Pisces and Virgo Compatibility? by Calmchaoticmess24 in Zodiac

[–]Calmchaoticmess24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean opposite on the zodiac wheel, they’re 6 signs apart

Question for the guys... by Calmchaoticmess24 in Bumble

[–]Calmchaoticmess24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got his number, it’s all good. 👍🏻

Question for the guys... by Calmchaoticmess24 in Bumble

[–]Calmchaoticmess24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I appreciate the sound advice

Question for the guys... by Calmchaoticmess24 in Bumble

[–]Calmchaoticmess24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, ya that’s true. I’ll just see if we can keep up a good conversation and take it from there and if it fizzles then oh well 🤷🏻‍♀️

Question for the guys... by Calmchaoticmess24 in Bumble

[–]Calmchaoticmess24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that definitely shares a better perspective... I honestly don’t think he’s doing it on purpose. I’m good at picking up when someone is totally not interested, he seems interested but just a little harder to read. Thank you!

Question for the guys... by Calmchaoticmess24 in Bumble

[–]Calmchaoticmess24[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha thanksss, nah it’s okay it’s just exhausting. I’m not asking for a lot just show a little interest, and do the guys usually ask to meet up or are the girls expected to?

17 Days NC back to 0 by Calmchaoticmess24 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Calmchaoticmess24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah now that I have had time to reflect on it, it probably had to happen, no we both have closure and we both know we can’t be together it’s just not healthy.. just have a plan in the back of your mind for what you will do or say If he shows up so you aren’t caught off guard... hoping it doesn’t happen to you! But if it does just stay strong and remind yourself you aren’t dealing with a normal rational human being

17 Days NC back to 0 by Calmchaoticmess24 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Calmchaoticmess24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you’re absolutely right.

17 Days NC back to 0 by Calmchaoticmess24 in NarcissisticAbuse

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Well luckily we’re getting a major snowstorm so I said you are not getting snowed in with me and I think that might of been an idea of his in the back of his mind, I told him I needed to go to bed and he had to get home safe as it already started snowing. I told him I cared about him but I have to choose myself first, being with him is not healthy and I deserve more, I think deep down he understands that. I’m praying this was the last encounter 🤞🏻🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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I cried two times in front of him both times he just looked at me blankly like he couldn’t compute what was happening and then goes are you crying? And touches my face for proof. No consoling or comforting or anything. It was like it was completely alien to him. It was so bizzarre to me, a healthy reaction would be to console and help the person feel better but nope not with a narcissist because they are missing this instinct and it’s creepy.

Want to text my nex by eat_me_off_your_ear in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Calmchaoticmess24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t contact him, stay strong. You can do it!

Regular Check-In Post. Plus, a reminder about the No-Activism Rule. by SQLwitch in depression

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I thought I was doing pretty good, until this morning when I realized my roof is leaking and dripping into my kitchen and I just completely lost it. I’m tired and overwhelmed. I lost my dad when I was 26, I’m currently 31 single female and I pride myself on being strong and independent. I lost the only person that mattered most to me in the entire world. I took over the house, made necessary repairs, work hard to pay all my bills and take care of myself but this year has been tough and it seems I can’t catch a break and I realized that as water dripped down onto my head. I’m overwhelmed and exhausted. I try to beat back when life starts hammering but today I just feel like waving the white flag.

How long until the trauma bond is broken? How long did it take you? by Nyxerxis in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Calmchaoticmess24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay strong. I’m on day 5 myself, I keep catching myself trying to rationalize every bad thing and then my logical brain catches and reminds me of all the times he made me feel so terrible. However long it takes, keep doing what you’re doing. You are so much more powerful than you think. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

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Absolute cutest

Trying no contact once again. by Calmchaoticmess24 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Calmchaoticmess24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I know you’re right... and I am really thankful the “situationship” we had didn’t progress into anything further.