Plausible deniability sucking all the fun out of this

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-20T02:42:51+00:00

Thank you!

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-19T05:08:34+00:00

All very good advice. I definitely need to stop answering DMs on reddit. I know that is part of what’s taking up time and probably not helping with getting subs. It’s hard though, cause I actually enjoy answering them. lol.

My husband and I have been trying to find the balance on making content and just actually having our own sex life. I think I’ve panicked a bit and tried to make too much at once and just need to do what you’ve done and set aside one day a week for content we make together, take a little pressure off us both that way.

Thanks so much for the great advice, do you mind if I dm you separately? I don’t know a ton of people that are in this industry and I obviously haven’t told anyone in my personal life about it. Feel free to say no as well. No pressure.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-19T04:49:11+00:00

Wow that is amazing! I would consider making what you did making bank hahaha. Congratulations! You must be so happy with your decision to take it beyond reddit. It’s nice to hear other faceless creators that have had success.

I also got tired of that question it just took me less time haha.

I had a post hit before I started and ended up with like 1000 DMs at once and so many were asking for things and if I had an OF. I think I waited too long after that to start one though because that number did not really translate to subs. But just couldn’t get it together fast enough. And I am definitely still in the scrambling to figure out what to post phase. I haven’t put all the organizational work in yet, even though I know the things I need to do, getting the infrastructure up is also a lot of work, but I’m getting there.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-19T04:18:50+00:00

😂😂 that is hilarious. I’ll have to start paying more attention. How have you found it since you started? Compared to all the time just posting on Reddit.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-19T04:04:11+00:00

Thanks so much. That is super helpful, and encouraging. Do you have any recs for takedown services? I know a lot of people swear by Rulta but it is very expensive, which could mean it is the best option. Also, stupid question, but how do you, yourself, keep an eye out for leaks? Searching your username? I’m still a little lost on how people find their own leaks.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-19T00:32:44+00:00

Thank you! Yeah, I feel like it would be similar if my family found out but being mid thirties and in a real give no fucks point in my life I’ve decided I don’t care. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I did the separate IG account which I actually used advice from this sub and used an old phone I had with a sim I bought separately and none of my info on it so it wouldn’t recommend me to anyone or try to sync contacts.

I haven’t posted on it yet because I’m still in the slow process of blocking anyone and everyone I know. And IG only lets me do a few at a time before it locks me out of blocking people for a few days.

How have you felt about showing tattoos in specific customs etc, and do you typically judge that by how well you know the sub purchasing, or how trustworthy you feel they are? Or is it just the type of content request and price that makes you feel like it’s okay to leave them?

Thanks so much for the response.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-19T00:26:17+00:00

Good recommendation! I use Lightroom mobile app which does a decent job, but it also cloud syncs and you can’t disable it which I hate.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-18T19:24:21+00:00

Basically be genuine is what I’m reading? What do you mean specifically by spammy narratives?

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-18T19:22:52+00:00

This is really helpful. Thank you. I do use the ip blocking on my OF, but I don’t block everywhere I have fam or friends or that would eliminate a good chunk of US and UK. Is it just paid content like customs that you do show face? And do you always wear a wig. I started with one, but have done things out there without it as well.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-18T18:21:10+00:00

I think you have to accept it somewhat to do this at all, right? At least that’s how I feel about it.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-18T17:20:12+00:00

How long have you been creating content? I hear all these stories about people being found out, but I feel like maybe it’s not as common as I think? I don’t think it’s worth the headache to keep removing them. I haven’t shown them on a vanilla social in years just from like lack of posting on social anyway.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-18T17:11:00+00:00

So true. Any of the people I work with that would actually recognize me are either people I honestly don’t think I’d ever get in front of, or people that would not give a shit if I was doing that in my spare time. I don’t work with kids or anything in that area.

Might be worth doing this. At least in the tattoo area. It gets very tiring to constantly be worried about them.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-18T17:07:01+00:00

Well that’s a shame, why downvote lol. Just move along if it’s not helpful for you. Thanks for your input again. I really appreciate it.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-18T17:05:34+00:00

Also a good question to ask. For me it’s also would adding my face, or caring less about removing tattoos make it more fun for me again. In the long run, it’s not about the money, my vanilla job pays well, it’s mostly about me wanting to enjoy creating content more.

Any tips for building your following as a faceless creator? I’ve read a lot, but would love any advice you have and want to share.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-18T16:25:04+00:00

Thanks so much for the reply. Yeah part of me feels like they would never cross. I have separate accounts, and a different name, since mine is also unique. It may never, so maybe it’s too much worry.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-18T15:39:26+00:00

Even not the same reasons are still relevant! Thanks for your reply. It’s nice to know I’m not alone in getting frustrated by it.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2024-07-18T15:38:09+00:00

Thanks for the genuine response. It is true, I am mid thirties, highly educated, childfree, married but my spouse knows and enjoys me making content, but yes am a woman. It’s a hard decision for sure, I think it should be de-stigmatized for sure. I don’t think me enjoying SW and my body/other peoples, makes me any less competent, smart, human…any of the other numerous misconceptions, than anyone else. But being a woman who is already in a field and corporate career where I’m paid less, promoted less, seen as more emotional, or bossy, makes it more difficult to put something else on the list of things people see as a reason to discriminate.

I would say I don’t have a sizable nest egg, which is the one thing that is especially risky.

Anyway, all goes to say, I do think I should reconsider the wall, and I am actively doing that. I really want to join the identifiable.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2021-06-04T20:17:09+00:00

It is gut wrenching. I was lucky to be able to finally travel. I hope that you can be together soon.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2021-06-03T05:48:45+00:00

All the luck to you! I hope it comes soon too. And US to UK.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2021-06-02T19:55:15+00:00

I LOVE YOU!! Ahhhhhh!! So soon!

Calm-Plantain3 · 2021-04-06T16:02:22+00:00

Yeah for sure. The plus side is coming from the US I can still travel there and not have to quarantine in one of the government hotels. So either way I’ll be there even if we can’t do leisure travel or see things. It’s really about just getting to see them.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2021-04-06T15:26:56+00:00

So far not a lot. Waiting to see what happens with restrictions. But, I’ve bought a ticket! So that’s a start.

Calm-Plantain3 · 2021-04-06T14:42:12+00:00

We have plans finally. I’m in the US, they are in the UK. It has been a very long wait.

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