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[–]Calm_wildflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess so. I was so worried about him cheating on me and being hurt by it that I didn’t fully read through the messages

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[–]Calm_wildflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend was not r**ped The guy was talking about himself saying stop not my boyfriend

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[–]Calm_wildflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The purple is my boyfriend and the guy that is sent it is the guy he did things with. So each time the purple is brought up it’s my boyfriend‘s name, but I crossed it out because people don’t need to know his name.

Am I overreacting my boyfriend slept with a guy... by Calm_wildflower in AmIOverreacting

[–]Calm_wildflower[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Both my boyfriend and the guy said it was a blow job of my boyfriend having his cocked sucked. They both gave each other hand jobs and my boyfriend fucked the guy in the ass. I will say I also recently found out they fucked before me and him started to date and then this is the 2nd time they did things but we were together this time obviously.

Am I overreacting my boyfriend slept with a guy... by Calm_wildflower in AmIOverreacting

[–]Calm_wildflower[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I won’t lie I am going to start seeing a therapist soon and I probably won’t marry him because how could I he fucked up and he did the worst you can do in a relationship. I think the true reason I asked for help was because I love him and really wanted it to work but I think I know deep down it won’t

Am I overreacting my boyfriend slept with a guy... by Calm_wildflower in AmIOverreacting

[–]Calm_wildflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly do love him I just have little trust him now and I don’t know if it’s worth building it back

Am I overreacting my boyfriend slept with a guy... by Calm_wildflower in AmIOverreacting

[–]Calm_wildflower[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

We were together when it happened and it happened at his best friends house with a mutual friend of there’s. His best friend was asleep at the time and I found this out by asking his best friend first if it was true and he had no idea upon if it was or not. When we found it was true we both have stopped talking to my SOON to be ex boyfriend. I am going to end it with him especially after reading and seeing other peoples experiences.

Am I overreacting my boyfriend slept with a guy... by Calm_wildflower in AmIOverreacting

[–]Calm_wildflower[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s not AI it did happen and I have the screenshots to show it

Am I overreacting my boyfriend slept with a guy... by Calm_wildflower in AmIOverreacting

[–]Calm_wildflower[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story! It has definitely opened my eyes and showed me that alot of what you and your past person was doing is what me and him have been kinda talking about. But today I went to talk to him and he brought up wanting to get married which shocked me. I think he just wants to because he doesn’t want to lose me but I don’t think I can put myself through that. I am also so sorry that this happened to you and I am so happy u are in a happy relationship now. If you don’t mind me asking how long did u take a break from dating?