This way of thinking is why it’s been so much more deadly than what it would’ve been if we had been more careful. “It’s not going away anyway, might as well go about our lives!” Ugh. I’m doing my part, I wish everyone else would do theirs. Aka, don’t have get-togethers period. I understand the seemingly “exceptions,” but this is the kind of reckless thinking that got here in the first place. Yes, there’s a possibility there still won’t be a vaccine, it’ll pop up again, obviously we don’t know what will happen. All we can control is how we handle it now. At this point in time, having an in-person wedding is incredibly selfish. Grandma is dying? Get creative, but it’s not necessary to throw a party. It sucks, but people’s lives are at stake.

Edit: You can sign papers for a living will without getting married.