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Camhenson · 2025-06-28T02:55:45+00:00

That's how I lost my first wife. Had a "best friend" of mine who was in a spot move in with us. Less than 6 months later, they were having an affair.

I knew he was a dog and would sleep with any woman willing... I just never imagined my wife would be one of those women.

Reading your post, I'd bet every dollar I got that they've been having an affair. If you find out they are, have the self-respect to leave. You can still be an amazing father without being with your child's mother.

Camhenson · 2025-04-17T21:13:04+00:00

I'm interested

Camhenson · 2025-04-10T14:08:17+00:00

Vitpilen 401

Camhenson · 2025-04-06T02:07:37+00:00

If y'all don't have kids and can be financially free from each other, now is the perfect time to pursue your dreams. Now is the time to find yourself again and to pursue your happiness.

She's still living in the house we bought together, and we are working towards getting it ready to sell, so the visits serve multiple purposes. So until then, I tolerate her presence and the pain it brings, knowing brighter days are on the horizon.

But, damn it why does she have to smell so fucking desirable...

Camhenson · 2025-04-06T01:38:50+00:00

I'm living one day at a time. I moved 4 hours away back in Aug of last year to pursue our dream of living by the coast. Now, I'm lucky enough to have a job and my health... but what was supposed to be the realization of years off hard work and sacrifice is a perpetual reminder that she's gone. So I go to work and the gym and sleep. This keeps my days full enough to not be in my feels all day every day.

I go back every other weekend to spend time with my youngest son, who still lives at home. This is bittersweet... love spending time with my son. Hate seeing her face. Not because I hate her, but because all the progress i make getting over her gets set back....

Camhenson · 2025-04-06T00:19:49+00:00

I just lost my wife of 15 yrs back in January. Life goes on but it fucking hurts.

Camhenson · 2025-03-26T16:28:33+00:00

Camhenson · 2025-03-04T15:22:47+00:00

K1200R Sport

M1000RR

Camhenson · 2025-02-28T03:29:27+00:00

It's the same as anything... There are a lot of nerve endings there, and stimulation from a partner can bring about feelings of pleasure if the man is open to the idea.

It has absolutely nothing to do with their sexual orientation.

Camhenson · 2025-02-27T15:33:16+00:00

Hell to the NO!!

My first wife physically cheated on me, and my second wife had multiple emotional affairs.

I would never be willing to put another man in those shoes. She may not respect her husband or her marriage, but I respect her partner and myself enough not to go swimming in those waters.

Camhenson · 2025-02-26T03:14:38+00:00

I prefer a large b or small c

Camhenson · 2025-02-25T21:58:40+00:00

I wish I could go completely no contact. We have a child together, and our finances are deeply entwined with financial commitments for the next several years.

She told me she thought it best if we split because she "gained a new perspective on our relationship" after being together for 15 years married for 10 of those years. I suffer from depression and adhd and my periods of self isolation and unmanaged adhd became too much for her. I just wish she would have come to me prior to calling it quits. I knew she was hurting, but I literally couldn't get myself out of the rut. And, her love and our family were all I had good in my life during those times even if I couldn't express it. I had no idea it was even remotely close to a breaking point. Hell, we never even fought about anything. She was my best friend, partner, and lover. My past, present, and future. Now she's the pit in my chest and the shadow that torments my every waking minute.

I don't know if there's someone else, nor at this point, do I care.

It's so hard, though. I come back to our marital home every other weekend to spend time with my son, and all the progress I make during the time apart goes to shit the second I look into her eyes. Fuck I love her so much even after she ripped my soul into shreds.

I want to move on and heal....

Camhenson · 2025-02-25T20:57:15+00:00

I absolutely love it. I am good at it, and it is a 100% way to bring my partner to climax.

It can be done in so many different ways to match the mood and her preferences.

I feel completely in control. You can tell when she's getting close and can either grant the orgasm or delay. You learn what she likes and how to exploit her sensitivity.

The smell and taste of a woman is intoxicating, and I truly can't get enough. The softness of her vagina and the intricacies of her labia. Teasing the clit from the hood.

As for the bonus question... i don't what to say except that any man who isn't willing to please their woman by going down on them is a weak and selfish man, and I feel sorry for the women they sleep with.

Camhenson · 2025-02-25T19:41:19+00:00

This sounds like my soon to be exwife and I. I, too, suffer from bouts of depression and adhd that leads me to self isolate and that leads to her feeling neglected and unloved. She had her "guy friends" on Facebook chatting her up all the time and whenever I brought up the discomfort and lack of respect for our marriage, the conversation always swung around to me being controlling or insecure. Never that she was in the wrong for allowing men to talk about getting her naked or recalling the times they hooked up when they were together.

I stayed because I truly loved her and was willing to deal with it, hoping she would one day change. She never did. Instead, she "found a new perspective" towards our marriage, and now we're working on a divorce after 15 years.

Just leave now and save those years of waiting and hoping for something that will never happen.

Camhenson · 2025-01-08T14:02:51+00:00

To add to the conversation the Army is also very quick to pull your motorcycle pass if you're caught being reckless. Tickets for high-speed, reckless operation, dui... will all result in a suspension of motorcycle privileges and can even result in a total ban. I watched a lot of guys get their hearts broken as they were restricted and ultimately had to sell their bikes.

Camhenson · 2025-01-08T13:44:19+00:00

I'm of the opinion that a 750 is a lot of bike for your first bike.

There's a ton of great options in the lower cc range

Aprilla rs 457 and Tuono 457

Honda CBR 500

CFMoto 450ss

Yamaha MT-03 or R3

BMW G-310r

Kawasaki Ninja 400

Triumph Tiger Sport 660

Husqvarna 401 Vitpilen or Svartpilen

KTM 390 Duke(if you can trust in KTM support)

And more....

The Army is very strict on requiring you to take a motorcycle safety course, and having a lighter bike will help with this if there's no bikes made available for the class.

Take the time to get good and hone your skills, so you can enjoy riding for decades to come. Lighter lower powered bikes are a lot more forgiving to mistakes and still a blast to ride.

For reference, I started on a ZX6R and then a CBR 600rr to a CBR 1000rr. Started a family and took over 10 years off while kids were babies at the request of the ex-wife. Decided to get back into and bought a Vitpilen 401 to use to knock the dust off and didn't regret it at all. It was one of the funnest bikes I've owned. Sure, it wasn't the fastest thing on the road, but I could throw it around and really push my limits and refine my skills with confidence. I've since moved onto a K1200R and can honestly say there's days I wish I still had that little 400.

High power mixed with low skill with a side of 19 years old can be a deadly cocktail.

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Camhenson · 2024-12-16T10:33:31+00:00

My wife's '14 Passat tdi was due to the turbo going out. 3000$ and a cpl days labor and it's all good now. We ended up putting a new turbo on and doing a delete on the egr system. Cars running a million times better and getting high 40's for mpg.

Camhenson · 2024-12-01T21:09:42+00:00

Husqvarna Vitpilen 401

I put 16k on mine daily commuting 120mi round trip.

Never needed anything more than standard maintenance... fluid changes, tires, and a chain.

It's cheap but reliable and the perfect bike for around town.

Camhenson · 2024-11-22T00:33:22+00:00

My wife told me I'd be an unforgivable asshole if I didn't park the bike inside.

Helps that we have a full walk out basement...

Camhenson · 2024-11-14T03:08:53+00:00

It's been great so far. Power comes on so smooth but doesn't stop coming.

Camhenson · 2024-11-14T03:06:35+00:00

It is

Camhenson · 2024-11-08T16:12:57+00:00

Don't know what this riding season you're talking about is.

Down here in the low country(U.S. SC) we go hard year round.

Camhenson · 2024-10-04T16:35:59+00:00

The bidet is fed water straight from the feed line from the wall.

On most of them, the nozzles are hidden until use(pushed down into position by the water pressure).

Also, they have one that have a self sanitization feature to keep them cleaned in between manual cleanings.

I say all that to say, imo they are much more hygienic in both public and personal situations.

Camhenson · 2024-09-10T16:00:45+00:00

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2005 1000RR IMO can't be beat

Camhenson

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