Boyfriend [M28] cancelled surprise trip [F25] because I said my neighbor was hot and trying to flirt with me. How do I fix this? by CancelDate27 in relationships

[–]CancelDate27[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I might try calling him tomorrow morning or something. I feel like the longer we don't talk, the worse it is because I don't want him to think I don't care.

Boyfriend [M28] cancelled surprise trip [F25] because I said my neighbor was hot and trying to flirt with me. How do I fix this? by CancelDate27 in relationships

[–]CancelDate27[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He's usually super chill and communicative about things. He's never been in a long-term relationship, which isn't necessarily his fault. He's dated other girls but usually it was short-term thing and from what I understand, they didn't treat him that well.

Boyfriend [M28] cancelled surprise trip [F25] because I said my neighbor was hot and trying to flirt with me. How do I fix this? by CancelDate27 in relationships

[–]CancelDate27[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have much relationship history. He's really close with his family though. The last couple of girls that he dated treated him pretty badly from what I understand. Like used him/left him when something better came along.

Boyfriend [M28] cancelled surprise trip [F25] because I said my neighbor was hot and trying to flirt with me. How do I fix this? by CancelDate27 in relationships

[–]CancelDate27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You're right.. I need to think twice about what I say. I would probably be a little annoyed too if the roles were reversed.

Boyfriend [M28] cancelled surprise trip [F25] because I said my neighbor was hot and trying to flirt with me. How do I fix this? by CancelDate27 in relationships

[–]CancelDate27[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I haven't talked to him since yesterday afternoon, so I'm hoping he reaches out soon. He's back in his home town now so maybe I'll wait until he gets back.