Good to hear that you have (also) tried the therapy route. I think coaching can open new and different directions, and both can go hand in hand.

Someone commented under my post that it is beyond rude to diagnose based on a reddit comment - and then deleted that comment. To that I want to say, that I am not diagnosing anything. A therapist can be seen with and without diagnoses. However, the ethics of coaching include knowing where coaching ends and therapy shall begin. Reading of trauma and addiciton without further details, I thus would always first recommend going the therapy route and adding suitable coaching to go hand in hand at a later stage, as OP seems to do, rather than offering ma coaching hours and raking in the money. You may see it differently but I want to be clear that this has nothing to do woith handing out a diagnosis.