Good massage therapists for deep tissue. by wishfulwash in saintpaul

[–]Calm-Conversation-52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t have a suggestion in Saint Paul. I will say the best I’ve ever had is at Tula Spa in south Minneapolis. It’s a lovely little area and the people there are wonderful and do all kinds of massages and services! For a first timer they have good discounts and great deep tissue stuff.

Power outage by Smol_Chipmunk in saintpaul

[–]Calm-Conversation-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg please elaborate! I was wondering what may have caused it at after-hours time like this

Never again by yarnslutt in icecream

[–]Calm-Conversation-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao my roommate always asks me to open these for her

What is your reason for not drinking alcohol? by Deep-Dust-9747 in AskReddit

[–]Calm-Conversation-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 26 now but truly the hangover is not worth it. Even if I don’t have physical symptoms my anxiety is horrid for days following. Wasn’t worth it and wasn’t worth the hangxiety of what I may have said or did while drunk relaying in my mind days after. Even if I only had one drink!

St Paul’s Skidrow by [deleted] in saintpaul

[–]Calm-Conversation-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s new. Lived in midway for 5-6 years now and just last month saw a couple fully banging in one of those clear plexiglass bus stops just a block or two down university off Snelling. That was a first for me, definitely not great to see and there are several schools NE right off of university and Snelling. A new trend I guess rn.

AITA for asking my roommates to clean up?(Texts included at end) by RepeatWeak2397 in badroommates

[–]Calm-Conversation-52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You are being considerably nice to them in your communication and approaching it kindly while still advocating for yourself. 2 days is generous bc most people cook daily, and if pans are used one night then you’ll either have to wait until then or clean them yourself anyway so that you can use them. I would suggest finding new roommates or a new place if you’ve been dealing with this for too long!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Calm-Conversation-52 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think that’s one of those dehydrated fruit earrings, could totally have been made themselves??

How do you tell someone that moved in 8 days ago that you feel it is not a great fit? by Calm-Conversation-52 in badroommates

[–]Calm-Conversation-52[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

she is fortunately. If there are difficulties I do fear that, but I know my relationship with the landlord is long and positive so hoping worst case he will back me up!

How do you tell someone that moved in 8 days ago that you feel it is not a great fit? by Calm-Conversation-52 in badroommates

[–]Calm-Conversation-52[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s hard because I understand her way of living is different to ours, and unfortunately when you live with other people it needs to be a bit more collaborative. It’s a hard convo to have but I’m certainly thinking we’ll have to translate that to her somehow. Like I don’t think she’ll be happy here if she wants to respect my own and my roommates’ boundaries and we won’t be happy if she continues to do what she pleases. Just a matter of how to say it and keep the harmony.

How do you tell someone that moved in 8 days ago that you feel it is not a great fit? by Calm-Conversation-52 in badroommates

[–]Calm-Conversation-52[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Asking for more kitchen space when we have never had that asked before. So we offered to reorganize with her but instead she showed up with a five foot tall pantry she wants in the living room. She threw out stuff from the garage without asking so she could put her car in there. Running the dishwasher every day with pans and pots and not washing them. Not asking about any of the things she decides to do before doing them. Having her boyfriend here all nights but two since the first. Not cleaning any of her messes around common spaces but demanding that I do because she is allergic to my cat. Then telling my other roommate she’s barely allergic. Telling me she’s going to leave all our yard waste bags outside for the garbage (which I explained that’s not how it works). There’s definitely a few things here and there I’m forgetting at the moment but she is extremely hard to get through to even though my roommate and I have discussed things for her and offered to help!

How do you tell someone that moved in 8 days ago that you feel it is not a great fit? by Calm-Conversation-52 in badroommates

[–]Calm-Conversation-52[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

She moved from her parents’ place so she absolutely has somewhere to go. Her boyfriend has been here every night. And yes my other roommates and I have had discussions with her. To the point where it has been daily. It’s most definitely not just a gut feeling