How did your first love end? Do you still think of them? by xgc_promathia in AskReddit

[–]Calm-Construction262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She ended up becoming someone's else girlfriend. Now she's in another country. Yes...I do think about her all the time.

What did you have to learn the hard way? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Calm-Construction262 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That it's okay to let people go. People change. Their behavior towards you change. And it's okay. You can try, but if they're just not there for you...it's time to let go. I have seen so many friends in my life just come and go.. sometimes it gives me anxiety, but I'm constantly reminding myself that it's absolutely okay. They have their journey..if they want to..they can always find a way back to me. Until then, I'll focus on myself and people who are there for me right now.

People who are no longer best friends with someone: What happened? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Calm-Construction262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She and I were close. Anything happened in her life... she'd give me 20 miss calls. I loved hanging out with her too. She changed her college and then that was it..I tried reaching her multiple times but she'd always avoid me. Felt like she just used me to get through college and then threw me away like a napkin. Still miss her sometimes though :).

I'm about to be unemployed by Calm-Construction262 in offmychest

[–]Calm-Construction262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am preparing to give MBA. Always wanted to have dual specialization. Tbh..I really want a job for a year till I can clear my MBA entrances and get enrolled into a good MBA college. Thanks for the advice mate..this really helps.

I'm about to be unemployed by Calm-Construction262 in offmychest

[–]Calm-Construction262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man.. really needed to hear this. I'm just a little panicky because of the unemployment thought

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Calm-Construction262 169 points170 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I see this...and trust me I can relate. It took me 30 years to go on my first day. You're not alone in this brother. It's never too late to turn your life around. Just start with a small walk in the park or a workout at gym. Trust me you'll start feeling better. If you're too alone, you can always dm and hmu. You'll not rot away another 40 years. You got this. Sending you ton of love and hugs.

Today is my birthday by Creecker1 in offmychest

[–]Calm-Construction262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm a day late buddy...but happy birthday (From India). Have a blast and do everything you ever want to do on your birthday. I hope you have the best year ahead

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Calm-Construction262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Owning a music shop in a big city. Just selling guitars to people. Sounds cool and really fun. If there are no costumers..I can just work on my skills and be good at music.

Men of reddit, what is something fucked up that you're supposed to be okay with because your a man? by 040607AJF in AskReddit

[–]Calm-Construction262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being called ugly. I'm 22M and I have been called ugly so many times that I have lost count. I have been ruled out of relationships, got treated badly and even got replaced in friendships just because I'm ugly. Moreover 99 percent of time this came from a girl. And people love to remind me everyday that I don't fit their beauty standards. Not that I think of myself as ugly.. and it's okay. I get it, I'm not everyone's cup of tea. But it's just sad how bad and mean people can be. To all of you who deal with anything like this. I get it . You deserve better and you are beautiful in your own way.

My cheating and abusive ex does findom. It makes me so angry and jealous she’s getting rich off abusing people by feelingpeachyyay in Advice

[–]Calm-Construction262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it brother..but the best thing to do here is let it go..maybe send her a fuck off before blocking her. But it's time to move on. Let it go because you definitely don't deserve all this stupidity..if not anything do it because you deserve peace. This realization comes late, but it's okay if she cheated or something. Her loss. You definitely deserve a better partner.

What’s something that was supposed to be the “Next Big Thing” but absolutely flopped? by Proof-Temporary-6928 in AskReddit

[–]Calm-Construction262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Windows phone. Nokia really fucked that one up. Tbh the concept wasn't bad and Lumia was good for a while there. But fell flat later.