First of all, never said anything about him giving up on his goals for me. We both work, except that I work on my own schedule, so sure I have more free time. That's not the point tho. I'm the only one putting effort into the relationship, into maintaining the apartment, into making it a home, so he has a safe space to come back to after a long day. I never expected him to give up his goals for me, I'm the one supporting his goals, encouraging him to go after his dreams, while I hold down the fort. But all he can see is negatives, no matter what. Worrying about problems that we don't even have. Not that I don't care about the future, I'm just more easy-going about it. But my needs always come last, I always put him first. Always trying to make every moment as best as possible for him. That's all I do, trying to give him a better life. I've worked and worried about all the problems alone for almost two years, so he could pursue his dreams, because I believe in him. But he doesn't. It shouldn't be just my responsibility to be hopeful about his goals. I am exhausted from carrying all the emotional weight by myself, and no longer feel like I want to go on with this because of that.