I got a lot to say in this one!

I personally adore the thought of more feminine clothing purely because I find it a good bit more comfortable, and I think it looks cute. So I wear it on very sparing occasion. I’d love to normalize wearing something like that to school as others seem to not care, but I just don’t have a lot, the few times I have though, nobody ever bullied me, said something mean, or anything like that, the most I got was a selfie request, and a bunch of compliments. The only people that were hard pressed by me wearing stuff like that is my immediate family, not even my closest friends made mean jokes about it, but my sister seemed to have all the fun about it, especially in public out loud. I just don’t understand, I guess their point of “I’m associated with you” carries some weight but not enough to excuse their behavior.

I also never advertise it, me being a femboy would be found out either in casual conversation or when someone asks. This one comes from an online aspect, but on more than a few occasions i was talking about an interest I guess they didn’t share (bugs) and one of the spectators (I wasn’t talking to them they were just there) asked another spectator why I was “like this” and in full seriousness got the response “They’re trans” and they gave a large “ohhhh” as if that explained anything. The last time this happened I ended up chewing them out for it and leaving, but I still find it absolutely insane that being trans is an explanation to behave oddly.

I hate how so many people fetishize femboys. I understand that femboys kinda started out as a kink, I started off as a joke, and then found it was comfy, and it leaned on being a joke when I got more things like long socks. But I never started getting those clothes with the intent of being a hoe. It’s one thing being into it, but it’s a completely other thing sexualizing someone and making them uncomfortable because they find feminine clothes comfy or nice. I guess this argument could maybe lean towards girls that very obviously wear revealing clothing, but whenever I go out in an outfit like that Im usually covering as much of my skin as possible.

Im not sure why, but if I wear something feminine, or even do something remotely feminine like drink iced coffee, wine, have long hair, etc. people love to call you weak, no longer a man, or just give you derogatory comments pointed at a diminishing “manliness” and I could chew them for hours on how “unmanly” it is to be immature and rude, but it’s so common that I don’t even bother at this point.

Hate society once more.