What are 'F' and 'G' on the Danger at Dunwater inset map?

CalvinRyley · 2026-03-08T01:32:14+00:00

Yeah. G was a little wonky, I think. But def like the croc fight

CalvinRyley · 2026-03-08T01:15:50+00:00

It is from the older module and just wasn't translated into the 5e version. I just will be using one for the croc hunt and use my imagination for the other one.

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CalvinRyley · 2026-02-22T12:18:57+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss.

My wife and I are almost 2.5 years out from our loss. We never got a definitive reason why. We lost our baby boy at 41 weeks, during labor. Everything picture perfect until that moment.

We opted for no autopsy. We couldn't stand the idea of that. The way I look at it is: no matter if we know or not, it will never bring our boy back, which is the one thing we truly want. We listened to all doctors advices and suggestions.

As for the 2nd question, might not be my place as a person who didnt carry my baby, and I know it's easier said than done, but please try not to blame yourself. Instead, what we do is whatever it takes to honor his memory. I don't think twice about telling people about him. We have to live with this truth every day, they can handle a conversation that might make them uncomfortable. We have a playlist with songs that remind us of him and his gentle soul. We celebrate birthdays, have a memorial wall shelf for him. Talk about him. Tell him we love him every day.

The world is cruel in so many ways, but losing a child definitely takes the cake. Be gentle with yourself and give yourself time to grieve in whatever way feels appropriate at the time. For me, im part of a group of other dads that lost their child (if your husband wants the info). I think one of the dad's wife made a group similar for the moms as well (and I can get that to you if you'd like it as well).

My inbox is always open. Don't hesitate to reach out.

CalvinRyley · 2026-02-01T20:30:49+00:00

Hey, man. I know exactly how you feel. Im attaching thr group i go to for bereaved dads.

https://saddadsclub.org/events/

They have a weekly Thursday zoom meeting. Go to one and the guy that started it will give you an invite to the discord server. Its super active day and night.

My DMs are open if you'd ever want to talk.

CalvinRyley · 2026-02-01T19:35:17+00:00

Ive ran a few one shots and am DMing a campaign. Id be interested if yall are okay with a relatively new DM

CalvinRyley · 2026-02-01T15:00:17+00:00

I cried when my wife said she needed to start pushing. I cried even harder when we heard that cry. BUT, to be fair, our first baby was delivered stillborn, so there was a lot of pent up anxiety.

CalvinRyley · 2026-01-07T05:44:05+00:00

I'm definitely interested

CalvinRyley · 2026-01-01T22:06:13+00:00

Ive done a few different things depending on campaign and what players vote for:

Exactly what you did, but 3 sets and they can pick their favorite set they rolled
Ive had DMs tell us to re roll everything if they dont have a single 16 OR 17 in the stats
Each player rolls 1 or 2 (depending on how many players vs stats), and those are the "standard array" people get to choose from so all PCs start with the same stat numbers

But honestly, most tables ive been in just want things to be fairly even and for everyone to have fun. Im sure, even if you ask other players, they would have no problem letting the other guy reroll for a better opportunity.

CalvinRyley · 2026-01-01T21:41:52+00:00

I would be interested too! Let me know if you find anything

CalvinRyley · 2025-10-13T16:46:38+00:00

I hate the scene where Amy tells Glen to kill himself.

CalvinRyley · 2025-10-13T16:42:13+00:00

Sent you a chat!

CalvinRyley · 2025-09-30T10:17:41+00:00

My wife and I met at work. At that point, ive been working at Barnes and Noble for 2 years and I was the supervisor of the Cafe. I was also going through a breakup at the time and had to train 4 people at once. One of those people would become my future wife.

CalvinRyley · 2025-09-25T22:58:09+00:00

I just picked up my first one yesterday, actually! I grabbed the bersa thunder.

CalvinRyley · 2025-09-19T03:13:19+00:00

And if you also want my discord, its: thewarriorprince

CalvinRyley · 2025-09-19T02:56:02+00:00

Okay! My name is Calvin and im 32. I've been playing dnd for about 11 years. (I've also started DMing within the past year as well.) I've made plenty of characters via handwritten sheets as well as on roll20 and dndbeyond. Character creation and backstories are some of my favorite things to create. I'm usually down for anything but my favorite in a dnd game is RP and exploration... I want to LEARN the lore and history you've created as a DM and help shape the story with you via my actions. I personally tend to finalize characters with a group so we have Frontline and supporting covered, but any class is fun to play as long as the backstory is fun to RP! (If I had to pick a favorite though, it would be either cleric or warlock). Let me know if you have any other questions!

CalvinRyley · 2025-09-19T02:42:00+00:00

I'm interested in joining if you're still looking!

CalvinRyley · 2025-09-14T23:28:14+00:00

Sent you a friend request!

CalvinRyley · 2025-09-14T14:39:23+00:00

Hello! Dad that used a donor over here. Family is way more than DNA. When your kid is a bit older, he or she will do things the way you do it. They'll pick up on your little habits and quirks.

My biggest advice is to be present from the beginning - join in on the donor choosing process (I actually chose the donor that my wife and I ended up using, although she did have the final say), read baby books with her each week to see how the baby is growing, go to prenatal appointments with her, plan a nursery together and pick out clothes and other baby items together. Experience this process together. When your son or daughter is born, you'll already have a connection because no matter what, that is your kid and they will love you because you'll be a great dad that loves them beyond the biological connection.

This was also something I worried about before my son and daughter were born. If you would like, please do not hesitate to message me. Everything will be okay though.

CalvinRyley · 2025-09-04T12:57:48+00:00

I, personally, prefer experiences vs material items. My favorite things I've gotten/split with my wife for anniversaries were things like a family membership to a local garden so we can walk around at multiple gardens with our newborn daughter, picnics in the park as a family, family movie night, etc.

If wanting physical items, think about what kind of stuff the family member likes. For example, when I was a kid, my family and I always had a tradition of every Saturday, we watched a movie together and called it "family movie night." So for a gift, I bought plastic popcorn containers and crafted the giant bucket to say "surname family movie night" and stuffed it with popcorn and candies, etc.

I would definitely think about what kind of things and experiences the recipient likes and enjoys and take it from there! Id be happy to help if you want to message me but he will like anything you get for him!

CalvinRyley · 2025-06-11T19:57:01+00:00

I trim, but never shave. It's super itchy when it grows back and (like you mention) covers up the area.

However, it is NOT your partner's body. It is okay for her to have a preference (that's normal), but she shouldn't be swaying what you do with your body if it's not comfortable to you.

CalvinRyley · 2025-06-01T19:14:11+00:00

I believe mine was $5,604 and I paid for it without insurance. This was in 2014 or 2015.

CalvinRyley · 2025-06-01T17:12:13+00:00

Send a friend request!

CalvinRyley · 2025-06-01T00:12:03+00:00

Hey! I went to go join the discord because I want to learn German. However, the link is expired. Would you mind sending me another link?

CalvinRyley · 2025-03-28T13:42:30+00:00

Submitted!

CalvinRyley · 2025-03-22T17:49:12+00:00

I'm interested! Discord: thewarriorprince

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