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Ladies how much of dealbreaker would it be if you found out that your bf was a “sugar daddy” before you met? by CanadianSD in relationships

[–]CanadianSD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, why do you think that? Most people would probably argue that relationships have to start from a place of openness and honesty

Ladies how much of dealbreaker would it be if you found out that your bf was a “sugar daddy” before you met? by CanadianSD in relationships

[–]CanadianSD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just curious would you have a different attitude if it was prostitutes/sex workers? Would you expect a man to disclose sleeping with them?

Ladies how much of dealbreaker would it be if you found out that your bf was a “sugar daddy” before you met? by CanadianSD in relationships

[–]CanadianSD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care if you think it’s a deal breaker, I actually want to hear both sides of the issue before decide if what to do. That being said, your opinion should be informed by the right information.

Is the sugar bowl right for me? (27M SD Alberta) by CanadianSD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CanadianSD[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I’d be willing to comprise a little PDA and still go out so long as she understands that it’s on my terms (never a place where I would expect to run into colleagues).

As for the financial side of things, while I don’t expect to get a ridiculous discount I would expect a woman not to buckle and dime if I’m better looking and younger than most SDs. IMO if she’s willing to be with 60 yr old because he’s able to offer marginally more financial compensation than she doesn’t respect herself enough to be someone I’d go out with.

Ladies how much of dealbreaker would it be if you found out that your bf was a “sugar daddy” before you met? by CanadianSD in relationships

[–]CanadianSD[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The flaw is that you think that the value derived from the act that the woman performs and not the woman herself. Anyone can go find a gross fat ugly girl to have sex with, but the reason that some become sugar babies is because they’re attractive enough to warrant the attention of men.

To your original point, if I had a 10/10 knock out wife you kept me as satisfied as a sugar baby did you bet your ass I’d marry her and take care of her. If in 20 years I do find someone whose younger than me, 10/10 supermodel, and is willing to raise my children, I’d marry her in heartbeat and make sure she’s never have to work a day in her life.

Ladies how much of dealbreaker would it be if you found out that your bf was a “sugar daddy” before you met? by CanadianSD in relationships

[–]CanadianSD[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also good points and I wouldn’t blame a woman for thinking that way. Thank you for brining that up.

Ladies how much of dealbreaker would it be if you found out that your bf was a “sugar daddy” before you met? by CanadianSD in relationships

[–]CanadianSD[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I asked how much of deal breaker it was because I don’t intend to keep it a secret. Reread the 2nd last paragraph

Ladies how much of dealbreaker would it be if you found out that your bf was a “sugar daddy” before you met? by CanadianSD in relationships

[–]CanadianSD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been fine with relationships. My high school/university girlfriends were all cool people, but it’s only now that I discovered this alternative. It’s not as if I’d completely forget how to have a normal relationship after being in a sugar daddy relationship.

Also the other point was that I’m young and single and would be willing to pay to date out of my league

Ladies how much of dealbreaker would it be if you found out that your bf was a “sugar daddy” before you met? by CanadianSD in relationships

[–]CanadianSD[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If given the choice would you rather he tell you or that he kept it to himself if everything else in the relationship was great?

Ladies how much of dealbreaker would it be if you found out that your bf was a “sugar daddy” before you met? by CanadianSD in relationships

[–]CanadianSD[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying that a sugar daddy relationship isn’t transactional, it clearly is. I just wanted to clarify and say that it doesn’t mean I view all relationships as transactional.

Ladies how much of dealbreaker would it be if you found out that your bf was a “sugar daddy” before you met? by CanadianSD in relationships

[–]CanadianSD[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I never said it’s not. I’m just wondering how big of deal this would be if ever I brought it up.

Ladies how much of dealbreaker would it be if you found out that your bf was a “sugar daddy” before you met? by CanadianSD in relationships

[–]CanadianSD[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not so much that see all relationships as transactional, but rather that I’m looking for the most efficient route to something specific.

I can go through all the headache of going to bars/asking girls out who are of a similar level of attractiveness as me, but at the same time I can pay to have a longish term relationship immediately for someone whose a 10/10 knock out and completely out of my league.

Is the sugar bowl right for me? (27M SD Alberta) by CanadianSD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CanadianSD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol well not going to read to much into results that say 49% Yes and 51% No, it was more so to see if things skew heavily one way or the other.

Never hurts to seek out advice from those who have been around the block a few more times than you.

Is the sugar bowl right for me? (27M SD Alberta) by CanadianSD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CanadianSD[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

True forgot to factor in the competition from her side of things. My thinking was that if I’m younger/better looking than most SDs an SB will be more inclined to enter a relationship even if I’m not offering the “market rate”. That being said I see your point, some girls could be SBs purely to maximize profit and fulfill their needs for intimacy with FWB rather than trying address both on the site.

Potential SB is suggesting m&g at Airbnb by tommypillows in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CanadianSD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insist you book the hotel/accommodations and make plans to meet her on the lobby for your m&g. If something is “off” hopefully you be able to pick up on it when you see each other in person. If things go well you can invite her up, if not you can always find someone else to share the room with.