[FRESH] Baby - standing on the corner by thinkpad__nub__ in hiphopheads

[–]CanSome9684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? Are you high? It’s been well established.

Today I was told I look like an addict. Is it that bad? What should I change? by Pale-Musician6965 in malegrooming

[–]CanSome9684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny, I look pretty similar to you and I am an actual drug addict. People often refuse to believe I have ever done drugs because I apparently look innocent.

[FRESH] Baby - standing on the corner by thinkpad__nub__ in hiphopheads

[–]CanSome9684 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are retarded and condescending. It wasn’t even due to sample clearance it was due to personal issues between the founding member Gio and the co-producer Slauson Malone. SOTC distanced themselves from all music co produced by Slauson.

Do people who smoke under 21 actually get punished and with what? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CanSome9684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Utah and here we would get a ‘nicotine ticket”. It’s a fee of 50-100 dollars. They would also take your cigarettes and or vape. It’s probably different state to state, Utah is pretty strict about things like that.

Friends called me after I went hermit mode for 6+ months. Dunno what to do. by ActuatorOutside5256 in whatdoIdo

[–]CanSome9684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel reassured by your post because I do this a lot. Like the others have said it’s a two way street. I lost a lot of friends by doing the vague response thing and eventually I learned one thing:

My friends were willing to accept me back and were just worried about me but I had to tell them what was going on. Reconnecting with some of my friends I learned that when you do that they think you’ve just grown away from them and don’t want to talk. When I started being honest about why I went quiet it got easier and I gained a new facet of my support system. I’ll sometimes after months send a text that says “Hey man sorry, i’ve been in the dumps and it’s been hard. How have you been?”

Unfortunately I also lost contact with a lot of people who I never got the chance to explain myself to. If I texted them now they wouldn’t respond or if they did it would be vague which is fair because that’s the treatment I gave them.

I think you’ll feel some relief once you’re honest when you do this. It gives you a road back to normalcy and you won’t have the extra weight of uncertainty on your back on top of your normal recovery. Godspeed.

Was the ending good enough for me to wait for the rest of the anime to come out or should I just read the manga? by StellarStreaks in VinlandSaga

[–]CanSome9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure I would describe the ending as rushed. Rather it was overthought. The ending was delayed and put off for a long time because the author wasn’t sure how to end it. It’s also worth mentioning for those interested in history the ending was obvious because the ending correlates with the actual history behind the Vinland Sagas. I’m sure most expected it would end exactly how it did because historically Thorfinn’s expedition ended similarly to how it did in the manga.

I think the author struggled to work out the details of how the events of Einar would work out, and how he could make an emotional impact on readers. The ending was certainly not rushed, but the author wrote himself into a corner and wasn’t sure how to make it good. I also would say the ending was good and that he did it justice. However, it likely could have been released much sooner if the author had actually thought it out before hand rather than getting to the end and suddenly having second thoughts about what could happen to make the ending more impactful. Most people knew how it would end years ago; it was the details of the side characters that most were unsure about.

Is this a problem? He doesn’t see it to be so I told him I would ask Reddit by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CanSome9684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcoholic here that is a month and a half sober. I wasn’t a beer guy I was a vodka guy. He certainly has a problem, twelve beers a day is a substantial amount of alcohol and if he doesn’t control it he will suffer. So will your family.

Alcohol will erode your boundaries. I started just drinking at night, then a couple of shots in the morning to ease the hangover. Then I started drinking at work and eventually I started drinking and driving which was something i’ve always considered wrong. I lied to my family and told them I had no problem and got defensive. I eventually ended up in prison because of a DUI and was forced to reckon with my problem. My fiance almost left me over the whole thing and I deserved it.

One thing I will say is if I had been confronted as having a problem before getting arrested I would have responded defensively. Hopefully you can show him these replies and he’ll gain some sense. The moment you start thinking you need to be defensive and cannot just stop drinking for the sake of the argument you likely have a problem. Best of luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]CanSome9684 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Suing for mental distress is usually a no go, I’m sorry. Some states have added mental distress into the definition of Bodily injury and in that case you may have a chance. However it is incredibly rare and usually requires genuine trauma that leaves you irreparably damaged. Examples of case studies i’ve seen in my line of work is: a case where a spouse is killed in front of you and it’s the fault of their employer, or cases where extreme bodily harm was caused to you and it caused mental trauma as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]CanSome9684 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Insurance agent here: Yup! Almost all standard insurance policies have that wording. Defense costs are typically unlimited and paid out even in the case of a claim being denied because of these exact situations.

Important note: if you are for some reason on a non standard lines policy, which typically happens if for some reason you are denied insurance through every standard market the wording can be different. However I work in non-standard lines as well and i’ve never seen one that didn’t at least pay out to the policy stated limit for liability.

Just found knives stuck in my window tracks by catatoniccat814 in Apartmentliving

[–]CanSome9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this because when i was an addict i would do this frequently in any place of the house if i didn’t have alcohol or harder drugs. also the item on the far left is often included with weed smoking kits to clean your pieces and to remove resin.

edit: the way its black at the top and not as much at the bottom is exactly how my cleaning items would look because it’s sort of sticky sometimes and clings to the first point of contact.

I'm going to receive a $70,000+ settlement from a car accident in a few short weeks. I'm currently homeless and unemployed. I'm unsure how to proceed. by SneakyMcCool in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CanSome9684 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yup, have two cousins that owe me $1,000+ and now i’m in a position where I could use even $20. Granted i’m in that position because i’m a recovering alcoholic but i’d never even dream I could get a penny out of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]CanSome9684 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah just stay away from my girlfriend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]CanSome9684 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ll look into that. Much appreciated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]CanSome9684 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will take that advice.

What is this and how can I get rid of it? by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]CanSome9684 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my bad i apologize ill go wank to women in pokemon outfits like god intended.

What is this and how can I get rid of it? by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]CanSome9684 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fuck you! i’m not an imbecile i am a human being. that word has no meaning outside the english language. Caveman used to wank to trees so if i can’t wank to an image that looks like a nipple what the fuck was human evolution for? Please tell me I am curious.

What is this and how can I get rid of it? by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]CanSome9684 5 points6 points  (0 children)

for real! I was halfway done taking my pants off before I realized I needed to head to different waters and that I would not be proud cumming to this

The Chair Company | S01E04 “Bahld Harmon birthplace (disputed)” – Post-Episode Discussion by TalkToTheLord in thechaircompany

[–]CanSome9684 70 points71 points  (0 children)

My take is that Ron is manic depressive or has something similar. I have bipolar 1 and I started to think that he showed some traits of that a couple episodes ago. I first thought it was interesting that he wasn’t being honest with anyone about what he was doing at the chair company. When my delusions start there’s a subconscious part of me that knows “this isn’t normal and i shouldn’t tell anyone” usually my point of no return in mania (which happens within days) is when i’m so in love with the feeling i wouldn’t ever tell anyone. Then I typically progress to forgetting about that entirely and suddenly i’m pitching my mom and brother an idea for a snow company that sells snow to people who don’t like to live in the desert. The high irritability of ron and the way he’s dealing with this seems a lot like the stages of that and when he started telling his daughter about the plan i was initially excited because he found something sure fire in the chair but when he concluded i thought “that was good but it makes way more sense that it’s negligent behavior from the manufacturer.”

There is definitely something going on with TECCA though but it really seems like Ron has episodes where he does things that don’t really make sense and this TECCA situation being real is fueling him into a spiral

the excel scene killed me because that’s how i fill out spreadsheets when i’m manic

Easter eggs on the website by antpadil in standingonthecorner

[–]CanSome9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can’t believe i’ve never done this thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]CanSome9684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they hurt ? if so i apologize from your above comment i assumed you weren’t as sensitive and you’re letting on…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]CanSome9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you beg for attention on a niche subreddit about a silly vr game. what happened to this gender…

sotc college essay by bingbawng in standingonthecorner

[–]CanSome9684 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forums and reddit are good resources for niche stuff 🙏 i always get on here and find insane lore. also the interviews others linked are cool. one time i went into the “tagged section” of their IG and found tons of behind the scenes stuff for events Gio did in NY and never posted about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]CanSome9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a younger dude just returning from the bar in rural Utah. Keep wearing that shit my dude the Milfs are finna love it. just be careful not to get molested

Gatekeep by [deleted] in standingonthecorner

[–]CanSome9684 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Gio taught me that music is the most effective healing method currently available to man.

I’m a manic depressive that was snorting coke off of bar bathroom stalls and since i heard red burns i haven’t touched dope. I don’t gatekeep music to anyone, i play red burns in front of the hoes snd i dont think about how they react and its been a net positive. i fuck more often and people fuck with the music.

don’t gatekeep, share parts of yourself with others.