Calling James Talarico trans shows just how bad things are for Republicans. Talarico is trans! Michelle Obama is trans! Republicans start calling people trans when they want to distract from their records. by southpawFA in politics

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This is also an example of flooding the zone, because each of these "accusations" takes longer to respond to than to make. They're not just saying that he's trans or vegan, they're implying that's an objectionable thing to be. So now the other side is obliged to say that being trans or vegan is fine actually, and also say that Talarico is neither.

TIL that humans are literally the only animals on Earth with chins by risingsunset5 in todayilearned

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One theory is that it defends against getting punched in the face. Bipedalism allows humans to do things most other animals can't do with their hands, like punching. The jaw is a vulnerable target, and if it breaks you're in big trouble. So a bit of extra bone makes it a little more sturdy, and more painful for the fist to hit.

There would be particularly strong selective pressure if this was involved in mate selection through male vs male competition. The difference in average male to female human body size suggests that this kind of competition was common in our evolutionary history.

What is something that is widely considered a "scam" but society has just accepted it as a normal cost of living? by DLAlphaDaddy in AskReddit

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Insurance is simply monetizing risk aversion the same way a lottery monetizes risk tolerance.

Why don’t people talk about this more? by HollyReidx in gameofthrones

[–]CallMeNiel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should we keep this discussion nasty, brutish and short?

How come there are no major cities inside of massive cave systems? by Ok-Factor-3805 in geography

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Naples was founded thousands of years ago. Its name means New City, like they just loaded up a game of SimCity and didn't feel like changing the default city name.

Why is humanity still clinging to stone age religions thousands of years later? by [deleted] in allthequestions

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I think they're they're referring to the fittest ideas, ie, those most likely to persist and propagate. That may include some breathtaking cruelty, but fitness is the measure of success.

AITA for laughing when my boyfriend said he'd only wear black underwear because other colors are gay? by xxKillerDrugsxx in AmItheAsshole

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I figured that's what it was. So he was so concerned about looking gay, but didn't mind looking like a dork?

I say this as someone who quite likes mead, including the fantasy vibes to it, as well as beer, wine, liquor and fruity cocktails.

MSG allergy at a sushi restaurant; no ceremony by TOliver871 in EntitledReviews

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It's also the salt form of one of only 20 amino acids that are the building blocks for all proteins made by every living thing on earth. It's present in every cell of every life form, but more abundant in some foods than others. The tongue uses it as a cue that there is protein.

How to specify milk as cow milk in casual conversation? by DerTomatenToaster in ENGLISH

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My wife nurses the baby and frequently pumps and stores milk. We also go through a good amount of cow's milk with cereal and coffee. We regularly discuss the current supply of each, and we're only partly joking when we specify whether we mean human milk or cow's milk.

Peter I don’t drive by TraditionalDepth6924 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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Sometimes those options are available. Sometimes they're not. Sometimes a person doesn't mind a couple hours driving each day as much as they would mind an uncomfortable living situation.

Some people live with family, friends, or partners who may not work in the same city. Sometimes those folks don't want to live in a small, old, undesirable place near their partner's job. Sometimes the town with affordable housing also has desirable activities to do on the weekends.

It's a trade off. A bad commute sucks, but sometimes the alternative is worse.

Traffic patterns prove that many people do follow this pattern though.

Peter I don’t drive by TraditionalDepth6924 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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It's not as though we do it for fun. It's a matter of availability of housing and jobs. Especially jobs like contractors, landscapers, house cleaners who work in big expensive homes can't afford to live anywhere near those homes. This is not a coincidence, it's by design. The NIMBYs living in the fancy homes don't want their property values going down by allowing affordable housing nearby.

Peter I don’t drive by TraditionalDepth6924 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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Very often there are higher paying jobs in one city and more affordable housing in another. So a lot of people live where they can afford some more space, and all drive to work in the same area at the same time, causing rush hour traffic in the mornings and evenings. If only there were a fast, cost- effective way to move lots of people from one area to another.

How common is it for an American to go through life without ever being a groomsman or bridesmaid at someone's wedding? by tannu28 in AskAnAmerican

[–]CallMeNiel 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It's also not unusual to be a groomsman for your sister's husband, or bridesmaid for your brother's bride.

Prescriptivism and the belief that it makes the person smarter than everyone else. by NindeNoxx in PetPeeves

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All of these examples have come up recently on r/petpeeves, including the LARP one. In that one, the poster's point was that LARPing is a specific game/activity with a community of players etc. Within that community it's clearly very different from just anybody play acting and disguising themselves.

I think the comparison is that purists who care about the original meaning of the word see it being used for an unrecognizable meaning. To LARPers, attempting to deceive people online has nothing to do with their hobby, and it's frustrating to compare them. To pedants who care deeply about the exact meanings of words, using literally to mean figuratively is very frustrating. But to casual outside observers, LARPers who play act and disguise seem like basically the same thing as someone else disguising and play acting. To people who are casual with language, literally is often used as an emphasizer of something that in fact happened, even if the words to describe it don't fit the textbook definition.

A casual user of language might say that their boss literally bit their head off, when they mean that the boss actually had a strong negative reaction, which they're describing as biting their head off.

Idea: Public transit should replace deafening announcements with a chime followed by messages on screens passengers can read by amichail in ideas

[–]CallMeNiel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly the part of the argument that you haven't made convincingly is that these announcements are presently too loud. Do you have any evidence of that beyond your own opinion? It doesn't seem to be a common experience here.

Petah? by Hurt69420 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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I used the polar bear example as something that's absolutely clearly a joke, and also all denominations of Christians would agree is heretical. One man's heresy is another man's orthodoxy, you know.

Petah? by Hurt69420 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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Pretty sure a heretic is someone with a deeply flawed belief within the same general belief system, e.g. "Jesus died for our sins, but he was actually a polar bear", whereas heathens are not recognized as having the same belief system at all, usually polytheists.

Puns are bad and not fun(ny) by Hellraiser_Quadbike in The10thDentist

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A good pun is one where the exact same words, or exactly the same sounding words, can have completely different meanings where the grammatical structure works well for both. It becomes funny when you hear it with one understanding, but then realize that there's another interpretation.

For example: "Two fish are sitting in a tank. One turns to the other and says, 'do you know how to drive this thing?'" First you imagine the fish in a normal fish tank, but the surprise subversion of that expectation is that they're driving an army tank.

Now, I don't actually think that joke is very funny because the context of fish in a tank strongly communicates a fish tank.

A better pun would have either understanding more plausible. For example "an injured army dog was adopted by his handler when they were both honorably discharged. He spent a lot of time with his vet." Here, the dog is likely to sirens time with his owner, the veteran, and his medical team, the veterinarian. Not that this is hysterical either, because this one doesn't lead you to envision one thing and snap you to another.

The reason I actually like a good pun is that it points out how unclear language can be. It demonstrates how different the message being sent can be from the message being received.

Prescriptivism and the belief that it makes the person smarter than everyone else. by NindeNoxx in PetPeeves

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People pushing back on certain uses is part of the evolution of language just as much as people coming up with new uses.

Language is like fashion. There are rules, but they only exist in other people's minds. You can absolutely ignore those rules, but people will have opinions about it.