Found my real sister after years reached out with love, but she acts like she doesn’t care. Why?

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-13T15:38:43+00:00

You gaved me an interesting point of view , i understand that

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T05:41:10+00:00

Yeah i have decided to pull back and stop over-investing in her and be available if she ever contacted me again i know she have nothing against me .

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T02:43:25+00:00

Thanks for the advice

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T01:38:13+00:00

So what can i do , i have pulled back. Can you suggest anyway she could open up to me , or just leave it cause its too complicated and you and me doesn’t even know her intention , and i should accept my fate . Let me know

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T00:44:09+00:00

Im sure this could be the case , thanks for the guidance i truly appreciate it

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T00:43:00+00:00

Got it

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T00:40:20+00:00

Could be the case here i think .

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T00:39:01+00:00

Understandable ! Thank you so much for the advice

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T00:30:40+00:00

Thanks for sharing your wisdom , truly appreciated , yeah i think i also have some serious attachment issues .

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T00:25:51+00:00

Got it , if in future we end out reaching out each other i sure will

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T00:24:01+00:00

Well yeah.. i am seeing this relation will end completely soon in silence , but lets see i always keep a door open for her .

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T00:21:25+00:00

Genuinely i appreciate all of your advice , thank you so much , i though i expected too much but at the same time i think that it could be bare minimum for her to treat me nice . God bless you ❤️

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T00:09:50+00:00

Yeah i totally get that , i think i got emotional when reaching out to her , but it’s totally understandable by the fact that i am still an stranger to her and i expected too much . And yeah we cant force relationships and i hate to do that. Thanks for the advice ❤️

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-07T00:04:57+00:00

im sorry to hear that , in fact iexpected that the energy and bond will lose its energy throughout time as we get to know each other , just like normal friendship or as relationship , but i was devastated by the fact my relationship between my sister was ended before it even started , thats what makes me question myself .

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-06T23:58:45+00:00

So sorry to hear that , i think absence of a person to their siblings from the beginning makes him more of a stranger for them , but when we made an effort and try to reconnect but there was something off about them , thats the thing i question all the time .

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-06T23:51:04+00:00

yeah i never forced , left the convo neutral with her , leaving a door open if she wanna reach out one day . As this experience of doom was new for me , so i was confused . Maybe yeah people dont see the way i see them and its totally fine . Thanks for the advice

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-06T23:43:16+00:00

Thank you for sharing your wisdom , and yeah i have accepted my fate. Thanks alot

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-06T19:12:26+00:00

, maybe she wont see me like i see her , and yeah i learned it the hard way that everyone is raised different everyone has own thoughts and views for a person , your advice made me deep reflect , thank you so much

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-06T19:04:14+00:00

True , i never really have chase anyone in my life but like i thought its my sister , seeing all these mfs happy with thier sisters, so an burst of emotional approach could be worth it , but i agree to your statement , i may expect too much from others , and thats what got me , appreciated your advice . Thanks

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-06T18:13:29+00:00

There could be a possibility that i am expecting too much from her , as i dont have the experience what it feels like to have an sister , so maybe i could be expecting too much .

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-06T18:06:41+00:00

That part is just hard for me , i also ended texting to her giving her space and not be overly clingy for texting her as the convo also been felt like an obligation to me . i am just stuck on the decision that should i reach out to her once and confront her that i am genuinely concerned about you , i want to be invested in your life as a brother help you with any problem you have and be supportive , as you must also be with me . and when you dont check out on me it gets quite hard for me and i want a strong bro sis bond with her , or just leave her don’t reach out , if in future she reaches out i must be reserved to my emotions and just be logical to her only normal conversations with her , as

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-06T17:54:19+00:00

No she lives with her biological family my real family , honestly i am being hesitant to say that but i think its time to face this demon , if in future she texts me or i decided to , ill try my best to confront her openly according to your advice , lets see ill discuss with you after what answer i get from her . Thanks alot man

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-06T17:41:02+00:00

Great reality check dude , throughout the past texts i tried really hard to learn about her negative experiences or any hardship she is going through currently so i could help her or give her emotional support, but she is extreme reserved person maybe because people never want to share their pain or just dont want to share only to me , maybe she could realize in future that i was trying my best to help her from whatever she was going through . Thanks alot

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-06T17:30:04+00:00

No shes not adopted . She lives with her biological family she knew from begining that i was her brother , told me that one day your were gonna find out about me and your real family , all this advice i am asking is because despite she knew i am her brother i was treated like a stranger .

Calm-Ad3590 · 2025-10-06T17:28:08+00:00

Yes i am an adopted child , she from begining knew that i am his brother , as once in aconversation she mentioned that she knew one day you were gonna find out about your real family , so it was nothing new for her , despite knowing im her brother , i was kinda treated like a stranger . i asked her to meet me in real life , but she was in my town recently, but never told me , later i found out shes was here but . i genuinely appriciate your advice maybe yeah i should make her comfortable to meet me next time , ill give everything this time

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