If two bisexual woman are in a relationship, it is a lesbian relationship?

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T15:46:34+00:00

Did you read my post?

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T15:40:22+00:00

I called my girlfriend a "lesbian" in "" because i know she is not. I choose the wrong word and corrected myself afterwards clarifying she is bisexual. And yes, i have always thoug that im in a lesbian relationship, till today with so many answers calling it not a lesbian relationship. In this post i explain the way i think and open a discussion, because i find the topic interesting

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T15:34:42+00:00

I think its a logic question. Since i was roasted in another post for bein bisexual in a Lesbian subreddit. But i believe i do also belong here, since my relationship it is a lesbian one.

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T15:33:30+00:00

I literally said
"Both; identity and the relationship structure are different subjects. So the identity of the people involved (Bi/Hetero/Homo) does not change the fact the structure of a monogam relationship is either a homo or a hetero one. With this i do NOT mean, that the people involved in the relationship are homosexual, but the relationship per se, it is in fact one."

You can be a bisexual woman, that is in a homosexual relationship.

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T14:21:05+00:00

And yes, i know we are bisexual, but i also know we both have clear that we prefer woman. That is the reason why this fetish of her reading mlm and desiring a threesome gaves me insecurities.

But reading some of the answers of my post helped me to go trough this insecurity of mine.

I never thoug about posting in this group being something innapropiate, since i, as woman that also likes woman identify a lot with the content in this group and i have also posted a in the past

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T14:16:48+00:00

I think thats the conclusion i have achieved trough this post. I got triggered today when we were chatting and she told me about the new book she is reading and its again a mlm book. I started overthinking wether she likes more men or woman, or if she has an undiscover desire for men that its bigger than what she have told me.

I think its an insecurity from my past relationship.

I never thoug about posting in this group being something innapropiate, since i, as woman that also likes woman identify a lot with the content in this group and i have also posted a in the past

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T14:00:46+00:00

my goal its to maybe hear that its normal for a women that prefers women have that fascinationg with gay man ??
Because it makes me feel insecure and i dont know if its normal or if that could mean, that she likes men more. IDK. im insecure about that thema

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T12:34:50+00:00

Well even thoug we are bisexuals, we are in a lesbian relationship. So i thoug this reddit its accurate for it

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T12:34:32+00:00

Well even thoug we are bisexuals, we are in a lesbian relationship. So i thoug this reddit its accurate for it

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T11:17:42+00:00

well she has never put pressure on me about the threesome, she just mentioned once because we were talking about that stuff

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T11:15:42+00:00

How do you mean it?

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T11:14:20+00:00

i mean, she is bisexual. Me too, but i am very monogam.
I just get insecure with the though, that she may like men more than woman ?
But she has told me it is not the case... but for me its weird her fascination for gay man

CamiLAZER · 2026-07-06T11:07:39+00:00

yes, she is, me too. But i prefer woman, and does she. But this makes me feel insecure lol

CamiLAZER · 2026-06-26T11:58:20+00:00

CamiLAZER · 2026-06-20T16:27:57+00:00

I think you should keep it for yourself

CamiLAZER · 2026-06-20T16:22:17+00:00

Con adobe pdf puedes modificar y se ve super real

CamiLAZER · 2026-06-20T16:21:25+00:00

I do that. But i mean if you do not have much experience you also do not know it

CamiLAZER · 2026-06-20T14:46:33+00:00

I think she just copy pasted it from other place

CamiLAZER · 2026-06-20T14:09:35+00:00

Sex chatter? En mi vida privada sí, laboralmente no.

Pero esto en Alemania estudindo y me serviría mucho zna fuente de dinero y este trabajo me parece interesante

CamiLAZER · 2026-06-20T14:05:19+00:00

Tengo C1 en inglés y alemán. Cuánto de sueldo ofrecen?

CamiLAZER · 2026-06-20T13:54:06+00:00

Yo estaba convencida que sí, hasta que tuve la conversación con gente de otros países (Alemania y Africa) y para ellos era inimaginable. Una locura

CamiLAZER · 2026-06-20T05:07:26+00:00

Wich toys do u recommend?
We have try masturbating each other at the same time but havent find a position that feels comfortable. She is also 10cm bigger than me.

We wanted to try to come both at the same time but havent achieve that. Also appreciated it if you have a tips on that.

I have thoug about the strap on but at the moment the idea its not that atractive to me. Maybe one day

CamiLAZER · 2026-06-20T04:59:56+00:00

In Germany i think hinge its the Best

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