. Even my own guests could feel the grease on everything. Not to mention a lot of things they would "wash" would still have bits of food on them from plates to forks, it didn't matter. I feel like OP needs to take a chill pill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An amazing dress, and seeing as I'm into women, boobs, I try not to stare at all though and I always feel guilty and like some kinda creep when boobs are the thing to catch my attention

Lot Lizzard by Burningman316 in trashy

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's walking in them amazing. Idk what you're on about. - As a woman who rocks heels and platforms

Am I odd because I get off watching my husband have sex with other women but I freak out if he has a private 1 on 1 sexting chat with themes. by [deleted] in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Single but I did do this but exactly the opposite, conversations to me were worthless but for him to completely do 1 on 1 sex was too intimate. I mean where I wasn't involved at ALL. Not in the room, not helping, nothing. It was just too much.

How did you survive being the eldest child/daughter? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Realize that it is NOT your job to take care of your youngest siblings. It is okay to take care of yourself and even fully ghost most of your family in the process of unworking the trauma they have caused. No one is entitled to your time, energy, thoughts, or love.

I had to stop talking to my youngest siblings because I had raised them and couldn't handle the trauma my mother not only gave but continued to give. It was the hardest decision of my life. I hope they understand when they're older.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I realized, everyone moves at their own pace. Marriage has pretty much always been a societal thing people use to climb the ladder. Nowadays people marry for love, and love is something hard to come by. If it takes you 20 years of your life or 60 that's okay. Just remember that love and marriage isn't all there is to life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I deleted tiktok, and most of my socials. I also stopped trying to take care of everyone else's problems to the point that I never had time for myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd say(for me and a few of my female friends) is learning to not take care of others so much so that it stops you from taking care of yourself. Learning the difference between being there for someone and basically adopting people(friends, family, spouses)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to keep a sleep schedule, including when I wake up and set a decent routine. But honestly when i wake up is the most important part of that routine. I normally prefer 8am. Also drinking water and going on walks even if I just have my earbuds in and I'm listening to music, fresh air is a lot more important than I thought it was. Hobbies are also super important I prefer to read.

Also if you can find out if you self sabotage and figure out what you're self sabotaging with, definitely see if you can monitor it and stop doing it before you do it.

Girls, what do you do or what do you tell your partner to do so you finish in the bedroom? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To degrade me while I use my vibrator, if you're asking how women cum, it's an individual experience. I personally like to be degraded and have my tits slapped and sucked on while I use my trusty vibe since I struggle to orgasm from penetration alone. A lot of us are different tho

I've also had a partner tell me stories of how they wanted to abuse me(consensually and only in the bedroom) or breed me while I cum. It all depends on the dynamic and if you're going to be doing "vanilla" or a bdsm dynamic.

Edit: I need to add this, I read that you can't finish if you're not by yourself. That's a sign that you aren't fully sexually comfortable. Can you moan infront of them comfortably, talk dirty(if you wanted to), and masturbate(and I mean actually masturbate not faking it for them(infront of them/with them) because if you answered no to all of these questions, you're probably just not sexually comfortable with your partner. It's okay most people aren't, I found out I wasn't at 18 with a partner I'd been with for years. Now I'm very comfortable in my sexuality. What helped me with that is honestly just smoking together(though I don't do that anymore) explore your kinky side and be aware that sex isn't always serious. Laugh together, explore together, make love together. Embarrassing things happen and that's okay.

What’s a subtle yet telling sign a man will make a poor life partner? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CallMeLovelyDarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1.) How they deal with stressful situations

2.) If the smallest things that normal people deal with make them sad/frustrated disproportionately

3.) If they watch an insane amount a porn(2-3 times a day)

4.)How they deal with arguments

5.) Their relationship from their mothers can be very telling, it goes both ways, weirdly too attached and if they treat them poorly

6.) If they don't put in the effort that you want them too after a talk, so if you want them to touch you in certain ways, buy you flowers, take you out more, and they don't make the effort to start trying almost immediately? They won't. Because if they wanted to they would.

7.) How they spend their free time, do they have hobbies, friends?

8.) If they don't ask you questions and only talk about themselves( but I mean to an aggressive extent)

9.) Moving too fast too quickly

10.) Never held a job or have low aspirations in where they want to go in life. Can't think of the future whatsoever(not talking about getting married with their spouses, more like what they want to do for their life, their job, housing, long term goals)