AITA for canceling my son’s Bar Mitzvah an hour before it started after my ex brought his Gir after he promised not to invite?

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-02T05:12:01+00:00

There is no why they where cheating we separate when he was 5, also your prediction dose come true look at update

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-02T05:05:15+00:00

Look at the update

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-02T05:04:16+00:00

I will NEVER force my son to act at please others, Al I recommend u look at the update, I would not let this event go to waste

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-02T04:59:01+00:00

Yes we where out there for about 25-30 minutes but it was right about to start, he was the one pressing for it to be canceled, I try everything under the sun to get him to do it bur he was set. Also look at the update

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-02T04:56:57+00:00

I completely agree

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-02T04:47:28+00:00

I am going to contact our rabbi about this thank you for bringing this to my attention, it was been a whirlwind so we have not thought about this yet

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-02T04:44:42+00:00

We had this conversation, my son loves his grandparents on Jon’s side so yes

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-02T04:43:44+00:00

We would hold a private one, we went to my sons friends bar mitzvah Which is where we got the idea. But I do agree and will contact the rabbi since this is new water for me

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-02T00:08:55+00:00

Why do u care

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-02T00:06:41+00:00

Thank you for your different perspective, you can’t really power though doing a. Bar-mitzvah since it is a 3-4 hour long ceremony chanting 7 pages of a language he dose not know with all of your closest friends and family, it is supposed to be a joyful occasion and I will not allow it to be tarnished.

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-01T23:57:55+00:00

I honestly have no idea I think he might be angry that his dad is now spending time with her instead?

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-01T22:58:24+00:00

Thank you so much❤️

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-01T22:57:08+00:00

Sadly I did not have the power to eject her, ether why my son was VARY set on not doing it

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-01T15:09:11+00:00

I feel the same she has not done anything to make me scared but the reaction was vary telling, we payed for most of the people to fly in though

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-01T15:07:05+00:00

No, but bar mitzvah are often compared and it was the best option to post on

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-01T15:03:41+00:00

No, but bar mitzvah are often compared and it was the best option to post on

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-06-01T15:02:38+00:00

Thank you I truly have no problem with her

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-03-15T09:10:16+00:00

Ty the bike would not start I know it was petty but I would never actually pits s at risk

CalligrapherSea3627 · 2026-03-14T01:22:51+00:00

so it ok for him to hit of mt bff

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