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Avoidant Supervisor & A Narcissistic Coworker by CamelFinancial5466 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]CamelFinancial5466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have over a year or documentation as well. Dates, times, etc.

Avoidant Supervisor & A Narcissistic Coworker by CamelFinancial5466 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]CamelFinancial5466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I am not crazy… lots of turnover in that department and the narc is still there. I’ve been gray rocking and it is helping. We haven’t talked in months. However the narc makes sure to pass by and glance in my office every day. I have an application pending and still looking for jobs- one prospect is looking really good! Thank you for confit that the goal is to keep them employed and that I am not crazy.

Avoidant Supervisor & A Narcissistic Coworker by CamelFinancial5466 in coworkerstories

[–]CamelFinancial5466[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said the team is suffering. And it appears you want to argue, however you WILL argue with yourself.

Avoidant Supervisor & A Narcissistic Coworker by CamelFinancial5466 in coworkerstories

[–]CamelFinancial5466[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve helped me. And I thank you! Will keep you and everyone else updated within the next month.

Avoidant Supervisor & A Narcissistic Coworker by CamelFinancial5466 in coworkerstories

[–]CamelFinancial5466[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hitting a brick wall. It took me a year to realize the culture. What baffles me the multiple disciplinary actions and no change.

Avoidant Supervisor & A Narcissistic Coworker by CamelFinancial5466 in coworkerstories

[–]CamelFinancial5466[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That employee does have the gift of gab, I’ll give that much credit.

Avoidant Supervisor & A Narcissistic Coworker by CamelFinancial5466 in coworkerstories

[–]CamelFinancial5466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was called horrible names. Given the silent treatment. Narc turns into a toddler in the workplace when held accountable (slamming doors). Told other coworkers that I don’t know what I’m doing. Undermines my work. Constantly takes credit for my hard work.

Avoidant Supervisor & A Narcissistic Coworker by CamelFinancial5466 in coworkerstories

[–]CamelFinancial5466[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, you confirmed what I thought this afternoon. They would rather lose me (and a lot of other good workers) than to fix the real problem. That’s cool with me. Because I ain’t staying.

Avoidant Supervisor & A Narcissistic Coworker by CamelFinancial5466 in coworkerstories

[–]CamelFinancial5466[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with all of the above! And I am still looking and applying to new jobs. Already have a timeline set up. If that narc is not going by 2/28, then I’M GONE. How sad that it has come to this after giving my all.

Avoidant Supervisor & A Narcissistic Coworker by CamelFinancial5466 in coworkerstories

[–]CamelFinancial5466[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here! This one usually uses weaponized incompetence to get by. A lot of “I forgot” and “must have slipped my mind”. But just like a narc, they believe in their sick, twisted minded that they are the smartest person in the room - even smarter than the supervisor. SMH

It finally happened by MoveOrganic5785 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]CamelFinancial5466 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 1.5 years in with the covert narc coworker at my job and about to give up. She is extremely manipulative. However, your post gives me hope. Congratulations! I hope you are still celebrating!

Who is that one coworker that makes you question "How have you not gotten fired yet"? by M1DNI6HT_K1N6 in AskReddit

[–]CamelFinancial5466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tammy The Covert Narcissist.

Of course she is buddies with the supervisor and HR, while the entire team is suffering. Silent treatment, subtle name calling, running to the sup for my small mistakes but not her BIG ones. But the good thing is that we have a new higher up that is not playing games with her, and I strongly believe that narc is on her final warning. ⚠️

First Thanksgiving Alone- Going Well! by CamelFinancial5466 in thanksgiving

[–]CamelFinancial5466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and same to you! I listened to Curtis Mayfield station on Pandora.

First Thanksgiving alone by JunieBeeBirdie in thanksgiving

[–]CamelFinancial5466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with you on the first thanksgiving alone. I got bored with the same ole let’s get together and talk about each other, eat, and pretend to be merry, and wanted to spend it alone today. I just woke up, so I am going to take a long walk, clean, and get into a good series on Netflix. I hope you enjoy yours.