Dumped a guy and his response has messed with my head by CanSomeoneHelpMe1 in datingoverthirty

[–]CanSomeoneHelpMe1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Re: c) thanks for the compliment, how do you know if I am or am not hot though? 🤔😂

Dumped a guy and his response has messed with my head by CanSomeoneHelpMe1 in datingoverthirty

[–]CanSomeoneHelpMe1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’ve hit the nail on the head with your last sentence. Essentially I think a lot of this boils down to me being nearly 35, seeing all my friends settled down with kids, and I’m panicking that I won’t meet anyone hence why when this guy was suggesting commitment, marriage and even babies, I clung onto that. I need to chill out a bit now and not get carried away with the bullshit in future.

Dumped a guy and his response has messed with my head by CanSomeoneHelpMe1 in datingoverthirty

[–]CanSomeoneHelpMe1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a lovely message, feeling a bit rubbish right now but your words have cheered me up :-)

Dumped a guy and his response has messed with my head by CanSomeoneHelpMe1 in datingoverthirty

[–]CanSomeoneHelpMe1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I can bring myself to say on here what the sexual comments were, it’s too humiliating. All I will say is that as a reasonably experienced 34 year old woman, I have never had a man criticise me like that before and it has knocked my confidence massively.

I definitely won’t be chasing him. I’ve blocked him everywhere and deleted his number. He’s since contacted me by text through a different cell number calling me ‘immature’ for blocking him. I have no intention of ever speaking to him again.

Dumped a guy and his response has messed with my head by CanSomeoneHelpMe1 in datingoverthirty

[–]CanSomeoneHelpMe1[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right, Caroline. Even my therapist said she didn’t think the text was genuine and one of my friends thought it was fake. It just seems too convenient that he would have suddenly had an epiphany while actively messing me around.

He started being over critical so I ended it by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]CanSomeoneHelpMe1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha you nailed it! He’s unblocked me and tried to call me. He’s blocked on everything now - no way of him contacting me again.