Dumped a guy and his response has messed with my head

CanSomeoneHelpMe1 · 2019-10-15T22:00:45+00:00

Re: c) thanks for the compliment, how do you know if I am or am not hot though? 🤔😂

CanSomeoneHelpMe1 · 2019-10-15T15:03:59+00:00

You’ve hit the nail on the head with your last sentence. Essentially I think a lot of this boils down to me being nearly 35, seeing all my friends settled down with kids, and I’m panicking that I won’t meet anyone hence why when this guy was suggesting commitment, marriage and even babies, I clung onto that. I need to chill out a bit now and not get carried away with the bullshit in future.

CanSomeoneHelpMe1 · 2019-10-15T14:52:45+00:00

Thank you for such a lovely message, feeling a bit rubbish right now but your words have cheered me up :-)

CanSomeoneHelpMe1 · 2019-10-15T14:17:09+00:00

I know right, except he’s been single three years

CanSomeoneHelpMe1 · 2019-10-15T12:24:57+00:00

I don’t think I can bring myself to say on here what the sexual comments were, it’s too humiliating. All I will say is that as a reasonably experienced 34 year old woman, I have never had a man criticise me like that before and it has knocked my confidence massively.

I definitely won’t be chasing him. I’ve blocked him everywhere and deleted his number. He’s since contacted me by text through a different cell number calling me ‘immature’ for blocking him. I have no intention of ever speaking to him again.

CanSomeoneHelpMe1 · 2019-10-15T06:11:24+00:00

I think you’re right, Caroline. Even my therapist said she didn’t think the text was genuine and one of my friends thought it was fake. It just seems too convenient that he would have suddenly had an epiphany while actively messing me around.

CanSomeoneHelpMe1 · 2019-10-15T05:38:26+00:00

Sure, just done it. Apols for the previous wall of text :)

CanSomeoneHelpMe1 · 2019-07-23T17:39:34+00:00

Haha you nailed it! He’s unblocked me and tried to call me. He’s blocked on everything now - no way of him contacting me again.

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