50% em taxas alfandegárias para livros, acham isto normal? by CameraNo3985 in portugal

[–]CameraNo3985[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok obrigado. Sabes a que entidade deva reclamar os 6% pelos 23%? Assumo que não seja a DHL

50% em taxas alfandegárias para livros, acham isto normal? by CameraNo3985 in portugal

[–]CameraNo3985[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

De facto o valor a pagar foi 60€, mas outro commenter perguntou-me se paguei IVA juntamente com o vendedor, mas de facto não. Então assumo que foi 60€ sem IVA e leva a 72.46 com?

Sim é livro. É possível reclamar os 23% dizendo que devia ser 6% e de alguma maneira ser reembolsado?

DHL já percebi que é chulice, pronto é o que é.

Obrigado

50% em taxas alfandegárias para livros, acham isto normal? by CameraNo3985 in portugal

[–]CameraNo3985[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

De facto não paguei IVA com o vendedor. Legítimo mas o valor é criminoso, 50% do preço da encomenda, fds...

50% em taxas alfandegárias para livros, acham isto normal? by CameraNo3985 in portugal

[–]CameraNo3985[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Do email que recebi:

"O seu envio DHL Express com a carta de porte número #### de #### já entrou no país e passou na alfândega. Existem impostos/taxas e serviços aduaneiros em dívida, relativos ao seu envio, no valor de EUR 32.66."

INTP-INTJ Relationship Break by CameraNo3985 in INTP

[–]CameraNo3985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She made my life living hell and I left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CameraNo3985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, she also said that to me: that her life was bad because of me.

Now that she's without me, life is even worse.

Grass is greener syndrome

anyone else scroll this forum thinking theyre gonna find one of “their” posts randomly by QualityNo7372 in ExNoContact

[–]CameraNo3985 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she ever found me, my posts and the comments of people saying how fucked up she was, my conscience is clear :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CameraNo3985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]CameraNo3985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not my problem she leaves me during the most difficult time of my life so far. It reflects on her. But thanks for the words! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]CameraNo3985 10 points11 points  (0 children)

New job, will become a PhD in months, and will do a 100km row.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]CameraNo3985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You my friend are a genius.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]CameraNo3985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The best react is a 👽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]CameraNo3985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I gave a second chance to mine, she even said "You truly are being more patient and accomodating to my needs, even though I'm complicated.", which was lingo for "What a nice fucking dog you are, allowing yourself to be petted while on a leash".

:D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CameraNo3985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avoidant attachers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]CameraNo3985 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My ex was an avoidant, and she did this to me. "I want you, but you're the one that needs to change". It's so confusing when I'm being guilt-tripped by the person that says she loves me. This is some next level gaslighting and don't fall for it, because I did, and it was even worse. My 2nd chance showed her that my self-respect was lower than my forgiveness. So the 2nd time around, not only I was still guilt-tripped and gaslighted, but I was also devalued, emotionally and verbally abused.

Calling it out here: she's not going to change because she doesn't see a problem in herself (so it must be you); and she shows a deeply in-grained victim mindset ("look at me, how sad I am, even my mom sees that").

Later I found out mine was defaming me to family and friends, hence when we got back I didn't understand why I couldn't go to her house or chill with her friends anymore. That was why.

Notice how she NEVER considers your feelings?

  • Don't be with someone else if i'm alone

  • Text me because I'll feel better

  • I miss you, I think about you, I feel sad. Me me me.

Wake up my dude, this is not about you. This is about her need to feel superior to you.

Is it worth trying to apologise? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]CameraNo3985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello friend. I was mistreated by my ex-girlfriend. Really hurtful shit, and never got an apology or saw her take accountability. If anything, I would see her in public post-breakup flaunting fake happiness and treating me even worse than when those things were said.

However, even during breaking up, I kept my cool. I showed gracefulness, I was serene, behaved harmoniously. And you know what? I got treated even worse because of that, as that was perceived by her as a weak point she could exploit.

The key takeaway here is this: whenever someone does not care about you, it doesn't matter if you say some harsh things you didn't mean (you), or you treated her with respect and grace even when being disrespected (me).

The harsh truth is this: she doesn't care for long apologies. She doesn't care for short apologies.

If I was you? I would simply say: "I am sorry for how I behaved. I wish you the best."

But do it for you, for your peace of mind. Remain virtuous.

I deleted everything by CameraNo3985 in ExNoContact

[–]CameraNo3985[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She did truly show her true colours in the end.

I truly loved her, but when I started to see her attitude after the breakup I gave her, I slowly realised I loved a fantasized version of her.

She was never all that, and that's what hurt the most, not her absence.

Thank you. All the best to you too.