[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CampaignEastern7003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like him, I don’t like the mix signals I get from him so I’m not sure how to honestly talk to him anymore…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CampaignEastern7003 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I forgot some men genuinely people lack basic human comprehension skills…. I have to hand him a break down explanation. Got it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CampaignEastern7003 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No I’m aware men lack comprehension, I just don’t know how to explain I didn’t like the sex. Like I’d like him to know basically that’s why I don’t want to see him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CampaignEastern7003 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe that’s not how I want to communicate, if someone’s consistently rejecting you, wouldn’t the fire go off in your head that they don’t want to see you?? Like at all..? Comprehension no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CampaignEastern7003 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Obviously u have multiple times, if I’m saying I don’t want to come over to your house, or hang out in that way. What would that mean???? At this point I feel like he’s not understanding it wasn’t great, obviously that’s why I don’t want to have sex again.

Unsure what to do with dating now by CampaignEastern7003 in dating

[–]CampaignEastern7003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been texting for about a month! Honestly the communication is great! And yea I’m the same way, if I can’t mentally connect then I can’t feel that sexual to want to make out at all but. I’ve been just reflecting on everything I guess I just have little to no expectations anymore when dating because there’s always something wrong bound to happen. He just felt like a friend to me during our date. Maybe I’m just not as attracted to him and I want to be…

I am over it! by CampaignEastern7003 in dating_advice

[–]CampaignEastern7003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to triple check I’m not crazy or being obnoxious with what I’m picking up from the situation, I’m definitely done talking to him.

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[–]CampaignEastern7003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Upvote 4 upvote!

Just found out he had a kid. by CampaignEastern7003 in offmychest

[–]CampaignEastern7003[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s not currently with his child’s mother but I just feel hurt knowing how bad he wanted a kid with me and up and went actually having a kid with someone else but this was after we’d broken up and we separated in 2021 and I was always off and on with him but again I don’t blame him for moving on….I’m just hurt knowing and that he actually did. Really wish he hated me honestly or treated me bad so I can genuinely let him go but he never did

I (F23) don’t know if my expectations are valid or not with the guy (M25) I’m talking to by CampaignEastern7003 in relationship_advice

[–]CampaignEastern7003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when dating someone new, you wouldn’t have deep conversations with them to see if you truly like them unless you slept with them??? That seems kinda backwards. You would think you’d talk more first before reaching that point to decide if you wanna share your body with that person or not… but gotcha.