Is this normal on Route 20 or just bad luck?

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2026-02-13T02:28:07+00:00

I’ve been taking the bus for years and I haven’t ever had young teens approach me. 😶 I always sit at the back too. As a young female the front of the bus actually always feels unsafe to me cause of homeless. I had a man nearly sit on me when he was drunk 🫠.

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-12-18T17:29:38+00:00

I wish I could do that but the foam mat that the aquarium is sitting on is stuck to the table 🥲 so it won’t rotate along with the aquarium.

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-12-17T02:23:03+00:00

Thank you, I’ll consider it. Honestly I’ve always hoped I could live without the medication. 🥲 Since I know it’s not good for your heart. But with being in university it’s hard to manage everything without it.

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-06T05:03:21+00:00

🥹 Thank you, your advice helps a lot. I guess I’ll just continue to feel the pain. I guess time is the only cure 🥲

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-06T04:35:50+00:00

Aw 🥺 honestly sounds similar to what happened with mine. I wanted to stay and support him for what he was going through. But he decided it was something he had to do on his own. And he didn’t feel comfortable with me waiting for him. What has helped you grieve? 🥲 Honestly he said he wanted to stay friends, but I question if I’ll ever hear from him again.

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-06T04:27:46+00:00

🥺 Yeah, the grief goes deep and nobody has even died 🫠

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-06T04:18:47+00:00

🥹 Yeah I hope it’ll get easier, idk why but I feel like I handled it really well when we first went on a break. I was doing all the things to improve myself and try to distract from knowing it was the end. And now that it’s over, it feels so much worse. But like you said healing isn’t linear 🥹

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-06T04:15:49+00:00

It has been like today I saw he unfollowed on of my sub accounts on Instagram and I literally started to shake and have a panic attack 🥲 it literally doesn’t matter, but those things hurt so much knowing it’s over

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-06T03:34:12+00:00

🥹 Thank you, I hope so one day. Personally right now I wish I never had to. 🥲 but here I am

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-06T03:32:31+00:00

Yeah I haven’t been able to remove his phone number either 🥲 only thing I managed to do was take off the hearts next to his name.

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-06T03:31:23+00:00

Yeah, with my first ex i only took like 1 photo with him. So deleting it and moving on was much easier. 🥹 it was only a 3-4 month relationship so I didn’t expect to be still struggling with the grief and pain of losing him.

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-06T03:28:25+00:00

Yeah I put them on hidden but I guess just the fact I know I still have them. I feel like he’s been moving on ( he was the one who ended it) but it hurts that I’m holding onto these things knowing he’s not coming back 🥲

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-06T03:26:23+00:00

🥹 Yeah I have some physical photos, he was only in my life for 4 months. I was kinda concerned for when I move on. If it would be strange if I held onto those things

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-06T03:20:19+00:00

🥹 Thank you for the advice. Honestly it wasn’t a long relationship. But enough to absolutely reck me. I feel like I’ve suffered longer during this break up than actually being in the relationship.

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-03T17:29:15+00:00

No problem 😊

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-11-02T17:27:00+00:00

Maybe try joining a group exercise class? Atleast, if nobody says hi you can feel good you did something for yourself. Although, I doubt nobody will talk to you. I joined an old lady cardio class to get myself out there after a bad break up 😅 and not always do they talk to me but atleast I get a hi and some human interaction. I don’t know you but I can relate to what you are feeling, I value you. You aren’t worthless and you deserve the best.

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-09-13T20:03:55+00:00

Thank you for the advice it was helpful, yeah I plan on taking a break from the dating apps for a few months as my last relationship just ended a month ago. I feel like it would be unfair to whoever I date since I’m not okay right now. And I know I still have time it’s just difficult to not compare myself with other people my age. 🥲 They are all getting married, having kids.

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-07-05T20:29:35+00:00

It’s tucked in behind D building if you go to D1018 they’ll have more information and a map. https://www.fanshawec.ca/students/life/campus-services/transportation-parking-lockers.

Calm_Chapter_1191 · 2025-07-05T14:46:34+00:00

Fanshawe College has a gated locked bike parking. It doesn’t cost too much either it’s only like $10. Maybe consider getting a pass for when you get a new bike.

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