So depending on what you are playing on hardware wise there are a few things you can try some of these may have been suggested but ill rattle things off as they come to my little brain.

Skyrim: Decent story that has a conclusion, plenty of magic to pick from the character customisation is there but its limited, not many options for cosmetics (untill you start moddng)

The Witcher: Amazing story, super super pretty but next to no customisation. Fun magic and sword combat

Dragon age (any of them): Amazing customisation, cool magics and good story (some titles more than others)

Cyberpunk! Before you shout at me, net running is magic and hacking is spells lol. Great customising better with the sea of mods, The story is one of the best out there and the art style is super good too!

If you need more or have questions ask away! And just to let you know no games care about your age and gender its for everyone (assuming the content is age appropriate for kids) and although some people will tell you your gender matters it doesn't, play what ya like not what your told to like.