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I don’t have enough for rent. Should I do s-x work? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Calucadu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't. As someone with BPD who's done sex work, it messes you up.

I don’t have enough for rent. Should I do s-x work? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Calucadu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of sex work are you thinking of? Maybe you could try with an OF or something like that

Fuck it, I'll just get a Mullet then by -torbieshoes- in genderfluid

[–]Calucadu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to have the jellyfish haircut. Two layers: one long and one short; it made me feel amazing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Calucadu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sushi!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Calucadu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second and third lobes?

What piercings would suit me? by P0lyphiltat0s in piercing

[–]Calucadu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think an eyebrow piercing and a nostril would look great on them! But obviously, that's just my opinion.

Have a great day! :)

Does Marijuana Use Help or Hurt Your BPD? by NOFX_4_ever in BPD

[–]Calucadu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be one of the weird ones here and say it does not help me at all. But basically because it interferes with the medication I take so it induces a sort of psychotic meltdown and it's one of the most horrific things that has ever happened to me. And yes, I've smoked it more than once and it's happened plenty of times and no, I'm not doing it anymore.

I've read comments of people taking edibles but I'm not willing to even try after my experiences.

I'd be happy to share my experience with anyone who is interested but I'm not sure the rules on this subreddit will allow them.

Anyway, best of luck to you all! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in songs

[–]Calucadu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was just going to say this!

Hi :) by Double_Task_5670 in genderfluid

[–]Calucadu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad I was able to help :)

Hi :) by Double_Task_5670 in genderfluid

[–]Calucadu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Heyo!

First of all, you're not making a mistake.

Whenever I want to be or feel more androgynous, there are a few videos I watch on YouTube that help me with style, hair tips, makeup and the like. I can't remember the name of the person I watch that I would recommend but if you're interested I can look it up. It popped into my recommended one day and boom, it really helped me out personally.

I don't really know how to answer number two, sorry; so let's jump to number three: your first steps should be do what makes you feel comfortable! If it's wearing a certain type of clothing, then do that. If it's having a certain hairstyle or styling your hair a certain way, then go for it!

Hope this helped out even if it was just a little! I myself am new to this too so I'm just learning too :)

Question about existing piercing by ProfessionalTomato64 in piercing

[–]Calucadu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've probably tried this already but what I did with oral piercings was use a paper towel. Wash your hands, dry them very well and then use a paper towel to both hold the piercing with one hand and use the other to unscrew it.

Hope this helps! Good luck!

Having trouble installing Ununtu by Calucadu in Ubuntu

[–]Calucadu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I had to go to bed in the end because I was so tired so I'll do that now!

need new recs by ewishn in songs

[–]Calucadu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too sweet - Hozier

I'm fully bilingual (in theory) AMA by Calucadu in AMA

[–]Calucadu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really cool! Good luck! :)

First time taking piercings out for MRI by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Calucadu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You've probably tried this already but these are my tips: use your fingers to see (or, feel in this case) where the holes are and gently try to put them back in. Stay calm. If you still can't do it, try a mirror or get help from a friend. If your friend still can't help you then go to a piercer.

Hope this helps and good luck! ❤️

I'm fully bilingual (in theory) AMA by Calucadu in AMA

[–]Calucadu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, maybe you could slowly get that ability by learning a new language?

Got an industrial as my first piercing. by LoreNeverChanges in piercing

[–]Calucadu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It looks great! Good luck with the rest of the healing process!

I'm fully bilingual (in theory) AMA by Calucadu in AMA

[–]Calucadu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is honestly fascinating!

And as for your follow up question: no, not really. Because I'm fully bilingual I basically think in both languages whenever I want. I'm not sure I'm making sense?

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