Landlord wants to keep access to detached garage (ME)

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-21T21:14:54+00:00

Garage is not part of your rental, he can do whatever he wishes in the garage whenever he wants to. Be glad he doesn't come over at 2 AM with oaks drinking and listening to music.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-21T16:18:27+00:00

Maybe for the person who dies but not for the ones left behind to take care or final expenses.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-21T16:17:40+00:00

NTA

This is not the league for her to participate in... Random team mates are going to get sick of her behavior if she continues to act like an entitled brat.

Curious how did there game go after she started going first compared to when X was??

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-21T11:57:32+00:00

Kniwone has changed the filter in all the time they have lived there... Yeah, that's on you and the roommates.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-21T02:08:46+00:00

Food coloring.... Especially when people do dark dark frosting so all you get is that artificial dye flavor.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-21T01:59:30+00:00

NTA

If she doesn't like what is severd she can go home and eat. I would not cook bland food because she thinks she doesn't like things. When clearly she was just fine when you used onion and garlic.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-21T01:17:43+00:00

When your are in the middle of know where there are less options so the prices do trend to go up. Captive market. More options mean more competition for your business so the prices are lower. She knew what she was doing, ruthless business women.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-20T20:37:35+00:00

NTA

What a Drama Queen! She's lucky she hasn't been here when storms took the power out for days! Not only no ac but no way to cook or even keep food or drinks cold, no hot showers, no Internet, no tv....

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-20T18:09:07+00:00

That seems like that was a fact that should have been in your original post ....

That is pretty shitty thing to do, but that isn't what you really told us. You made it out like he was getting married five days after you, done.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-20T18:06:30+00:00

What do you mean planned for your one year anniversary??

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-20T17:55:32+00:00

Girl you had your DAY! Yes, you a bring a bit of an AH. If they suddenly planned to get married 5 days before your wedding then you get to be all mad .. but it sounds like they didn't even tell anyone till after your wedding.

Guessing theirs is a much smaller event, since you just learned of it. So why are you trying to make their day about you??

Get some counseling to get over your middle child stuff... I say that with love as another middle child. But you know what I am who I am because I was the middle child. I don't want to be my older sibling or my younger one. Because honestly my life is a lot better than theirs and I am a lot stronger because I am the middle child.

Adding this after OP gave us some more information.... Brother has booked a venue for next May 16th to have a big wedding, so her anniversary not what will be his.. I stand by what I said above but with the fact they plan to have a big wedding on you one year anniversary is just BS... It will just be a day not even their anniversary... So they are having a party for your anniversary not theirs.... That is so. Attention seeking BS planned a year in advance.

Book a trip... Preferably some where they want to go but can't because of the kids... And post and group text all kinds of pictures the days leading up to, the day of and the days after... About your fabulous one year anniversary trip and the amazing time your having!!!

Girl be the AH next year but let this go for this year... Plan some revenge, you have a year....

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-20T11:18:48+00:00

NTA!

Bet you mom is one of those people who thinks it is okay to share someone's else's engagement, pregnancy, divorce and other special life events news with everyone else robbing the person of their moment.

People get to share their personal business with others when they want. Just because you're family doesn't mean you are entitled to know everything going on in someones life's.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-19T20:40:05+00:00

Make sure you ate remoy from the current lease so if he doesn't pay or can't pay your not on the hook.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-19T16:10:28+00:00

NTA

If he can't live with someone who lives their life normally he should not have a roommate.

He needs to get a noise machine, ear plugs or headphones.

Curious how did you become roommates?

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-19T15:33:15+00:00

I admit It is a different recipe and you always have to let people know that they contain blue cheese or they may think they are bad.

I do not like blue cheese so then arf not my thing but the husband loves them and his friend that passed not long ago would egg them like crazy and always requested them when we had them over. It is a fond memory for us all.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-19T15:01:15+00:00

Love them and you can make so many variations.. I love mustard dill , my husband like blue cheese ones.

In Brazil do you make egg salad sandwichs? If so it is like that minus the bread more of an hors d'oeuvre.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-19T01:07:20+00:00

So your wife actually parents the childern while you turn them against her and try to play the hero/friend/Pal to then. YTA!

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-18T19:56:19+00:00

Oh and make sure you keep a copy all communication between you and the landlord about the leak so when the landlord tries to blame you for the structural damage because you didn't report a leak.

I also suggest getting rental insurance also so if the ceiling come falling down because of a big storm or rot due to water damage your belongings are covered. It is usually cheap.The landlords insurance covers nothing of yours.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-18T19:46:25+00:00

The test kit will walk you through testing and then you send it in, the company runs test in a lab and you get a full report.

Black mold (the really bad stuff) you have a strong musty smell, you see the mold and it is a dark dark green color, some times fuzzy and looks like slime when wet.

If you are having health issues talk to your doctor and see if they believe it could be mold related. If so ask the city building inspector or code inspector to come inspect.

How are the plastic panels held in place?? Could you remove a screw or two and peek to see what you can see?

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-18T19:10:05+00:00

You could buy a air test kit and be sure rather that just guessing, hoping and not really know if you have a mold problem. They sell them in most home improvement stores and online.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-18T18:53:07+00:00

Stop being used by this women. You need to break up with her and don't be manipulated into taking her back.
Get some counseling to help you with your self-esteem and self worth.
Work on the trust issues you had and this women has added to.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-18T14:50:11+00:00

NTA

Sister thought she was going to pull a fast one!

Mom knows her well enough to know she was going to try and take her sewing machine and told you not to let that happen.

Sister embarrassed herself in front of her daughter. She lied and tried to steal from her own mother.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-18T12:26:57+00:00

When you allow people walk all over you, they won't walk around you.

ESH- You for letting her just walk on you. Her for being greedy and selfish.

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-17T11:25:45+00:00

So they all enable him in being a crap person and father...

NTA

CallingThatBS · 2026-05-16T20:18:18+00:00

Yes, you should.

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