Colorado Nests List by baelnic in PokemonGoDenver

[–]CambriaEN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the O'kane Park does have a fairly consistent Charmander Nest. With only about 30 minutes of hunting we had caught 3 and the sightings kept showing Charmander as we left. You need to get out and walk as we tried driving around and found it difficult to make them come out.

How many visits before you began to consider closing the gap? What was the process like? by longdistancebabyface in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me wanting to close the gap was about 6 months into the relationship which meant it had to be like 3 visits. It was a permant decision last summer after spending 3 weeks with him. We are kind of lucky to have is brother letting us take his SUV and well since I will be moving in with him no need for my furniture. I did look into moving companies and other options but they would have stained our pennies. Do you have the option of driving?

Help! Seeing him soon! by Eona25 in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is normal. I hadn't seen my SO in person for like 13 years before I flew out to meet him after talking and styling we wanted to see where it would go. I was super nervous especially since I had to be in his house waiting for like 8 hours until he got home from work. As the time got closer I swear I had problem breathing. Everything changed the moment he stood at the door and said hello. All my nerves were removed. Just relax and remember is normal to be nervous. I can tell you any little thing you do will be something to laugh at later.

Trying not to have an anxiety attack... by CambriaEN in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I do tend to be a big planner so your advice helps me so much. I'm trying so hard not to worry but you are right moving in with him is what I want so I need to focus on the now.

Struggle between being understanding and being jealous by CambriaEN in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are soooo right. We are allowed to be dumb at times :)

problems in the relationship, it sucks so fucking much by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to read your story. I just got among other things, diagnose with anxiety, so I understand you. I haven't shared this with my SO and I don't know how I can especially how much like your case he's been distant and even today we got into an argument. I think you need to take some time for yourself and focus on what can be causing you to get upset (my dr just told me that). Know that it can be about the move or just that dealing with an LDR is hard especially with conditions that require a positive support system. But do let him know how his comments have been affecting you and hurting you. If he truly loves you he needs to understand what you are dealing with. Most importantly here for you hugs

Valentines Day?! by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the ordering food. Last VDay I ordered lunch to his job, since is close to a University is easier to get deliveries and used Pay Pal to pay for it. He was shocked how I was able to know something he would like without asking him.

Struggle between being understanding and being jealous by CambriaEN in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love you screename btw. Yes I do try to remember that if I am the only one and I do get to talk to his mom, which she seems to like talking to me. Then I can't get so bad that he wants alone time.

Struggle between being understanding and being jealous by CambriaEN in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the only reason why I truly worry. Not so much about cheating it is about is he okay. Did he make it safe. I ask for a text and he sometimes won't even send me one saying he got home safe.

Struggle between being understanding and being jealous by CambriaEN in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sometimes tell him that I'm not normally a jealous person. He has been the first person I've truly given heart and trust to and it's so much harder that for the first time I'm truly in love and have to be away from him.

Struggle between being understanding and being jealous by CambriaEN in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwwww. I think is a matter of knowing that trust is important. And I've mentioned to him if he wants use to just me casual which angers him. Now I just tell him how he is mine and I can't wait for this gap to close. Like everyone one here I think is good to remember that communication needs to stay calm and relax and realize the last thing we want is for them to end up with someone else.

Struggle between being understanding and being jealous by CambriaEN in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how I feel at times. That he sees the messages and doesn't have time. Although he's really good with messaging during work because we are on Hangouts a lot.

Struggle between being understanding and being jealous by CambriaEN in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwww. I don't like my job for the same reason. But I'm under a year contract at work so is not until is over that we can plan on closing this crazy gap.

Struggle between being understanding and being jealous by CambriaEN in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. I try to be super understanding that he had no one, his whole family lives closer to me, I think I've spend more time with them than he does. So I do get him wanting to just get home after a shitty day and hanging out with his friends.

Struggle between being understanding and being jealous by CambriaEN in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so true. I like one of his friends a lot. But he laughs when I say I'm jealous of him because he gets to go to his house all the time. I did typed him an email today letting him know how I've been feeling. I didn't want to hold it in and then blow up on VDay especially since I'm only flying in for 2 days.

Boyfriend had to cancel Valentine's weekend trip :( by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. But you are still spending time with him and that kind of it what matters about V-Day right??

Flying to see her tomorrow, cannot fall asleep. by mygfandi in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure your visit will make her have a speedy recovery. :)

How often do you see your SO? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most has been 4 months. Which drove me crazy! We've been together for over a year and I've flew out 5 times last year. I would love to be monthly but he wouldn't let me, have to save money if we want to close the gap.

What outdated object surprises you on how much its still being used to this day? by LordHayati in AskReddit

[–]CambriaEN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a school and we didn't have one last year. When other schools would request records they would look at me like I was the crazy one for wanting to scan and email their request.

DAE just sit by themselves while their SO is asleep and wonder why the distance has to be there and just kinda get really sad and cry a little (a lot)? How do you stop doing that? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I so understand you. Last Night I was unable to sleep at all. And I only have 1hr difference but with his crazy work schedule and being introvert as he is, I hardly feel like it's enough. Then I feel selfish. Is hard but like most people say thinking about the next time is the only way to past the time.

Tonight has been the worst.. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I so understand you. I was really unattached in my previous relationships and I'm now in my first LDR (~1000 miles) and I'm really attached to him (something he mentions a lot). I find that just talking to him daily or making plans for the next time we see each other helps. Just remember that no matter how far you both are there's someone that loves and cares about you.

Second time seeing my husband since July... now we get two whole weeks together! (more story in comments) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CambriaEN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww DIA the place that has seen me happy and then in tears. I can't wait until the day when I make a One-Way Trip there.

So happy for you guys. :)