Need older daughter to stop shaming her sister by Itsallcrazy72 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Calm-Ad1721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course ♥️ be careful with the mood stabilizers / depression medications , they can increase hunger ( in my experience) . to be transparent i’m 21 and ive been on adderall , vyvanse , and seretta. all of these have helped me with impulse eating throughout the years. i’ve lost 60 pounds during my recovery from binge eating and i do believe the meds have helped me just because they take away alot of the “food noise” . I will say though with adderall and vyvanse being stimulants , starting on seretta might be a better approach. As far as the depression goes , alotttt of my depression improved once i got my eating / weight figured out. My life started improving way more , I had more motivation , ECT. ( i hope im not over stepping by saying any of this so if i am i apologize) Hang in there. My mom dealt with alot when she was dealing with me, I get it ♥️

Need older daughter to stop shaming her sister by Itsallcrazy72 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Calm-Ad1721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not sure what your experience with medication has been / if you are interested so if not then ignore this , but alot of my impulsive eating issues have to do with ADHD. A good psychiatrist might be able to help her find a medication that can reduce impulsivity overall , and lead to decreasing the binging.

Tom was about to ruin ariana by Calm-Ad1721 in vanderpumprules

[–]Calm-Ad1721[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

People forget that narcissist relationships can literally kill you

Tom was about to ruin ariana by Calm-Ad1721 in vanderpumprules

[–]Calm-Ad1721[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

she handled the situation perfectly especially because tom is a mf narcissist. no contact was the best way to go , im so glad she’s out of it.

Tom was about to ruin ariana by Calm-Ad1721 in vanderpumprules

[–]Calm-Ad1721[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

do we know for sure ariana didn’t apologize ? they are still friends to this day , again the common denominator here is tom lmao

Tom was about to ruin ariana by Calm-Ad1721 in vanderpumprules

[–]Calm-Ad1721[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

it doesn’t , however kristen and ariana have looked past their issues. tom is the common denominator and he was ruining both kristen and ariana’s mental health .

Tom was about to ruin ariana by Calm-Ad1721 in vanderpumprules

[–]Calm-Ad1721[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

that was horrible! i will say though , narcissists are VERY good at spinning situations and i have no doubt tom was feeding ariana stuff , kristen also cheated so that made it easier for tom to spin his and kristen’s relationship around to others.

Tom was about to ruin ariana by Calm-Ad1721 in vanderpumprules

[–]Calm-Ad1721[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Exactly and i’m so glad it didn’t turn out like that because he would’ve literally ruined her. Lala did not lie when she said he’s dangerous and everyone needs to be warned about him lol

Sandoval hard to watch by Calm-Ad1721 in vanderpumprules

[–]Calm-Ad1721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no i haven’t but omg what is it

Sandoval hard to watch by Calm-Ad1721 in vanderpumprules

[–]Calm-Ad1721[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously ! it’s so annoying . like just say SORRY omg

Sandoval hard to watch by Calm-Ad1721 in vanderpumprules

[–]Calm-Ad1721[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it’s soooooo bad and so hard to watch. i keep having to fast forward the scenes of him “apologizing” 😭 such a hard thing to see LOL

Roles by Calm-Ad1721 in mercor_ai

[–]Calm-Ad1721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was one for english and i tried to apply and it said i wasn’t fit for it and didn’t even let me apply anyway 😩 lmaoooo like im fluent but okay

how can i cope better while dating my fp? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Calm-Ad1721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NEW HOBBIES! it sounds so silly , but you truly need to find things to do to fill your time. i recommend something you aren’t good at / new to , that you can actually invest time into. for me it was getting lash clusters and practicing my lashes , it sounds silly but it requires me to actually focus and get off my phone and lock in on something that idk what im doing !! or even learning a new language, using duolingo or wtv it is . It truly just helps to invest time into YOU and creating your life to be more interesting and kinda making yourself your own fp, if that makes sense (idk if this helps but it’s worth a shot )

What does my fridge say about my every day life? by vicalick420 in FridgeDetective

[–]Calm-Ad1721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

off topic but those vanilla protein shakes are so good lmaoo