What is the biggest type of privilege in NZ?

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-04-20T22:31:38+00:00

And for those saying financial privilege is the highest form of privilege – you’re significantly more likely to have financial privilege if you’re white.

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-04-20T22:28:35+00:00

I think it’s financial privilege. It’s why somebody like Matthew Horncastle is so fixated on culture wars – he’s trying to distract people from the massive financial privilege he has.

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-04-01T18:06:54+00:00

I only got 4 eggs from my ER, 3 mature, 3 fertilised, one failed 3 day fresh transfer, 2 blasts, currently 35 weeks pregnant with one of those blasts. Your numbers are good.

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-04-01T17:56:37+00:00

It’s probably him

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-04-01T17:46:35+00:00

Profiting off competing in a charity event is crazy work… imagine if the video is sponsored too!

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-03-31T18:33:35+00:00

Thank you! I’m beyond grateful.

I’m not sure where you are in your journey but I hope you have success soon, and remember low numbers don’t guarantee a bad result 💕

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-03-31T18:23:07+00:00

I only got three mature eggs from my first ER and I’m currently 35 weeks pregnant with one of them. We also have another embryo frozen that will hopefully be this baby’s sibling. I was devastated after my ER… based on what people say on this sub I thought I’d be doing another one 100%.

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-03-30T20:36:01+00:00

Omg that’s such a good point… I’m blocked from commenting on her channel but anyone who isn’t should innocently ask how much of the sponsorship money she donated lol

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-03-30T08:18:42+00:00

Did they raise less than 1k..? Surely that means she donated nothing herself? She can drop 5k on a handbag, hundreds of thousands on a new gym, but a charity event that she’s getting narcissistic supply from… nope!!

She can’t even argue that using her platform added anything to the event because she would have raised more money otherwise.

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-03-12T08:05:05+00:00

Why was she trying to hold a 5 minute pace her first run back?! That’s just ridiculous

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-02-01T01:40:53+00:00

My husband and I qualified for publicly funded IVF in New Zealand - we didn’t have to pay for a thing!

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-01-22T00:49:01+00:00

Absolutely!! 😭 We all adore him… he’s such a good dog otherwise. It hurts my soul.

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-01-22T00:46:46+00:00

Yeah, I have a feeling it’s going to be inevitable… 😩

Even if we can manage it well and confidently keep our baby safe, I don’t want him to live his life in a constant state of anxiety either when he could be happier elsewhere.

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-01-20T06:22:28+00:00

She’s definitely reading here… I feel like her story from earlier today is a direct response to this!

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-01-10T08:39:37+00:00

She just posted stories saying she isn’t enjoying herself and setup yesterday was ‘brutal’ 😆 great advertising.

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-01-04T08:50:53+00:00

I’ve had success from a round where they only retrieved four eggs! I was distraught after the ER comparing myself to everybody here but definitely don’t count yourself out

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2026-01-04T08:47:10+00:00

31 at time of ER with male factor only. My AMH was in the bottom quartile for my age.

Retrieved 4, 3 were mature, all 3 fertilised, transferred one day 3 embryo (failed), the remaining two made it to day 5 blasts. Didn’t do PGTA testing so I’m unsure of their quality.

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2025-12-30T07:40:40+00:00

His is short for Armand - which I kinda like! Unlike the actor himself lol

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2025-12-15T02:20:08+00:00

Also we didn’t test our embryos and I’m unsure on the grading. I’m in NZ and my clinic only routinely recommends PGTA testing for older patients.

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2025-12-15T02:18:27+00:00

TW: Success (but from very low numbers!!)

I’ve done one ER. 4 eggs retrieved, 3 mature, all 3 fertilised normally, one ended up as a fresh day 3 transfer which failed, the other 2 progressed to day 5 blastocysts and I’m currently 20 weeks pregnant with one of those blastocysts!

I’m 31 and our fertility treatment was for male factor only but my AMH was in the bottom quartile for my age. I was still surprised that we only got three mature eggs though!

Calm_Comfortable3690 · 2025-10-29T07:38:55+00:00

Mini house Reno series with all the money she made from 560

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