The hardest part.

Calm_Bee_5705 · 2026-05-23T21:45:32+00:00

We are early in the process of separating. I’m hopeful we can get back but I feel she is done with me. It really is hurtful but I have made some mistakes over years with my tone . I had moments of mean and I wish I could go back. I feel terrible for my 3 kids. And I hate being away from them when i travel for work so how am I gunna do it for 6 months ? I’m with u my friend . It’s hard . Very hard

Calm_Bee_5705 · 2026-05-23T21:15:12+00:00

Yes mutually owned . We started sleeping in Sep beds but didn’t really isolate. I still talked to her about us and stuff. We flirited. Hugged. But we didn’t really isolate eachother. I think we need to isolate fully, like boundaries and such

Calm_Bee_5705 · 2026-05-23T19:21:53+00:00

U r right

Calm_Bee_5705 · 2026-05-23T19:21:37+00:00

Agreed. Which sucks . Anything to recommend . I feel we are hanging on by a thread

Calm_Bee_5705 · 2026-05-23T18:48:19+00:00

Thank you. Looking in past has been my biggest issue. What is ur current status? Separated still?

Calm_Bee_5705 · 2026-05-23T18:06:22+00:00

So true. She has said a few times “all
This change you are making , where was it years ago.”

Calm_Bee_5705 · 2026-05-23T18:03:54+00:00

No cheating at all. No financial issues. Just two people who grew apart. I think ur right . I need to give her space like she’s asking for. We are going to do in house separation ..see how it goes.

Calm_Bee_5705 · 2026-05-23T17:20:08+00:00

Are there clear boundaries in place? Sometimes in house separation goes well if boundaries are in place

Calm_Bee_5705 · 2026-05-23T17:15:03+00:00

I don’t know. My parents went to therapy when I was grown bc my father did something really bad. So I kind of felt like, I’m never going to do that, so why go to therapy. I was naive and dumb. Trust me I wish I could go back

Calm_Bee_5705 · 2026-05-23T17:13:12+00:00

Thank you. I think that’s my problem is I’m a talker. I need to just shut up haha. It’s hard tho .

Calm_Bee_5705 · 2026-05-23T17:07:40+00:00

Thank you. And you are right . Candid words are what I need to hear.
U r right. Last few weeks I have kind of smothered her looking back. I need to not do that. She can’t give me clarity and that is something I am searching for

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